I'm 26, would it be weird if i dated a 19 yr old? Is it even a good idea...

I'm 26, would it be weird if i dated a 19 yr old? Is it even a good idea? She's cute as fuck and pulls my heart strings like crazy, but the age gap is a bit too much for me. Imagine the looks from her family when they meet me. Plus we're probably in such different stages in life that we'd do very little together, and end up having very little in common.

The other option is to date a sweet & nerdy girl who's my age, and hitting on me with the subtlety of a brick to the face. But she's been telling me about all her friends getting married and having kids, and it freaked me out a little bit. Like she's hoping we'd get married, and not too far in the future. It woulnd't be too bad, since we're very similar in our interests, but i don't plan on getting married until i'm at least over 30, and don't want kids until i have a very stable finantial situation.

What should i do Yea Forums? I'm basically a reformed incel, i don't want to fuck up both chances i've gotten and ending up with nothing.

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>would it be weird if i dated a 19 yr old?

No

>Is it even a good idea?

No

Fair enough, my dude. Why do you think it would be a bad idea?

Well, I would recommend you don’t get emotionally involved. Buuuuut, so long as she consents...

Just do it. I started dating a 18 year old at 24. It looks like I'm about to start dating an 18 year old at 28. If you didn't do anything until she was 18, no one can have a valid opinion on it. Fuck it. Get that fresh pussy bro.

The girl your age seems to be playing around and exaggerating. If thus is not the case get as far away from this woman as possible she might be fucking crazy and a reformed incel cannot deal with that. The 19 year old will not likely have anything serious with you and may be just trying things out. Its not creepy but you will notice the age difference as time goes on and u both talk.

Id say make sure the girl your age isnt a psycho and is playing around rather than planning the wedding unironically, and then choose her. The 19 year old seems unstable/you seem to be in a honeymoon phase since it doesnt seem like you actually know her

>don’t get emotionally involved.
Why not? I want that more than i want the pucci.

10 year gap? Goddamn, dude. I'd assume you and i want different things from a relationship.

>girl

Just go for it and if it turns out that it is to awkward, you can always end it.
Atleast you wont have that feeling of; what if...

>Oldfag here.
The entire female dating pool is either taken or expired by 30. If you wait that long you're going to have to go at least 5 years younger anyway.

Now if both are perfectly fine and healthy mature women (the 19y/o isnt playing with you or youre making too many assumptions and the one your age isnt cooky) then choose whoever you want most (provided you actually know what u want and dont think w your cock). You cant run a relationship while regretting that time when you couldve had the one girl you wanted. At your age youre still kinda young

Half your age + 7 is the rule for acceptable dating age ranges

I’m 40 and currently squeezing a 26 yo.
I don’t feel bad, I feel incredible.

>playing around and exaggerating.
What makes you think this is the case?

> The 19 year old will not likely have anything serious with you and may be just trying things out. Its not creepy but you will notice the age difference as time goes on and u both talk
This is what i fear, that i will have blown my chances with nerdy girl, and break up with young girl anyway.

> doesnt seem like you actually know her
We met at an emergent/interactive narrative seminar last year, and this year i've been bumping into her a lot at my uni's cafe. Haven't talked to her much, but i think she's into me because she's litteraly smiling 24/7 when she sees me. I hope i'm reading it right.

Oh, an un-reformed incel, i see.

I wanna avoid "What if"s like the plague. But there's no chance of a clean end with nerdy girl since we share a couple classes.

Fair point, my dude.

General rule 1/2 your age + 7
it's how my bf decided dating me was good idea.

Dated an 18 year old when I was 25 and I would not recommend it. You and her are at two different points in your lives, you'll feel more alone in that relationship than you would being single. 18 and 19 year olds are hit and quit; don't ever start a relationship with one.

Biggest problem with dating somebody significantly older or younger than you is that they are in a different stage of life. For example, the older person may already be in the midst of a career; the younger person is still figuring out what they want to do. Younger person decides they want to move 400 miles away to pursue something they're not passionate about. Older person can't just up and quit their job to tag along.

they're now passionate about*

I'm 61 and I've dated a couple of 19 year olds in the past two years. The age gap doesn't bother me as much as it once did, but I have to say that I prefer women who are 35-50.

>Oh, an un-reformed incel, i see.

