Yea Forumsros I am feeling really sad lately, there is this girl ive been speaking to as of lately, almost 2 months now...

Yea Forumsros I am feeling really sad lately, there is this girl ive been speaking to as of lately, almost 2 months now. I think im losing her to be honest, when I try to start a conversation she doesn't continue in the way she did before. Her excuse before was that she was stressed and depressed about graduation and her grades. Pretty sure shes lost interest in me because we arent going out as frequently as we used to in the beginning. There's a whole lot of other things too. What do you think bros?

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Shit idk, talk to her about how you feel. Be honest to her OP, that you don't wanna lose this relationship, that you wanna make it workout

Forget about it, everything changes after high school anyway. Also underage /b

Im 20 shes 19

She found someone else. Tough luck chap

This

Ive been thinking about this, but maybe its too soon? We have talked about relationships and shit, ive made it very clear that im not the type to play around, serious in that way while she said eh its too early and instead fool around.

If you seriously desire her than you need to do what you need to do and communicate with her.

Tell her what you're feeling. Tell her that you honestly really enjoying talking and spending time with her and that you feel like she is losing interest and it's making you concerned.

I don't understand why just being a person and expressing yourself to someone you like is so hard for most people

Also guessing on that one, can't really do anything there tbh. Fuck me man, feels so shitty :/ Hate that I have to fake a smile and personality everyday when ur sad, someone can probably relate.

>Hate that I have to fake a smile and personality everyday when ur sad, someone can probably relate.
Yeah most people on Yea Forums can probably relate with that.

The fear of getting denied face to face most likely, for me at least. I really appreciate the tip, will think about it and probably talk to her about how I feel next time we meet, if the opportunity is right ofc

Yeah it sucks but you're young. You'll find someone else. Do cut her off though otherwise you'll keep opening that wound and it won't heal

Well, you need to do it before its too late, just wait until the right moment OP. If she's stressed out over grades just try to offer her a fun-relaxing weekend, put school and grades behind for one second and take a breather.

This is now a feels thread

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op feels sad, i feel sad for op so i feel sad too. i bet there some other people here too who wanna share their feel

I did exactly that this last month, take a step back, relax and enjoy the moment like its gonna be alright.

Wallowing in sadness doesn't reduce it

I honestly wouldn't recommend waiting too long for the right moment, if you want to tell her something must find the moment and make it right, otherwise you'll end up losing more time, you have no idea how many missed opportunities I got because I wanted to wait "the right moment" to make a move. Even as of right now I probably lost my chance with a girl because of that, so don't be me and just do it *Shia LaBeouf tone*

That is also true, still on the young side, people are often surprised when they hear a 20 year old looking for something serious.

Well, shit OP, I was going to tell you to try and use that time to be honest with her and tell her how you feel. At least she now knows that you care for her deeply.

You know what, ill do it this weekend. I really dont want to lose her because in these 2 months she has improved my life significantly, given me the motivation and happiness, its so weird that my life has changed upside down in 2 fucking months.

Keep in mind that those changes came from you and not her. She just gave you motivation. Important to remember that you can still feel that way without her

I get mixed signals all the times, thats the thing. Yesterday I was at her graduation party and had graduation themed flower bouquet with me (Swedish kinda thing), she got super happy and gave me the longest and biggest hug ever, we sat and spoke about random shit the whole party but like 2 days ago she was ice cold with me?? Talk about mood swings.

go smoke some weed

Motivation is what I miss honestly, with her presence in my life it feels like I have a reason to be the best version of me. Always tried be the best me but sometimes we lack the motivation to do so generally speaking.

Got offered to smoke weed tomorrow with a couple of guys from work actually, friendly people but I dont feel comfortable doing shit with them,

Granted but my point is don't get stuck feeling like without her you can't be the better version of yourself

I'm definitely not an expert, but maybe she just wants you to be up front with her about how you feel and the fact that you were in a romantic place was what made her be that way, girls want you to tell her how you feel, I was a virgin till I was 21 and after I started being upfront with women is when I got laid with 3 different girls
As I said make the right mood, invite her out to a romantic place where you can just talk and tell her how she's making you feel, worse case scenario you get to move on with your life if she says no, best case scenario you get a happy new gf. Go for it Yea Forumsro I belive in you.

Shit we usually go to a place thats romantic and calm, next time bro. Next time. You guys have helped me more than anyone else before emotionally. I feel great. Fucking love you Yea Forumsros #nohomo

Move on, fucking emotionally dependent faggot
If you are that much desperate for feminine attention, there’s billions of goddamn vagina on this planet so the likelihood you’ll find someone interested in your pathetic ass are higher than her getting back to you
>hurr my existence revolves around vaginas
Fucking cuck

Oh

Never too soon. If you drag your heels she’s gonna start suck other dick. What’s wrong with be honest and vulnerable bra? Besides gay. Just tell her how you feel and ask what’s up

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He's 20. He's too old to be acting like a 12 year old having his first crush.

Oh yourself faggot, i find it fascinating that despite all the negativity in this world, some people have it WAAAAAAYYYYYY worse than you and alot of them find ways to still be happy and positive about their situations
But you starting a thread bawling over a piece of meat covered in flesh is fucking cringeworthy because i’m pretty sure that aside from this first world problem, you have a roof over your head and eat everyday
Fuck off

Hey OP, tell her how you truly feel. Swallow that nervousness and just do it. If she doesn't feel the same way then just drop her and move on. If you don't do that OP you're just going to keep shooting yourself in the foot till one of you gets tired. Once this is done it will be a huge relief. You're 20 so you're still young. This is only the first and it definitely would not be the last.

Whats the worst that can happen? Things will just be more clear for the both of us.

The worse that can happen is she says "no." After, you move on. Rejection is just part of life OP. The key to it is to pick up and move on. Let it be a learning lesson.

I think if you don't click as well as you both used to then it probably isn't going to work out, if it already happened now it can happen again OP, also if she really was interested she'd put some effort into it and not just you, sorry friend