Ask a complete failure in life anything

Ask a complete failure in life anything.

> 36 year old male
> kissless virgin
> no friends
> bad relationship with family
> minimum wage job despite university degrees
> chronic illness

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I've got a degree in psychology.

Why not tell me why you think you're a failure, OP? Do all of those things matter to you that much? Is that what you think you want or is it what society wants?

Also, what job do you do? Is it bad?

>Why not tell me why you think you're a failure, OP?

See above.

>Do all of those things matter to you that much? Is that what you think you want or is it what society wants?

It's what I want.

>Also, what job do you do? Is it bad?

I currently work in a supermarket.

Didn't you already make this fucking thread a few days ago? Why did your nigger ass make it again?

Because I am a fucking autist and thus love repetitive behaviour.

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Tell me more about your past. I want to know what kept you from losing your virginity? Did you ever try approaching females? How do you feel about women in general? What was the outcome when you approached the girls?

You said you have a bad relationship with your family and have no friends, why is that? Did you have an argument with your parents?

As for your job, is it temporary? How long have you been working there with that university degree? Can you move on to a better job or are you living paycheck to paycheck?

What is your favorite color?

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>Tell me more about your past.

Lower middle class background. Loving parents.

>I want to know what kept you from losing your virginity? Did you ever try approaching females?

Yes. In my teens, I made the typical mistake and tried to befriend females I was interested in first. Later, I tried to make my intentions clear as soon as possible. However, I am generally socially awkward so I was never successful.

>How do you feel about women in general?

Alright. In my teens and early 20s, most of my friends were women. Might be due to the fact that I studied in a field which was 60-70% female (biology).

>What was the outcome when you approached the girls?

Sometimes outright rejection. But usually, avoidance.

>You said you have a bad relationship with your family and have no friends, why is that?

I moved away for university and we simply spoke less and less. They also think I am a failure. I used to be the first person in my family to ever go to university. But looking back, all of my cousins are now better off job-wise and family wise.

>Did you have an argument with your parents?

No.

>As for your job, is it temporary?

I though of it as something transient while job hunting.

>How long have you been working there with that university degree?

About a year.

>Can you move on to a better job or are you living paycheck to paycheck?

I would move to a better job if I found one. Still spending most of my times writing job applications.

there's plenty places you can take a psych degree.
im going to guess so your 26. so 10 years economy crashed. alright I understand things got tough for everyone. probably couldn't find a psych job then. theres no excuse now. you lack the ambition to make anything of your self now. you have to knowledge to understand why you are where you are. what possiable steps you could take. but you dident and you failed.
nothing in life is easier and fortune favors the bold.

a quote from one of my favorite anime. “Don’t beg for things, do it yourself. Or you won’t get anything.”

At least your not a yellow poster, OP.

what degree do you have user?

I have a Bachelors in biochemistry, a Master in biomedicine and a PhD in medical science (which is just a fancy name for molecular biology in a medical context).

just fucked a chick that lost her virginity a year before I fucked her. she has fucked 15-16 guys before me. that's more sexual partners than different women I have hugged in my life. in this game, you're always the loser. love is overrated. pussy is overrated too. I could probably survive on buying an escort twice a year and feel genuine contempt in my life

ok, academically wow, but too overqualified to job seeking I guess. Or maybe not private job material.
For the other side, the North American economy is not looking well (it's slowly getting fuck, so not a pretty horizon)

What about an academical job? maybe a college or abroad university

And about the women (succubus), better suppose every single one of them is a gold digger, so you need gold (ie money, stability, a good personality or an interesting life) so get your shit together at least in one dimension and women sooner than later will come to you.

Nothing of this is easy, but you know, if you can always be a hero, why not play this shit as a game, or try

Tomorrow you can be a hero, but do today something that you may fell proud or something

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>For the other side, the North American economy is not looking well (it's slowly getting fuck, so not a pretty horizon)

I'm in Europe. Even though I spent the last six years in the US.

>What about an academical job? maybe a college or abroad university

Extremely hard to get faculty positions. I tried for a long time.

Europe is kind of fucked already, move to south-america and teach English or another language

Oh so what you're saying is you've never taken any opportunities

I'm a native German speaker. Is there a demand?

Never had any opportunities.

the problem is not the opportunities he didn't took
but how bad he fucked up or was fucked over in the beginning and the levels of benzodiazepines in his brain

English, German, French or Italian are the languages here in Chile people try to learn in high-school because of heritage or socio-economic status

OP people like people who do things for them. Your value as a person is based on how capable you are. Would you want to be friends with someone who isn't interesting, isn't exciting, isn't special in any way, doesn't act passionately about anything, and whose only "positive" quality is being nice/a decent person? No, you wouldn't. You, and everyone else (including women) want people that can do things for them.

Pick up an interesting hobby, learn to paint, play an instrument, become a really good cook, hell even seriously start a youtube or twitch channel if that's something you can be passionate about. When you do that, if you really go all out for it, you'll start to attract people towards you naturally and build up your confidence in yourself.

Find one thing you can REALLY care about, and spend every waking moment devoting yourself to that one thing. That's how you crawl out of the hole you find yourself in. That's how you make these bad feelings go away, with sustained effort towards something you care about. Every time you feel bad, pick yourself up by the bootstraps and work towards that one thing. After a little while, the bad feelings go away and get replaced with tremendous motivation.

But the worst thing you can do for yourself is sit around and waste your days away on Yea Forums / reddit / netflix / video games making no progress in your life. You'll only feel worse and hate yourself for it.