Right, because incels don't want girls
You clearly do not know what that word means, why are you using it?

The thing is that i want both for different reasons. Nerdy girl is very compatible with me, and very sweet. Two things i know i need from a partner. And she's quirky as fuck, which i find very endearing.

Young girl is the kind of cute that's always been my weak point, and would probably be more on board with a chill relationship with no hurries. I really need to get to know her better.

26/2 = 13. 13+7 = 20. Fuck.

Fuck the 19 year old until you get bored. Keep banging 18 and 19 year olds until YOU decide YOU want to settle down.

Girls your age (literally any age past 24) who are desperate to get married, settle down, have kids, and get fat are a fucking dime a dozen. It's much harder to plow 19 year olds when you're 45 and divorced, than when you're 26 and single.

And before a fucking beta bitches about this: I want to have kids one day, and that'll probably come with marriage as well. Like OP I have no interest in doing that before I'm well beyond financially stable.

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Go for it.
Enjoy the wild ride.
Don't get anyone pregnant no matter what and you'll be fine.
If you go for the 19 year old just don't be surprised when changes her mind on a dime and starts dating some chad. Don't take it seriously and enjoy the young pussy my guy.

>Oldfag again.
The pussy is all there is. The dream that there's anything more that they can provide is a lie.

Op, stop fucking taking random subjective advice and just live your life.

I'm 26, married to a 20 year old I met online in a different state. She is more mature than I am, better at videogames, has a better job, and has lots of side dick. Ask anyone here and they would say the above is impossible and that I shouldn't go through with it at each step. They were all wrong.

Point is, live your life. Make mistakes if you have to, but just live it man.

You two make a good point, but so does Fuck, i'm more confused now that i was before.

>Haven't talked to her much
> but....
she already sees you as friend potential. Nothing sexual is going to happen. Make the move quick, you will not gain any ground postponing it. It is only making things worse.

>married to a 20 year
> has lots of side dick.
Bit rich that a cuck would just write off the advice of others.

>I'm 26, would it be weird if i dated a 19 yr old? Is it even a good idea?

im over here at 26 years of age dying of prostate cancer and this dude is asking the morals of fucking a 19 year old

gotta love life

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Also, people who bitch "waaaahhhh that age gap is too big you're a creep/you should feel bad/pedophile/etc" are all, literally every single one, in one of two categories:

Jealous betas who can't get a girl 10 years younger than them (or can't get a girl at all)

or

Used up, bitter roasties absolutely livid at the fact that a man would prefer a girl closer to her prime than a worn out, saggy, bad skin, old woman.

Btdubs anything over about 24 is an old woman. Girls peak at 14-16 and it is, literally, only downhill from there.

It's totally possible that you'll be too different. That can happen at the same age too, though.

More importantly, unless you're a fucking retard you are going to be smarter than any girl you ever meet. I've dated girls much older and much younger than myself, and in 100% of cases all of them were somewhere between "slightly" and "massively" less intelligent than me.

Someone is going to reply and get pissy about me saying that. So the choice is yours OP, listen to retarded crabs in a bucket, or listen to the (correct) voice of reason. Up to you.

>im over here at 26 years of age dying of prostate cancer
why'd you go and do that, user?

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Two consensual adults dating. Sounds fine.

We haven't talked enough to be anything more than acquaintances, really.

Date* I could get pussy if i wanted to. I need the emotional intimacy to get hard.
>I'm this much of a pussy
I know

Not a cuck, I hate most of that degrading shit (towards me, love degrading her), more of a swinger. On top of that we started off roleplay/fuck buddies

>Based

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who fucking knows m8, shit doesn't even exist in my gene pool

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A rose by any other name, and so on.

Kek, tru.

I was a 29year old last year when I dated this girl fresh from college, 20 yearsold.
Pasty white,thicc fresh college graduate with Big tits despite a stank hole with vaginosis (yes, I ate that hole like my life depended on it). She dumped me on the third month because she wanted more "experiences" and went for some other dude.

for your question, it's okay to "date", though she is still in that stage of "exploring relationships", don't be too serious with her, be sure she is the one who asks where the relationship goes.

And eat that hole, no matter how stank that is.

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>thicc fresh college graduate with Big tits despite a stank hole with vaginosis
So, a fat bitch with no personal hygiene?

>eat that hole, no matter how stank that is.
I'd tattoo that shit.

