Can anyone talk with me? I don't have a lot of friends to talk this over what happened with me, just my parents but I can't talk with them about this
>be me socially akward idiot >last year I kinda accepted I will die as a virgin, when I met a nice girl who for some reason liked me >she moved in with me and for first time in my life I was really happy >fast forward one year to today >I am working, and have a late shift >before my lunch break she calls me, that she has something really important to say, and she can't wait until my work ends today >okay >sit down in the cafeteria >there she is, how can I be so fucking lucky to have a girlfriend like her >so what is so important what can't wait? >she is so happy, and with a big happy smile she says it >"user.........I am pregnant" >it feels like a world ended inside in me >akward silence for 5 seconds >"are you not happy?" >I want to say million things to her, but because I am a fucking dumb idiot I say the dumbest thing ever >"Is it too late for abortion?" >she looks at me like I hit her, starts to cry, grab her stuff and runs away >I am so fucking dumb idiot that I didn't go after her just sit there >go back to work, try to leave her some messages but she didn't respond >go home after the late shift, buy some flowers, I can see from outside that the house is dark maybe she went to sleep early >she isn't at home and she packed her things, she didn't leave anything, a note or something like that >ask her brother on facebook, he says she went to her parents house
Just how fucked I am, and what the fuck should I do pic obviously not related, but this is the only thing on my computer with a kid
Hey brother. That's a shitty situation. You've given me the feels. If I knew you irl would share some beers and pizza with you. Just kick back and chill
Jeremiah Long
I am seriously thinking about it
I see her literally in every single corner of the house, I just can't chill
Hudson Johnson
Fucking pussy lmao. What do you think your objective is as a human? Produce offspring. Even niggers get this right, ergo you are less then a nigger. Kill yourself and take your HRT meds ya dilating scum.
Chase Barnes
I gotta say I felt happy to read she was pregnant. You played that wrong dude. Babies are great and you two raising a kid together- that's the goal everyone is striving for.
William Mitchell
Yea, that's a major fuck up, mate... You'll have to do everything you can to make things right again. Tell her that you're deeply sorry. Explain to her that the words just came out of your mouth without any thinking etc..
Hope you make it.
Aiden Gray
Same user here. Maybe send flowers to her parents' house? You'll probably have to do more than that, but it's a start.
I am just not ready for a baby, and I think I never will be. I am 29 and she is 25, but many times I am feeling that I am still a baby and she takes care of me. I can't cook, I can't make my bed in a non retarded way and etc., I just panicked that I would be a fucking shit dad.
and how should I approach her. should I give her a day or two time and call her, text, I don't know
Bentley Rodriguez
Go get what's yours.
Andrew Ward
What the fuck is wrong with you? Literally anything else, you saw the happy look on her face, why would you blurt out something related to abortion? I can't even picture it in a non comedic tone...just know that you can't fix this, she'll probably tell her whole family and they'll hate you. Maybe try to say it was a bad joke.
Tyler Adams
Sounds like she used you for your sperm and nothing more. Basically in the same boat as you but never had any negative side effects. >be me >lose muh ginity at 18 >gf pretends to be freak, we fuck all the time >keep wondering "what the fuck? Im like a 6/10 on a good day" >we break up >next 4 girls are all the same, want to fuck constantly. Most of them are your typical conservative christian girls >be 22. Look back at all the girls that have fucked me >roughly 4/6 of them wanted to get a child out of me undoubtedly Did you guys have constant sex? Did she have disdain for condoms? Did you fuck sometimes more than once in a day, typically at least 5 times a week? She wanted this to happen. Girls love manipulating. She probably treated you like you're unique. I've been dragged on for months, like 5 or 6 months per relationship. I'm so glad i realized i was impotent in this period because i never came once. Some of these girls i really fell in love with but hey, everyone is fucking stupid at one point. Never let your dick lead your life, its a quick way to ruin everything you've been working up to. Hope to god she gets that abortion, user.
Joshua Johnson
Autism probably
Grayson Smith
Dude, don't let retards tell you HAVE to have children. You don't. Even then, YOU choose when you want one. You're a human, not a fuck machine. Granted, you're already kinda fucked. Just ride it out, bud. It'll be okay in the end.
Justin Gray
I don't have a ton of experience myself (only been in 1 long term relationship for 2 years), but maybe send her flowers and a nicely written letter apologizing? Tell her that you love her and that you want to be with her forever or something like that.
Are you sure you don't want a baby? A lot of people never feel 100% ready, but once the baby is there they are happy they kept it. Having a baby truly is one of the most amazing things in life. It gives your life meaning.
Owen Parker
How old are you? But in general yes, you are fucked. She wants to keep it so you are stuck with payments either way. Either stick with her and your family now or don't and be stuck paying child support for the rest of your life
William Bell
Lol you are stupid for saying that to your gf, and it is even more pathetic that you try to fall back on your internet stranger friends for advice instead of actually being a fucking boyfriend. I hope you actually have that child and every time you look at him, think of the time that you told your girlfriend to kill it.
Owen Adams
You fucked up man she'll never forget that first the res for her life
Parker Howard
Think i've found the femanon. Show tits, cunt.
Jonathan Young
Whoa you're 29? Time to grow up dude. I was reading your OP thinking you were 18/19
Make amends with her, tell her you fucked up saying what you did.that you weren't thinking.
Hunter Richardson
I can't think about this. She improved my life in 200%, and she put so much effort in this relationship. She forced me to eat healthy food, she pushed me to start doing exercises with her to lose some weight and the list goes on.
I wrote her 7 begging messages (telling her I love her, I fucked up I didn't think etc.) to pick up the phone. I just wait...I guess
As I said I am very socially akward, and I almost never had friends in my life. I can't ask anybody else, I don't have a sibling, and I am ashamed to call my parents.
I know
as much as it is a lie I already told her
Benjamin Rodriguez
>She improved my life in 200%, and she put so much effort in this relationship. She forced me to eat healthy food, she pushed me to start doing exercises with her to lose some weight and the list goes on. you fucked up bad user, really bad, the only thing that can make this worse is if you tell me she was a virgin when you both got together.
Cameron Thomas
tits or gift
Angel Ross
no she wasn't. I was, and I told her and she was super cute about it
Ian Thompson
>she made me a better person You'll probably disagree but all she did was distract you with false results of confidence. If you didn't have much confidence before you were dating, she noticed it. Again, i was the same way. Tell yourself what you will and hell, you might be right. I could be reading this situation completely incorrectly but i've also been around the block enough to know how the game works. Women only date unconfident men because they know that they can mold you into whatever they want. That's just how it is. Not trying to be an incel, i can appreciate women. There is a sea of good men and women but they're counterbalanced by the bad folks who want something for free. That's all i can really tell you.
