Stuck between missing her and hating her

i can relate, i also have zero advice

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If I'm not lying, it was unhealthy for a while though, with us arguing over dumb shit like driver's ed, and it got so unhealthy that she would leave me as "just a friend" just to go back to me the next day.

One of my exes popped back into my life recently after i left her sorry ass for being a big time thot. I hate talking to her again because we got along rather well during the relationship and it was fun so its nice to hear from her but ik she hasnt changed. But we dont see eye to eye morally and her degenerative tendencies and my strong will broke us apart. Shes gorgeous and fun but ik if i give her a second chance its gonna blow up again over the same exact issues. Yet i still want to try again

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Do you think its possible to not argue with her? Or do you guys just have such opposing views that it will always end in conflict? What was the arguement over drivers ed?

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I feel you user, and I hope shit works out for you man.

My girlfriend of 5 years and I split about 2 hours ago. I'm here for you user

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What happened to it? Thats a long one to break off

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We just clash harshly. With the driver's ed thing, my dad got a ticket and I was helping him clear it up by doing online driver's ed classes which made him do security questions every 30 mins or it would log him out and even disable his account, which is what happened. Was a little frustrated and told her and she just kinda lashed out at me saying "Of course the security's tight you dumbass". Dunno if I'm sensitive, but that shit didn't help. Point is: we just clash over the dumbest shit that there's no real way of avoiding it, plus I think it's a little too late for apologies.

Thanks for the birds user

Fuck that, she sounds toxic as fuck. And i think i know what you mean, does she give a dissenting opinion no matter what the subject is?

Really felt like it. Dunno why she kinda just fell into this "fuck you" attitude near the end. Can't say I was perfect, but still no reason to lash out

She has been struggling with depression for a while. I found out about several serious health problems of my own. Neither of us had the capacity to support eachother. Our issues fuled eachother. Lots of unhealthy arguments, we both just need to focus on ourselves.

Any chance if turning it around? Ik its so hard to start anew after a long relationship like that

Damn user, sounds tough man. I hope you can heal soon. Remember we're here for you man

Sounds to me like she just had given up early for no reason, women bro

Also pic related to this entire thread big time

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It really be like that sometimes, eh user? Ps, I have work in a couple hours, so I gotta get some rest. I hope this thread doesn't get lost haha

>tfw she was a long distance gumar
>tfw she found a real boyfriend
>tfw i think I was in love with her and still am
>tfw i can't even blame her

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I don't think I want to honestly. We split about 2 months ago and got back together. It just isn't working. I love her and her family a lot, but shit happens and sometimes you have to focus on yourself. Itll be better for both of us in the long run.

Thanks user. Itll be alright. Time and tinder gold heal all wounds.

Ill try and make it stick around, this thread is now also a women hate/complaint thread. Share your bad stories abt how women have fucked you over in some way. How many other anons can relate?

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You can blame her. If you had something going on there and she left you. She can just use ldr as an excuse of thotty behavior

But I'm married. She deserves a real boyfriend. Not a one weekend a month can't go out in public in our hometown boyfriend.

Good luck user, this world is a cruel place. Hopefully you have better luck in future. Have a frog to cheer you up

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Ah, then maybe theres a point to it, i thought it was a full time thing. Is your marriage sexless?

No. I'd be lying if I said we have sex as often as I want to, but we do have sex. It's more about the romance. She made me feel wanted. The text messages. Driving nine hours to spend a weekend in a hotel room just to see me. It had been years since I felt that. I had forgotten how quickly you can get wrapped up in it.

Perhaps discuss it with your wife, or you could put some effort into that childish love again with your wife and im sure she would reciprocate

I fear we're beyond repair. She's no longer the girl I fell in love with and I'm no longer the guy that fell in love with her. If it weren't for the kids I'd have asked for a divorce years ago. Before I had even met the other girl.

Whats changed between you guys?

I don't know. I don't feel the same way when I look at her. We hardly really talk about anything unless it's what the kids have been doing or how my day at work was. We don't even fight anymore. I mean, that sounds like a good thing, but it's like we don't even care enough to fight. We got married too young. I think we're just sick of each other. And I'm the only one who ever makes an effort and am met mostly with rejection. She started taking anti depressants recently, I'm hoping that helps. She's just miserable most of the time. She's turning into her father.

have you tried sucker her dick?

Oh dear, do you think you’ll move apart once the kids are away for college? You could get some young blood again

This, OP

Women cant resist suckered dicks

That's fifteen years away. For all I know I'll be dead or fat by then. Or, God forbid, bald.

Hey man you would be surprised how many of my smoking hot college girl friends are high key into that suburban white dad aesthetic. I dont get it really but they always crave it

Anyway, my shift is ending. Gotta drive back home. Thanks for listening, user.

Just blocking was honestly kind of a dick move, but I don't blame you... hear me out, she deserves an apology, because what you did gives her more reason yo be sad than you.