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Think of Momokun but half the thickness. Not trailer-trash obese BBC bait.

Because no one says "i wanna marry him" when they barely know eachither without a hint of irony/ some humor with intent of getting close to you, or actual crazyness if shes completely serious and says this with a deadpan delivery

7 years of an age gap is too "much" for you. Fu idiot

Fuck me, that got me. Gonna try to talk to both now, i think.

She didn't say that, she just brought up the subject with a lot of enthusiasm.

>Date* I could get pussy if i wanted to. I need the emotional intimacy to get hard.
>>I'm this much of a pussy
>I know
thats actually why im pissed too, imma die a virgin

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Dude you are honestly such a pathetic worthless faggot. What kind of subhuman needs to go to Yea Forums for relationship advice? Honestly. Go back to larping as a communist revolutionary on reddit.

Which is hotter? Neither will last either because you're an incel, or because you'll find someone better once you finish being an incel. 38 with a 21 yo.

You seem to like thw 19yo jusy bc shes qt and you want her hole

Not a good start. Get to know her and make sure the other one isnt insane

I come here because it's the only place where i can communicate my feelings without feeling judged, weirdly enough. Like i know you'll judge me, but i've been here long enough that i've already thought anything most of you could say to me. And i can only fully explain the situation in a user board.

>communist revolutionary on reddit.
Better dead than red, my dude.

I suppose the 19 yr old is technically hotter, but i'd be more than happy with either.

It's what i want to do, but i think i will have waited too long if i don't act soon.

Uhh, I'm 18 and dating a 55 year old. We love each other, but can't tell anyone. It is legal, but frowned upon. People think I have Daddy issues, but I just like who he is as a person - not looking for some kind of "father figure" or any BS like that.

when i was 30 i dated a 18 year old. she was artistic funny and full of energy, i found that it was hard for other girls to keep up with me when i was out and about doing crazy things (spray painting, drinking, setting fires). and it was great because not only did i take her virginity, but i took my time and taught her how to suck dick and all about sex. she was super honest and always just talked to me about what she liked. in my opinion her age was a factor yes, but she was so open minded and mature that it dint matter. also that pussy was tight thank fuck i got to smash for 6 months before i took off.

is that jordan peterson?

yeah, he used to have some bad health issues

I'mma give it to you straight. You love him he loves that ass. Hang in and you might be able to retire off his estate.

lol

You do have daddy issues, you just tell yourself that you don't.

No. My younger friend is only 22 and his gf just graduated and is a total child. Do not date teens, you will get her pregnant then you're done, son.

Go with your gut here man. Who do you gravitate more towards. Who actually makes you feel fulfilled and complete as a man and who is the one that is just there to satisfy your lust? There is your answer OP.

Btw, the girl your age isnt being serious about the marriage thing. She is bringing that up to see how you react, like a playful flirt. She is trying to expose your romantic side through playful conversation. Dont assume that shes gonna wanna start a family with you right away. But even if she does though, as a man, you're gonna have to communicate this with her if you start a relationship. If she REALLY wants to be with you then she'll understand.

Explain to me how I do, and what makes it "daddy issues" please

I've gotten that feeling before but he seems to genuinely love me. Lol, Estate money is quite far off.

This might be the best piece of advice in the entire thread, thanks man.

Would it be weird? No. As long as you're both consenting adults. However, think about what all the girls your age were like when you were 19. Take that as you will

My 20 year old mate is dating a 16 year old and shit is just gross man, it’s cringe af if you can’t find someone your own fucking age
If that was my teen daughter bringing in an actual man I would tell him to get the fuck out of my house and never contact my daughter again

>think about what all the girls your age were like when you were 19
I'd do it, if i had know any then.

Although I want to get out of it before people find out and my reputation is affected. The only thing holding me back is knowing how much pain it will put both of us through and that I still love him.

You didn’t go to school user?

No problem bro. Everything will work out in the end dont worry

I finished high school at 17, a lonely introvert with no friends, then got a job for 3 years before going to college.

If you're worried about an age difference, my parents have an 8+ year age gap and have been together several decades.

Man, I just did that, and in my circumstance, gorgeous, but definitely intense. They're still young, and in a few years when you're ready to settle yourself a bit, they'll be exploring themselves.

Any help on how I can end it with the least amount of damage done?

