How common is this?
>Finally managed to arrange a date with a girl from Tinder
>Everything seems perfect, lots of talking, shes pretty
>Today is the day
>She sends me a message ""Hey user I cancel todays meeting, Im not feeling too well, obviously this is nothing personal towards you, thanks for the chatting"
I know tinder is just for a quick fuck and even if the girls say they dont want that its always the contrary, but come on.
What should I do? Just move on?
>everything seems perfect
So... did you fuck her?
>lots of talking
So you didn't fuck her.
Pretty much the only unforgivable sin you can commit with a woman is to not fuck her when she wants to be fucked.
Tindr is for fucking. not 'lots of talking'.
move on bro, she found the dick somewhere else
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move on
if she didn't suggest another day for the date, you've been ghosted
yeah, you're mistake was not wanting her so bad you couldn't wait to get your dick wet
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>tinder
>lots of talking
>nah bruh...that was definitly something personal
I still have other options, but I hate this kind of shallow girls. Everything changes from one day to another.
If you dont move quickly they always have hundreds of other men messaging them.
The worst thing is the part where she says "obviously this is nothing personal towards you"
Now I have to rearrange everything
>>She sends me a message ""Hey user I cancel todays meeting, Im not feeling too well, obviously this is nothing personal towards you, thanks for the chatting"
catfished
Get over it pussy, girls change their minds. Either grow up and move on or be an incel and cry
Probably noticed you're an incel porn poster.
we used facetime and she has her instagram full of pictures, not a guy.
I know, sadly girls who care and chase after you on these kind of apps are always chubby/fatty/ugly/with kids. For once I thought I earnt the price
you can be catfished by a girl
something tells me you have too many expectations from tinder
Pro tip: try to move the convo off Tinder/social media and secure a date asap. There is a lot of competition for women and someone will fuck her before you do if you don't act quick enough.
Reply;
Ouch I was very excited to meet you because I enjoyed chatting with you and judging by the pictures you seem to be incredibly attractive, feeling sad.
I guess I'll have to move on anyway have a nice day.
Doing it this way MAYBE she will contact you when she feels lonely again because she will understand there are not hard feelings and you won't come across as a desperate weirdo.
After that never reply again unless she text you back, also don't expect too much out of it.
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I know, thats what I try to do with most of the girls. But theres for example this other one I wont be able to meet for at least 15 days.
She really wants to meet in person, she deleted her online profile and writes everyday, but I cant help thinking everything can vanish from one day to another. Its too difficult to keep interest through whatsapp for that many time
She found a bigger cock that was not a beta... learn from your mistake and move on...and yes it was personal... the way she worded it was her way of saying it was you....its like when they say it's not you it's them....it is ALWAYS you
Women don’t chase after you twat. If you want it get it. That’s the reason she left is some other dude is filling her up and taking her out as we speak.
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Girls on tinder get 3-5 dicks a week on average. Good luck with that sausage packing fest.
women use tinder for self esteem pick me ups.
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Or she was nervous been on so man cancelled dates by the time we actually hangout they can't even eat they're so nervous
my roommates girlfriend is obviously cheating on him with tinder/app guys weekly and he's the one paying for their room and paid for her to move out here to live in his room...lol?????? clueless
dont date western girls who use social apps
>incel
that's why you need to get a date ASAP so she doesn't have too much time to think about it and compare you to potential other mates
Bro if you don't think this is the truth you need to talk to an actual woman
Who's the girl in the picture?
Totally the case... or she just had to cancel the date.
If she doesn't want to reschedule, then she met someone else, just move on and dont get hung up on her
OP here,
very few times the things they say are true, maybe she wasnt feeling very good, and honestly she is very strange. I wasnt really planning anything special with her so who knows.
But yes, its just online dating. If you wait too long they receive lots of new messages.
On the other hand, as soon as I ask her for her number, si deleted her tinder account because "doesnt like meeting guys online as they only want sex" so I tried to approach her differently. Who cares, Im meeting another one tonight -nothing great, fatty and totally average- but at least for going out
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I have a gf moron, and neither of us use that shit. Tinder hoes literally crave cock and attention and jump from one to the next. And pathetic betas like you let them.
How are you gonna make her forget about dick from the last few days and dick she will be getting several days after you? You are just another dick in her sea of dicks.
A chick like that with that thousand-cock stare, basically any chick who uses tinder, is a fucking lost cause.
