Bored BDSM instructor willing to answer any questions you Yea Forumsastards have regarding bdsm, sex...

when you train a new form of pleasure you have to do it like pavlov's dog. introduce the new stimulation while getting them off. slowly increase the transition from one pleasure to another so that they get use to it and associate the new stimulation as pleasure.

Not OP but I'm partial to Bamboo. Soft and strong.

Steady stimulation that slowly builds up momentum, but don't go too fast, it will just drain/dribble the cum without allowing for an ejaculation. Unless that is your goal.

honestly I see a mixture of hardcore sluts and sexually repressed people. sometimes you get a normal person who wants to spice things up in bed.

want to see my handywork and tools faggot?

How do I go about learning the rope knots to tie a girl up?

if you base it on looks you will see the same average as you would in "vanilla" life. some beautiful and some not so much.

OP I prefer jute that's been treated with bee wax and mineral oil.

Again, not OP but I like the books by Two Knotty Boys and also Midori.

the bigger the collection of sex toys, the more likely a virgin. people who are actually fucking dont spend their time building up a perfect 50 shades room.

Where would one purchase such things?

if you want to learn how to do ground work I would start by watching some videos on youtube strangely enough. nothing beats a in person class though so make a fetlife account and look for a rope bondage class. Usually they are easy to find in major cities.

Also don't try suspension because that is very dangerous for beginners. start with a double column tie they are they most useful ties to start with.

you can get cheap jute at Home Depot and other hardware stores just try to get 7 mm. You want thicker rope because make it too thin and you will cut off blood flow.

also online stores like etsy have a good selection.

first off they aren't sex toys. I don't fuck people with them because that wouldn't be safe if you have multiple play partners. all of my equipment is used to achieve some unique sensation that people want to try out.

give me a few and I'll show some of my stuff.

This is some of my impact and electric toys for those interested.

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some wax play

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more wax play.

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what's up with the purple flogger?

it's an electric flogger I plug the cable into a violet wand.

How to make subinate slave for my cummies pls

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how do you last longer?

find a sub who likes a lot of the same kinks as you. be honest and straight forward with what you want out of the dynamic. it all comes down to though if they want the same thing. you would have better luck going to munches and play parties around town if you're wanting a better pond to fish at.

How to find a cute female sub?

jesus, you you brush their hair after youre done?
you might wanna spoon with them after you get the wax off as well, you fucking softy

if you're a guy practice peeing and stop/slowing down the flow. good way to control when you cum. don't know a trick for women.

Is this suppoused to be starry night?

find a cute girl who think she is edgy. be comfortable with your sexual self and talk to them about what they like. it's not all the time but I think it's most times women are either a sub or a switch.

>violet wand that can do scarification, a wartenberg pinwheel that can easily pierce skin as you rake it across skin, and a flogger with a quarter inch thick and foot long leather fall.

Sorry, I forgot my car battery and jumper cables in the car.

yes it's a horrible recreation of starry night. My Bottom for the scene wanted me to try doing it.

>sexually repressed people
now this looks like a job for me

what the fuck that's actually good advice who are you

you don't get paid enough to live off of but the benefits definitely make it worth it.

I'm OP

lol we get that you're clearly an expert, faggot

how do i be comfortable with my sexual self?
how do i be comfortable with myself?
how do i be comfortable with sex?

Leather or latex?

exposure is the best method IMO. find openly sexual people and just talk to them about normal stuff. eventually they will talk about sex and just ease yourself in the conversation.

leather for life.

I prefer latex from the had down, but leather is good for toys

you can get a lot dirtier with leather then latex.

Ono

My gf is a power bottom, how do i arouse her more?

my current partner likes to wrestle fuck all the time. so get some easy to tear thin clothing. start wrestling and tear off each other close. she really likes it when I rip a hole in her shorts and just fucks her while she struggles to get up.

This of course happened after playing with each other for a while and negotiations.

lolol teh seckz

What’s your opinion on DDLG?

it's fun for a scene or two but after that it's not as fun. too each their own.

I’ve been told by a few dons that DDLG is really just a passively submissive daddy being controlled by their little. What’s your opinion on this thought if I my inquire.

just like everything in this lifestyle it's not always the case. Some LG I know are brats in disguised so I wouldn't be surprised if some DD come across bratty little.

Thank you for your answers user. I’m learning to be a better dom myself, and I have experience in impact play, pet play, manipulation as well as certain levels of humiliation play. Im also a Daddy dom outside of the bedroom and I’ve been curious to get an answer to that question that’s open and honest.

that's a weird viewpoint. it definitely has a dynamic powerplay if you have a lenient daddy and a bratty little, but I don't know how you'd call it that unless you counted any kind of aftercare/indulgence as 'the sub being in charge'

OP here. Been nice chatting with you guys. hope you all learned something interesting. Maybe do this again in the future.

Night