He's a big boy, he can handle it. Be honest, clear, and direct.

Take the nerdy one, if youre compatible and she seems to be seriousley in love with you. Trust me, dont let yourself be rushed by her, wait it out, but if she wants to carry your Children and you love her too, you will live a happy life. That bond and loyalty is the most you will get out of this life.

The nerdy one, but talk with her about the marrying thing and children: be honest about it.

The 19yr old will dump you eventually. She's still young and if she's in college she will be around guys her age. It won't work. Date the other girl. You're at the marrying age. She might be the one.

Thanks, most direct advice I have ever gotten on Yea Forums. Appreciate it.

I agree. I know girls that dated older dudes. It is very passionate on their behalf, they're young and still finding their place in life.

Yeah, I'm thinking the same here. She seems like a sweetheart. Finding a girl that is devoted and with similar interests is rare.

Here’s the thing about dating people way younger than you. They don’t have the same experience you do. Things you’ve gone through they will only start to go through and they will never be able to relate to you on that level because they are still learning things you have already learned. They will never be as mature as you are and they will always seek to do things that you have either already experienced or are not interested in experiencing.

>Explain to me how I do, and what makes it "daddy issues" please
there's no fucking way that you find that dude attractive.

>You love him he loves that ass.
Fact.
Fucking fact.
Truth has been spoken.
This precisely summarizes your relationship.

My girlfriend is 19, I'm 28. We met a year ago online through a mutual friend. We were both in college at the time. We both had similar interests. She had an intense fetish for virgins like me. I had an intense fetish for little asian girls like her.

Today marks my second month staying with her in another country while she goes to school and I'm temporarily homeless. Her parents and I are on good terms - they appreciate how much I take care of their daughter. Her grandparents are also very nice to me and very generous, I've visited them a few times in the past couple months alone.

Nobody really bats an eye at our age difference. Sometimes we'll go out drinking with her friends, but usually we just stay home and watch stuff or play games.

I guess my point is, don't let age be the deciding factor. That other stuff you talked about though, like not having anything in common, and being in different life stages, if you're sure about that then trust your gut. But if it's just a guess, maybe get to know her better before deciding?

>However, think about what all the girls your age were like when you were 19.
They were all cunts that thought they could do "better" -- and better meant dating some older dipshit that may have been more stable at that point in time, but I am absolutely making more than all of them when I reached that point in my life.

I feel all the more justified in trying to steamroll an 18yo as a 24yo

>get to know her better before deciding?
I want to, but the three of us are studying mostly on the same small college building, there's no way talking to one won't turn off the other.

Also, i think that maybe nobody bats an eye at your realtionship because it's a different culture, where it may be much more common.

I think about her a lot, but we're far from love. She could be a crazy bitch, or an absolute angel, for all i know.

Half your age plus seven, retard, just like every other situation.

Hes muscular, mature, masculine look to him. I find it attractive.

...

I'm having a similar situation, I can post the story if people will offer advice

Canada and the US, where you from m8?

Do it, my dude.

Oh, you made it sound like you were living in Taiwan or something.

And just where did this made up "rule" come from. No such thing exists except in your mind.

Bullshit. As long as they are 18 any age gap is acceptable if the woman wants to date you.

Half Chinese half Italian girlfriend who was born in Canada and raised in the US. I can understand your confusion.

Sucks that you can't so much as talk to them both to get to know them better. Best of luck Yea Forumsro.

Thanks man, you too.

She will dump you eventually. Also, you're wasting valuable years of your life doing nothing. Grow up, you're almost 30.

In the same age range and I prefer women 40+. Seems like they are more settled in life if their children have left home already.

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Incels are so ignorant they don't even know how to say "hello" to a female.

Why do you exoect an answer of us if you have thought this true. Either do it, or don't. But I guess age gaps are not that important in the gay world, so go and get aids!

>there's no fucking way that you find that dude attractive.
Keanu Reeves is 54 and Tom Cruise is 56. Not every guy falls apart as they age.

user speaks the truth.