Not everything can be reduced to Machiavellianism

you get hell of a point thou

>OP people like people who do things for them. Your value as a person is based on how capable you are. Would you want to be friends with someone who isn't interesting, isn't exciting, isn't special in any way, doesn't act passionately about anything, and whose only "positive" quality is being nice/a decent person? No, you wouldn't. You, and everyone else (including women) want people that can do things for them.

You are right about that. I'm not interesting, exciting or special. I am boring as fuck.

>Pick up an interesting hobby, learn to paint, play an instrument, become a really good cook, hell even seriously start a youtube or twitch channel if that's something you can be passionate about. When you do that, if you really go all out for it, you'll start to attract people towards you naturally and build up your confidence in yourself.

I learned the piano as a child but never got beyond being decent. Just because you practice something or enjoy something, doesn't mean you will get good at it.

At the moment, I really enjoy sports (particularly rock climbing, around 15h per week), cooking and reading. Doesn't mean I am good at any of those things.

>Find one thing you can REALLY care about, and spend every waking moment devoting yourself to that one thing. That's how you crawl out of the hole you find yourself in. That's how you make these bad feelings go away, with sustained effort towards something you care about. Every time you feel bad, pick yourself up by the bootstraps and work towards that one thing. After a little while, the bad feelings go away and get replaced with tremendous motivation.

Since I was a child, I was interested in medical research and I was super into cancer genetics since high school. So I started to study biochemistry and molecular biology and worked my ass off for decades (60-70h weeks were the usual), Look where I am today.

Hello brother

A smile is just a frown upside down. Stop projecting negativity and start projecting positivity, karma rules what goes around comes around.

Sounds hard when you are down but its easier than you think.

Oh and nutrition. Lousy diet will fuck up your mood.

Peace

Fuck off retard normy

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Yeah

I've got a degree in metapsychology.

Why not tell me why you think it's important you have a degree in psychology? Does that little diploma matter to you that much? Is that what you think you want or is it what society wants?

Also, why don't you have a job that comes with a title like psychologist, psychiatrist or therapist? Are you flipping burgers?

you missed the guy, that's not OP
This is OP

Are you really that dense, or did you just skim it so fast you entirely missed the point?

german in mexico over here

with your academics, you could probably do very well south america

if you'd rather teach german, you could also do very well here doing so

youll probably do much better with girls over here as well

ive been here for 15 years and its fine lol

if someone told you why they thought they were a failure, would that help you play a game of memory to match it up to trivial data you read somewhere?

that's what's wrong with psychology. it's like a bunch of bad clues that point to morphing syndromes; morphing with each new edition of the DSM. unless you got a full philosophy bachelor's, i'd expect your psychology to be cookie cutter, pin the tail on the donkey shit.

sad same but im not old

>> 36 year old male
38
>> kissless virgin
yap
>> no friends
yap
>> bad relationship with family
I just have my mom and she got cancer
>> minimum wage job despite university degrees
NEET didn't go to high school
>> chronic illness
no

red like the red army

Damn dude. I'm a NEET but I still managed to lose over 100 pounds and get laid for the first time at 25. Family is great. Social life is as good as it can be for a fucking hermit like me. Things have been pretty sweet the last two years tbh. All more than I deserve. (Have sex) literally changed my entire life and yes, my personality too. Years of built up social anxiety and bitterness all just kind of faded away and I mellowed out hard. I'd tell you not to give up but I'm a faggot, and I sincerely doubt getting girls is as easy as getting guys. I still believe in you though user! It's never too late!

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let me rephrase it
I think now that I didn't understand your previous post, If mine is invalid, then I missed completely

I've got a degree in parapsychology.

Why not tell me why you think it's important you have a degree in metapsychology? Does that little diploma matter to you that much? Is that what you think you want or is it what society wants?

Also, why don't you have a job that comes with a title like metapsychology, psychiatrist or therapist? Are you flipping burgers?

>I'm a NEET but I still managed to lose over 100 pounds and get laid for the first time at 25.

Congrats. That's almost two thirds of my current bodyweight.

Someone get this man a protein shake!

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I already supplement protein.
Gaining weight and building muscle is super hard for me though.

Do you like Jazz music?

Not really into jazz.

I'm not sure how anyone could be

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why do u make this thread everyday?

As said above: Because I am a fucking autist and thus love repetitive behaviour.

k...

So how's the job?

I just have to say, you're a very strong.man for not an heroing by now. I've had a mind bogglingly better life than you and legit wanted to be a hero many times. I'll tell you this it may be better to never love than to have as many awesome women ripped out of your heart as I have.

In what city do you live
do you live alone
whats your degree
what was your thesis
how much do you earn

You're making it worse not believing in yourself user give himself more credit. Go out there. Be confident for no reason. People might think you're a joke but fuck then in the goat ass. You're the man I said so.

>In what city do you live

Berlin.

>do you live alone

Yes.

>whats your degree

See here>what was your thesis

Without naming the title, it was on genomics of pancreatic and colorectal cancer.

>how much do you earn

Around 18k / yr.

You seem cool.

Aspergers?

I have the most important question for you, son: Why the fuck are you wasting your night feeling bad for yourself?

You kind of remind me of myself, except I'm a NEET and I've never been to uni.

I'm 25 and a virgin mate, most women are just sluts and go for "Chads".

Post these threads more often mate, I can relate to you.

Go fuck yourself faggot pussy ass bitch

older than you both
not kissless virgin , but been alone for years
no friends
relations w/family, not bad actually. could be a bit better. working on it.
make very good money but hate the job
health: it's not a chronic condition yet, only a matter of time...

You are the king of Yea Forums.

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Do you want to lose your virginity?