You should apologize to her, and just straight up tell her "that you needed to move on, because you couldn't take all the arguing anymore. That it was best for you both, but you are sorry about the way you did it"

It will make you feel alot better about the way you handled the situation, and also give you some closure. Just stick to pointing out what you both can agree on: It was not a healthy relationship

Drive safe lad, have a frog for good luck

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Be me
> 17 at the time
> just started talking to a beautiful girl, feeling that excitement of a new crush
> have had heart broken before so i know not to rush it and get too attached but everthing seems so good
> begin relationship, things going steady for 2 years
> girl was originally super self conscious and shy
> i was always supportive and lifted her up as much as possible
> too supportive it would seem

Keep in mind that i have very traditional values, the classic family model, being modest, being wholesome, etc.

> girl starts an instagram account so she can follow me and her friends. Makes just one post
> instant attention and boost in followers cause pretty nd curvy girl
> dont think much of it
> ffw a couple of months, posting regularly now, rando guys commenting heart eyes and kiss marks on her posts
> when asking her who they were and why they were doing it considering shes taken, she snapped at me, telling me to stop worrying and forget about it
> okay, no big deal

Boy was I wrong

> makeup and clothing becomes sluttier by the week
> frequent posting for no other reason than to show herself off and get attention
> getting really annoyed with it now, call it inappropriate behavior for someone in a relationship
> she only responds with attitude and anger, not apologetic whatsoever
> stay relatively calm, demonstrate to her that her actions are clearly begging for attention and that if she was being loyal and faithful she would only need that attention from me
> i give her loads of praise and attention to make her happy, yet she still feels the need to post this crap
> she explodes, calls me manipulative and paranoid and controlling
> fair enough maybe i was being a bit of a dick bu... oh wait
> dm from some guy named Jacob

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“Hey man i hate to break bad news but i just found out youre her boyfriend. Shes been sending me nudes and all kinds of dirty talk. I hate to get between a guy and his girl but i had no idea you even existed so i thought id make up for it by letting you know whats going on. Again, sorry to have to tell you”

> honestly i wasnt mad at the guy, seemed genuine, and i wasnt suprised either
> but now i have proof, bitch
> decide not to spill the beans yet, lets see how horrible she really has become
> pressure her a couple days later, saying shes acting degenerately and i disapprove
> another explosion in my face, she genuinely doesnt care about my feelings at this point, i can tell
> when we dont talk about shit like social media and behavior things are great
> she acts like nothing is wrong and is happy as a clam
> ask her to sit down cause i wanna have a serious talk about stuff
> tell her i dont want her to explode and get angry, i just wanna talk things through and help settle my nerves a bit. I want a serious and civil discussion
> tell her my honest feelings, i still care deeply for her but im concerned with how involved with social media shes getting and its making me question her loyalty
> she gets huffy but doesnt shout at me like normal
> says shes been nothing but loyal and shes never done anything to make me think otherwise
> again she shifts all blame onto me for even thinking these things
> at this point her audacity is really stunning me
> draw the conversation to a close, right as im about to leave the house, tell her i know about jacob, an what she sent him, and i have no doubt shes been doing the same with others
> her eyes go wide, she opens her mouth to say something but just bursts into tears
> tell her to stfu about loyalty and lying to my face when ive done nothing but be good to her
> leave and drive straight home

> as i open the door to my house i check my phone, 12 missed calls from her, too many texts to read
> get rid of any evidence she was ever in my life the next day
> i check her social media, all traces of accounts are deleted, shes still trying to contact me through text or phone though
> respond with one text

“Dont act so upset, you were doing this for a long time and acting perfectly peachy even when i questioned it. Youre not upset that you broke my heart and ruined a two and a half year relationship. Youre upset because all this time i was right, and i just irrefutably proved it. You dont care about me anymore and youve shown that. You just care that you got caught. Good luck in life with that attitude”

> never responded to any other texts or calls
> join a discord call with my friends, let them know whats up
> they console me and offer to have a boys weekend to forget about all the thots of the world
> settle down to play some dota and make plans for a weekend of excessive drinking, guns, and wild atv riding in the mountains
> fuck women

The 19th amendment was fundamentally a mistake, women have a toxic mentality and a hive mind like way of thinking. Giving them the right to vote makes them think that their opinions matter. And as they have been expressing their opinions through social media they have swung it into a more and more degenerative state. Cause more and more women to become said degenerates. Its a nasty slippy slope im afraid and the only real cure is to either convince your woman to cut social media out of her life before its too late, or to assert proper authority and dominance over her to make her listen to you and accept your superiority as the man of tge relationship. “Empowered” women will walk all over you and ruin your life simply so they can have extra fleeting pleasures. If your woman is not traditional or wholesome she will cheat, she will lie, and she will break your heart. Choose your women wisely anons

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This. It’s hard but for the best.