And?

swingers are cucks
fuck off

>Work someplace with a fair number of High Schoolers
>Most are lazy proud and annoying
>Recently hired this one girl
>We get along pretty well
>One day after my shift she gives me her number
>Text her later that night
>Yada yada for a little bit
>'user, why do you think I gave you my number?'
>Don't want to be creepy guy in his 20s
>'Oh I think because we get along well you wanted to get to know me better'
>'So am I getting shot down? Should I just stop?'
>'Well why did you give me your number?'
>'I like you and find you attractive'
>'I don't want to say anything cause I could get in trouble for talking to you about that'
>'Only if someone finds out'
She's under AoC and I really don't want to be falsely accused of any metoo bullshit

>mfw I'm in half of the loliwatcher on Yea Forums's wetdream

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Statistically, it's theorized incels will also die alone in nursing homes with their virginity intact. Research is ongoing.

I've wasted a lot of years, but I'm not sure how valuable they were. 10 years with an undiagnosed case of multiple sclerosis. I've got a fair amount of scarring in my brain and spine to show for it, as well as classes I've failed due to "bizarre medical problems." I've got debt but no degree. Still, I've been programming since I was 14. I'm a full stack developer. I get about $30 an hour. It's not great because I don't get a ton of clients but I get by you know? And in my free time I write music and learn to play a new instrument every couple months.

Also you don't know the first thing about my girlfriend, where do you get off sounding so certain about our future? Bad experience?

Useless to try and explain anything to an incel. Conduit closing.

not that guy, but how many 19 year olds commit to something for the rest of their lives? How many college students keep a single relationship throughout?

You need to come home and forget this girl. Following a 19 year old to another country is insane for someone your age.

>She's under AoC
>'Only if someone finds out'
>aka 'Only if i want to fuck you over'
RUN

About 80% of my family and 70% of hers. We both have strong beliefs about marriage and agree on them. We both want one someday when things are stable. Everything about each other feels like destiny, but we've only been together a year.

Guess you didn't read, I don't have a home. My parents are off traveling. My siblings and I rarely speak and they live in San Francisco of all places. My extended family is non existent. I've got a place lined up in the states though that my girl and I are staying at next month. Then she goes back to school in Canada and I'll be working in the states until my next visit.

Coulf be creepy Dude!
Just calculate the "Creepy Factor"
Your Age : 2 + 7 = the Minimum Age your Girl must be, without being a Creep or Daddyrapist

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A 54 year old guy who was a CIO at a company I used to work for, twice drove to meet a 13 year old girl in the middle of the night for sex. He met her in a teen chatroom with a phone he bought with a fake name. Her parents found out and police used forensic tools to locate his phone. He served 5 years, is a registered sex offender for life, and now works at a chinese laundromat at the age of 60.

Don't let this happen to you.

I know that at least, but idk how to let a girl down, I've literally never been in the position to

>thinks a 19yr old teen is his destiny

You're hopeless man. Nothing more to say.

Tell her to get back to you when she's 18.

This

Yeah, pretty hopeless. But I found in her the first person I've ever been genuine with. The first person to ever really know and accept who I am. A person who inspires me to be better every day. A person who to this today motivates me with a mere smile. She is a muse in my life, half the songs I write are about her. And she's a musician too, and she writes songs about me. Actually, she does everything I do.

Tell her you don't want your asshole ruined by bubba and you don't want a career working at a chinese laundromat. If she understands what that means then it's safe to sleep with her. If she ghosts you, then problem solved.

That's a poor cover for your ignorance

You don't know what the word incel means. You have no idea what one is

That's not a big age gap. In my opinion thats normal, and if I was you I would be with her.

And also my parents age gap is 12 years. My mom 18 and my dad was 30 when they got married.

thats what you get for having all that gay sex op. F. don't worry we all get 19 year old god mediated girlfriends in heaven. but u gey so you might not even get . srry OP

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No
Probably not

Yeah, but if she wants something or gets mad at him she just has to say the word and he's fucked

The rule of thumb with women, don't ever give them any leverage over you because they can and will use it against you.

>26 years of age dying of prostate cancer
Sorry to hear this. Cases in your age range are rare. Life is not always fair.

She's not a woman yet. She's an underage teen with raging hormones. Statistically the odds are she will not say anything if they have sex though.

Date the girl your age. She has settled. Unlike the 19 year old who will leave you when she just wants to “find herself”

I don't know where you get the idea that teens don't spill the beans (they do) but statute of limitations can be a full decade + before you're in the clear. Is fucking underage pussy really worth it? My friend's son is underage and he fucks teens (obviously) and some older women in their early 20s. The best sex he had was with a 20 year old girl who had a super tight cunt. He's dating an 18 yr old girl now but the family doesn't care (obviously).

