Be me > 17 at the time > just started talking to a beautiful girl, feeling that excitement of a new crush > have had heart broken before so i know not to rush it and get too attached but everthing seems so good > begin relationship, things going steady for 2 years > girl was originally super self conscious and shy > i was always supportive and lifted her up as much as possible > too supportive it would seem
Keep in mind that i have very traditional values, the classic family model, being modest, being wholesome, etc.
> girl starts an instagram account so she can follow me and her friends. Makes just one post > instant attention and boost in followers cause pretty nd curvy girl > dont think much of it > ffw a couple of months, posting regularly now, rando guys commenting heart eyes and kiss marks on her posts > when asking her who they were and why they were doing it considering shes taken, she snapped at me, telling me to stop worrying and forget about it > okay, no big deal
Boy was I wrong
> makeup and clothing becomes sluttier by the week > frequent posting for no other reason than to show herself off and get attention > getting really annoyed with it now, call it inappropriate behavior for someone in a relationship > she only responds with attitude and anger, not apologetic whatsoever > stay relatively calm, demonstrate to her that her actions are clearly begging for attention and that if she was being loyal and faithful she would only need that attention from me > i give her loads of praise and attention to make her happy, yet she still feels the need to post this crap > she explodes, calls me manipulative and paranoid and controlling > fair enough maybe i was being a bit of a dick bu... oh wait > dm from some guy named Jacob
“Hey man i hate to break bad news but i just found out youre her boyfriend. Shes been sending me nudes and all kinds of dirty talk. I hate to get between a guy and his girl but i had no idea you even existed so i thought id make up for it by letting you know whats going on. Again, sorry to have to tell you”
> honestly i wasnt mad at the guy, seemed genuine, and i wasnt suprised either > but now i have proof, bitch > decide not to spill the beans yet, lets see how horrible she really has become > pressure her a couple days later, saying shes acting degenerately and i disapprove > another explosion in my face, she genuinely doesnt care about my feelings at this point, i can tell > when we dont talk about shit like social media and behavior things are great > she acts like nothing is wrong and is happy as a clam > ask her to sit down cause i wanna have a serious talk about stuff > tell her i dont want her to explode and get angry, i just wanna talk things through and help settle my nerves a bit. I want a serious and civil discussion > tell her my honest feelings, i still care deeply for her but im concerned with how involved with social media shes getting and its making me question her loyalty > she gets huffy but doesnt shout at me like normal > says shes been nothing but loyal and shes never done anything to make me think otherwise > again she shifts all blame onto me for even thinking these things > at this point her audacity is really stunning me > draw the conversation to a close, right as im about to leave the house, tell her i know about jacob, an what she sent him, and i have no doubt shes been doing the same with others > her eyes go wide, she opens her mouth to say something but just bursts into tears > tell her to stfu about loyalty and lying to my face when ive done nothing but be good to her > leave and drive straight home
> as i open the door to my house i check my phone, 12 missed calls from her, too many texts to read > get rid of any evidence she was ever in my life the next day > i check her social media, all traces of accounts are deleted, shes still trying to contact me through text or phone though > respond with one text
“Dont act so upset, you were doing this for a long time and acting perfectly peachy even when i questioned it. Youre not upset that you broke my heart and ruined a two and a half year relationship. Youre upset because all this time i was right, and i just irrefutably proved it. You dont care about me anymore and youve shown that. You just care that you got caught. Good luck in life with that attitude”
> never responded to any other texts or calls > join a discord call with my friends, let them know whats up > they console me and offer to have a boys weekend to forget about all the thots of the world > settle down to play some dota and make plans for a weekend of excessive drinking, guns, and wild atv riding in the mountains > fuck women
The 19th amendment was fundamentally a mistake, women have a toxic mentality and a hive mind like way of thinking. Giving them the right to vote makes them think that their opinions matter. And as they have been expressing their opinions through social media they have swung it into a more and more degenerative state. Cause more and more women to become said degenerates. Its a nasty slippy slope im afraid and the only real cure is to either convince your woman to cut social media out of her life before its too late, or to assert proper authority and dominance over her to make her listen to you and accept your superiority as the man of tge relationship. “Empowered” women will walk all over you and ruin your life simply so they can have extra fleeting pleasures. If your woman is not traditional or wholesome she will cheat, she will lie, and she will break your heart. Choose your women wisely anons
