How does one cope with knowing they'll be alone for the rest of their life? Like not just having no girlfriend but having no friends either Is life even still worth living?
How does one cope with knowing they'll be alone for the rest of their life...
Jaxson Price
Blake Young
well personally OP I just don't think about it and do my best to self improve by stopping porn, fapping and working out ect in the hopes I can break out of said position someday, but I've been trying for 4 years now and haven't made much progress.
Jeremiah Martinez
OP, have been in the same boat as you. You need to learn to live for yourself. Its scary but empowering. Master your destiny, your life, People leave, love fades, wives take half your net worth. Follow YOUR dreams, find them, please you. Life is absolutely still worth living, the real question is are you still worthy of a life?
Adrian Phillips
I've been a loner even since I was a young child. Have had girlfriends in the past, and it was all fine. But now when I meet women and start spending time with them, I find myself wanting to get away from them as soon as possible so I can return to my peace and solitude. Still kind of hang onto hope that I could meet someone I'm compatible with, but at this point it seems really unlikely. In all honesty, I feel I'm just avoiding tons of headaches and heartaches by putting up walls, and it doesn't really bother me too much. Mostly just want sex occasionally, so I meet women, get to that point, and break it off shortly after.
/blog holy shit
Hunter Sanchez
you learn to live with it after a few years my dude
sure you´ll always be teetering between a nervous breakdown and suicide but living is always better than dying
Jonathan Turner
well today i've learned a valuable lesson, so let me tell you, you either die trying or just dont give a fuck and do whatever you like, which does sound better. personally, i just play vidya and listen to my favourite songs all day and thats what keeps me going. and yes it could be a 100 times better, but its not bad.
Daniel Robinson
I'm at a low point in my life. I've lost friends and family, somewhat recently. I've no family left. I was adrift for almost a year. Eventually I picked myself up again, invested my time into something, only to lose it and spiral back into chaos. But it wasn't long before I picked myself up again, changed course, and tried again.
I'm at somewhat of an advantage as I've had few friends and family to begin with. But for me, my goals shifted when I realized I wanted more than circling the drain of life. I wanted my own place. I wanted disposable income. I wanted to be in a better place than I am now. Through everything I have lost, whether it was friends, family, or even plans I had to better myself, eventually I self correct. I find a reason to get up again. If you have that, you will know that the chaos in your life is always temporary.
Noah Wright
I’ve had no friends for a while now. I live in an area where people aren’t ever really your friend just a convenience. It bothered me for a while knowing I had real friends where I use to live that I’m not able to see when I want since I live so far. I just learned to deal with it and online helps with that I have some real online friends and as silly as that sounds the friends online are better than any friend I had in this shitty town.
Carson Wilson
Oh stop being a faggot.
The fact is you don't want a girlfriend that bad, otherwise you'd be out trying to get one right now instead of sitting around crying on the internet like a fat little bitch. Fuck you OP. Stop being a fucking baby
Jayden Thomas
No one has to be alone if their standards are low enough
Ayden Bennett
are you okay, friend?
Elijah Price
What if your in a fucking wheel chair? Even ugly chicks do not want
Lucas Lopez
Yeah I'm fine
OP is pretty pathetic though
I NEVER GO OUTSIDE AND WATCH PORN ALL DAY AND PLAY VIDEO GAMES AND EAT JUNK FOOD ALL DAY LONG! ALSO I MAKE NO EFFORT TO GET A GIRL!! WHY AM I SO SAD???? WAHHHHHH!!!! so sick of these retards
Benjamin Garcia
I fantasize about falling in love and getting married. I think that because my fantasy doesn't extend beyond the honeymoon, that it exists as a self-gratification fantasy. I'm not interested in developing a relationship, I'm interested in the idea of someone validating me through a monogamous relationship.
Considering this, the temptation to travel the world and sleep with different women has become more and more attractive to me. It's a poor long-term strategy, but considering a future without any meaningful relationship, meaningless sex with different women sounds like a good consolation prize.
Aaron Rivera
>so sick of these retards
It's just another thinly skinned frog poster thread. All they have to do is go outside, but they won't, too comfortable in the comfort zone.
Isaiah Sanchez
Find a crippled chick. Play bumper cars together
Justin Bell
I have no standards and am still completely alone even on the internet
Kevin Jones
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Brody Reed
Well it depends. Did you actually try? Put forth some effort and get out there? Or did you sit around and wait for someone to find you? Big difference.
The only time you can actually give up is after being hurt badly or losing someone important.
Julian Young
The secret of happiness is low expectations. I've been alone all.my life too. It's the looking around seeing other people have people, that the friction comes from. But they are more normal, there are more normal people to be with. The pain comes from the unreasonable comparison of their social lives to yours. But as a weirdo, by nature, that is not out there for you, as easily. Its an unreasonable expectation. Be greatful to be different, normalcy is a redundant non-event, and being more exculsive about your friendships only makes them more special.
Charles Martin
just start doing drugs you coward, they're better than friends
Caleb Williams
How wrong this is and the constant bad advice. If someone acting naturally doesnt naturally bring other people like them into their lives, there shouldn't be unnatural effort into forced interactions.
It's like saying eat shit until your are into it.
Caleb Wilson
Join a Militia. Doesnt matter which but you can make friends, learn skills and find a new purpose in life.
John Turner
Acting natural is not equivalent to being desirable. Take off the fedora, shave the neckbeard, and learn a skill or two. Nobody is going to randomly knock on your door and ask for friendship or a date.
In life, there aren't participation trophies.
Kayden Watson
>animefag
>joining a militia
cool larp
Lucas Adams
Show me 1 anime that the pic is in. 1, just have to show 1. That is right you little bitch, there is 0. 0 animes that picture has been in. Go STFU by chugging more cum from your girl's boyfriend's cock.
Oliver Bennett
Someone is gonna smell the need bones in that person though, even if they can fake it for a while, they will.be exposed. What a waste of everyone's time.
Grayson Hall
*NERD BONES
Elijah Young
> in life, there aren't participation trophies.
Yes there are. In fact for everyone else, those trophies are what just drops into their lives by being average. A job, wife, kids. They don't even have to try. You bootstrap fantasies about being a normal person just show how much you don't get it. They don't have to try. It's all high school. And nobody wants you anymore in larger life than they did then. You win by not playing.
Gavin Hill
I sincerely wish I could live in your fantasy world. If you don't try, you don't get anything. Short of trust fund babies, life isn't fair. Besides, it's not like I said to abandon yourself. Just add on.
Zachary Walker
If you coped with the problems that cause your loneliness in a healthy way you wouldn't have to cope with loneliness