A lot of people on this thread has mentioned it but the 19 year old will almost certainly leave you eventually. She is young and wants to explore the world. Eventually she will get bored of you. Thats how kids are.

If the nerdy girl your age is a decent catch, go for her immediately. If you waste a few years on the 19 year old kid, you will reenter the dating field at an age where there are no good options. Just roasties

So stop thinking of this decision as 19 year old girl or 26 year old girl. No, its 19 year old girl for a few years then a roastie wife after that, or cute nerd girl your age as your wife

Or you can be like my friend's friend who is 55 and is dating 22 year old right now. he pretty much exclusively dates women less than 30 years old. I have no idea if he wants a LTR but whatever.

Statistically, most underage teen girls will not turn betray an adult sex partner by turning them in to police. Some do. Most don't. That's all I meant.

He doesn't worry about dying alone someday?

I have no idea nor care. Also, we all die alone anyway. Some people lack the cuddling gene (prolactin + oxytocin) and therefore only care about getting their dick off. I on the other hand have a very functional cuddling gene which in some ways can be a major impediment.

"Half your age + 7 is the rule for acceptable dating age ranges'

who came up with this bullshit? i hate when people say this.

when i was 30 i started dating a 19 year old girl. i met her mother and older brother and they were okay with it. i was with her for three years.

In earlier sources, the rule had a different interpretation than in contemporary culture, as it was understood as a formula to calculate ideal age for the bride, instead of a lower limit for the suitable age.

As if a woman has to being anything else to the table.

Ok, and when they turn 21 because "MEE TOO" bullshit, what difference would that make? If you're fucking her at 13 years old, you'd need to make sure that until she is like 25 years old, she doesn't speak of it. Good luck with that.

Oh fuck off. 95% of people will go their entire lives being with nobody that isn't merely a compromise to split the bills with.

Age couldn't fucking matter less, jeez what the fuck.

>but i don't plan on getting married until i'm at least over 30, and don't want kids until i have a very stable finantial situation.

And this. Then you've already decided you're never going to have kids, because having kids past the age of 30 is in-hu-fucking-mane. Aside from chromosomal damage, there's the fact you'll be an old fucking man (if you haven't died of a heart attack first) by the time they're hitting the world as a youngen and need help.

inhumane for a MAN to have a child past 30? Give me a fuckin break. 50 years old, yeah I can see that but 30, most people don't have any money by that age and having a child grow up in a broke ass family is far worse than any slight genetic damage from a 40 year old man having a child.

i was 24 she was 19. She was a child. Girly, overly emotional, not stable and wanted to do things her way, .... a child in a way. Dont date

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nice troll.

Best ages to get a child for a man is 30-35. You have solved your problems, have generated wealth, know what responsibiity is ,... dont get children cause of familiy traditions or peer pressure. Get if you are the strongest you have ever been and want that strenght and prosperity to be given to a new you.

Not OP but your post helped me take a great life decision, thank you

Oldfag here.
If you're dead set on getting with one if these chicks, the older one sounds like a much surer thing, but if she's serious about settling down, then you need to be prepared for any days of sewing wild oats to be done. You're going to get emotionally invested and can kiss goodbye your ideas about waiting longer for marriage kids because you'll do what she wants. From the sound of it, she might be good marriage material though, so maybe that's an okay thing.
If you're really not trying to do that yet, bang the 19 year old, or at least try to. Here's the secret - as you get older, the age ceiling for women you find attractive keeps rising, but 19 year olds never stop being appealing (and honestly nothing in this world tastes better than teenage pussy), but as other anons have stated, hitting that shit will be easier now than it will be later. If you really don't want to settle down, bang some teenagers and get it out of your system - one day you'll be 37 and married with kids like my old ass and will wistfully look at the neighbor's 18 year old daughter sunbathing next door and realize you should have spent more time banging younger chicks before setting down roots. My life is great and I'm happy and fulfilled and all that, but if I had open license to still fuck teenagers I'd do it in a heartbeat.
Incidentally, nothing says "that pussy is not for me" faster than seeing an 18 year old chick's boyfriend. He looks like a child... So there is something to the thought that you've got a shelf life too, you know?