Women quickly lose the ability to pair bond and develop a connection with men after they have had multiple sexual partners, and when they get up to the number of bodies the average tinder thot racks up its all but assured they are incapable of experiencing normal human empathy and love.
Thanks shlomo
Utter faggotry
Ding ding ding, sure there are the sloots that fuck everything.. but most are just on it to get Instagram followers and matches to make themselves feel good.
Dream date with vicar Amelia.
I used to be on tinder. Never got too many matches but I considered myself an average guy because most of the pretty girls/slim/athletic/thin never matched me. Only fatties/chubby or similar girls.
I lived thinking that about me for years. But when I started hanging out with other girls IRL I found out I could get all those pretty girls without too many effort. I tried really hard with all my profile pictures and bio, and the problem was just tinder and all the sluts there who always want more.
Theres always someone better.
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Then delete your account and uninstall Tinder which is how I felt from the very first time using the app. You know times are desperate and Tinder is made for quick, catered towards the woman, action.
I don't support social media besides snapchat messing around hate the whole swipe thing as well. Really need to not support this app so tired of seeing endless cock farms. It is exhausting.
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tinder is a waste of time. the only woman i contacted that continued contact was only into me sending her roleplay talk and no pics. she said she was a nurse and just liked to get off during her breaks and when she got home. that was probably a fat lie too.
is this the same girl?
I met my gf on tinder. Been together over 5 years. She is absolutely beautiful. I snatched her up quick, it was her first day on it. Gave her an ultimatum, and said I'm not looking to be friends so if you want to continue talking then here is my number. My initial convo with her got her interested so she couldn't resist the ultimatum.
very common. people get cold feet about meeting strangers. it's normal and deff not personal. i've done it with a few girls myself and it's been done too me
Speak for yourself. I've gotten a lot of prospects through tinder, granted a relationship never came out of them but thats mainly because I don't want one. I had at least 3 girls try to start something exclusive through tinder. Also if you're familiar with Bobby Lee, the comedian. His girlfriend of like 6 years was through tinder if you listen to his podcast they talk about it. So It def works for people out there
she's probably still swiping on tinder and getting plowed by the giga-chads she chooses from among the thousand of guys thristing after her on there.
You fucked up
I think you're over-estimating the "not cming across as a desperate weirdo" part. I give it a 50/50 chance she won't think you're desperate. And that's probably a generous estimate at that.
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Just say I hope you feel better soon, give me a call if you want to hang out. The end.
Ditch the aps and go to bars. You dont have to figure out what girls mean or any of this other shit. If you have any skills you will get laid.
So what? Is impossible to talk to this human ever?
Some people look for permanent relationships via trinder.
Sounds to me as if she changed her mind. Reach out to her once, then let it go.
Tinder is a scam,a well known fact.Very similar to other ‘dating’ sites.Girls are paid to message/reply to guys for a number of messages/amount of time then ‘disappear/make excuses’.
How do i know this?
Met up with a girl some years back from a dating site,she told me all,and it was quite mercenary.
Simply,guys fall for it all the time.
Live with it.
Better off getting out into the real world.
Trust me.
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Look dude, if you're a good talker you can maintain 'interest' through whatsapp for years. Especially if you casually 'slip up' when she's got competition and when you're entirely unphased by whether or not she's talking to other dudes. It just doesn't work with every girl.
Also, some girls are just fickle, they do want to meet and don't want to meet almost at random.
Usually a fickle girl like that is not a good match if you're looking for a relationship. If you just want to get your dick wet though, one thing you *could* try is the following:
- Make sure you set the date somewhere close to where she lives.
- If she cancels, ignore that message entirely. Whatsapp has theres message previews right? So you know what it says, but you never open it. She'll see its delivered but not opened.
- Right before you would have to start your commute to the date location contact her and say you're on your way. Completely ignore the cancellation. There's some chance she'll un-cancel and and show up after all.
- If she does remind you of the cancellation, tell her "look, you wanted to meet up right? I already bought a bus/tram/train-ticket and I'm on my way over. I'll see you there". Again, there's a chance she'll un-cancel and show up after all.
If she doesn't un-cancel, give up and move on. If she does un-cancel your chances of getting your dick wet just went to 90% (assuming you're not too pussy to initiate).
You live in fantasy land. Women get SO many dicks thrown at 'em on Tinder she's not going to be worried about getting some.