So my girl just had a miscarriage and is absolutely devastated and suicidal over it. I honestly don't know what to do and I'm scared
So my girl just had a miscarriage and is absolutely devastated and suicidal over it...
step one:
stop watching/posting porn on Yea Forums
step two:
stop masturbating
Comfort her for now. Later, therapy & grief counseling for both of you.
I guess you're at a ...
... loss.
step one. go to an actual porn post and post that you faggot
Fuck her again
Therapy. Talk to your family about it and friends aswell.
This can take years to get over. Talking from a family-members perspective.
Honestly, on the scale of things she could be impacted by, it’s not a major factor. It happens. If she is going to come unglued by basic biological factors, it might be wise to assess her overall stability in the face of real adversity, and decide if this is a good partnership.
I've been there, user. It's fucking excruciating. You will both need time to heal. Don't expect the process to be easy. But don't try to hold anything in. The sooner you both are able to come to terms with what happened- which, by the way, is not something which should be rushed. just let it happen as it will- then the sooner you'll be able to find a healthy way to cope with it moving forward.
It's not easy at all. And, trust me... it will always hurt. But stick together and get help if you need it and you'll be fine.
Op here, This miscarriage happened right after she lost her best friend who she's known since middle school to a car accident and her mother to a heart attack and she's been through a lot and this miscarriage just hit both of us hard since it's our first child
You need to shut the fuck up. I know the pain. I think about it every fucking god damn day. It absolutely is a "major factor"
People react to situations differently. Just because you see this one way, that doesn't mean OP or his gf are wrong.
pump another one in her.
it happens. buddy's wife had one two kids ago. still shot out two more.
Therapy is very important. Wait to tell family if you don't feel ready or have a family that's previously had negative reactions to mental illness. This shit will fuck your head up, user. Your girl deserves to healthily move past this.
Hey, it's me-
user, just take your time. Both of you. I never reply to threads, but I jumped on this one. You'll both be aright. Just be the support for one another that you both need. And whatever you do, do NOT try to face this on your own. That is very dangerous.
You should probably get off Yea Forums and comfort her you dumbass
Sorry for your
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user
Ok. But, what does that actually have to do with the price of ass in China? If you are making excuses for her, you are not ready to be a father. If she is making them, she is not ready to be a mother. If both of you are lamenting and playing drama, you are both not fit parents. You should both count your current blessings, get your heads out of your asses and quit doing the melodrama, get your shit together and get ready for real life. It’s going to hit you both like a freight train one way or the other. You both dodged a bullet this time, next time it might bind your immature asses together. Get wise, or be prepared for a harsh reality check.
Also, fuck the boohoo sob story, you both have no idea what adulthood entails.
I did that until she fell asleep dumbass
No one will shut the fuck up because you have a temper tantrum, in realty your faggot ass needs to hear what a faggot you are, on an hourly basis. Maybe it will get your head out of your ass...,
>probably not
I'm sorry for your loss.jog
feed her the pieces
I been there twice user time will heal the pain talk to you're g on how you feel see a therapist I hope you feel better soon.
Make sure she knows it's not her fault
Show her loss memes
Shit happens.
get her a psychiatric evaluation. if she wont go, call paramedics
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