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Wat

Go for it I'm hoping I don't fuck over my current situation somehow chatted up a 20 bbw student been texting like madmen friendly like but flirty undertones.
Think this is the first time someone taking interest in her like this and she might be falling for me told me I look good calling me by a nick sending pics non nude if I ask what's she wearing.
Only problem is I'm with my dtf chubby slut of a long term gf situation who I oddly enough had blow me in the car while texting her one night.

Oh well gonna ride this out and treat the bbw like a friend unless she makes a move on me. Fuck she might even still be a virgin considering she thinks she unattractive etc.

Pain and despair.

I say go for it man
in general it might and probably will look weird but that will go away in time

Im a 28 myself dating a 17 year old, we've been together for 5 years now and ive only ever had girlfriends my age before her but she's been the best out of all of em and this is my longest relationship so

One day we will come out to the world but probably not ever talk about how we met and at what age

It's strange, you cant really choose who you fall in love with and to me it wasnt as much about the age at the start but more about how we just clicked and shared similar interests and then each year we grew closer and now we've decided to stay together forever when the law lets us

Wish you the best of luck

i'm 36
gf is cute 22yo

life is good

im 26 as well and my gf just turned 20, no biggy man.

plus it will become even less of a big deal as you get older

23 and 12? Fucking gross dude

Stop being a faggot. All the user looking down on YouTube because If the age gap are actually old, 25y+ crones full of jealousy

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You haven't lived until you've tried 14 year old pussy

Could be seen as weird now but that fades with time, dude

she's legal age.. no one can stop you or say anything..

It's legal, provided you're not in a position of power over her. She might also be nuts though I don't know. Innocent looking girls claim rape, and shit now days. It's never safe.

i'm 30
gf is sexy 38yo

life is good

That difference isn't that much and no offense but you don't sound very emotionally mature. if you really like her and you get along who cares what anyone else thinks anyway?

>19 year old pulls your heart strings

Sounds like beta shit to me. If you had any sense you would never take someone that young seriously.

I mean im 20 atm and she is 14, what matters is that you genuinely love and care for her, it will get less weird in the future

I'm 36, wife is 26. We get a few looks but not many. The sentiment I usually receive from guys is that I'm lucky, and they wish their wives, who they still love very much, were younger. That's what they tell me to my face, anyway.

I started flirting with her when I was 26 and she was 16. I don't advertise that if I can avoid it, because that pretty much always gets a comment, but I kind of get a pass because I did marry her in the end. Again, to my face. Maybe behind my back it's a different story, but it's pointless to go down that road.

I admit I originally was interested in her because I entered the dating game late and uh, I do like em young, and felt like it was my last chance to date a quite young girl before none would ever probably look at me that way again. Despite flirting with her when she was 16, we didn't start dating until she was 18, and didn't actually fuck until she was almost 21.

Dating with a big age gap, you will catch some flak, OP, but you get used to it, and it's really not so bad. Many guys are genuinely just jealous.

lol I'm 26 and I fucked 18 years old in europe. Pretty good experience tbh

>the age gap is a bit too much for me
SEVEN YEARS IS NOT A BIG DEAL

Tldr, what a faggot

Too late to pick one up, I think, but maybe I'll have a daughter one day.

/thread

Don't take a 19 year old seriously, but do take a 19 year old, seriously.

Yeah same man, we've been dating for 4 years now since she was 13 and i was 21, well at least we met during that time but i'd say we officially became a couple when she was 14 or so.

We've both agreed never to discuss when and why we got together with anyone, but rather once she turns at least 20 we'll make something up and also maybe just add a year or two to her age if our age gap ever comes up

It was never about the age, and just like you i dont really encourage older guys to actively go searching for girls in their early or mid teens, but if it just so happens, as it did for us, then go for it if you really do care for eachother and love eachother deeply, if there is true trust and understanding then you can both have a really good relationship

Hehe, yeah, we're both a couple of cradle robbers, I think, and truth be told I too would have flirted with one that young if I'd thought I could get away with it, but I think I successfully got my pervy desires out of my system and in the end still have a wife none of my friends wives can ever hope to complete with in the looks department. In the end, youth trumps all.

>imma die a virgin
Probably not. Some fat, gross bitch will get you hammered/roofie you then rape you

>I need the emotional intimacy to get hard.
Wait, so porn does nothing for you?