I was talking about meeting up with a girl from work for a while and I kind of went off the idea but a few weeks ago she full on wanted to meet up.
Either way I was texting her today and asked if she still wanted to meet up and she said she just wanted to be friends because she was texting another guy she'd been wanting to meet up with for years. anyway we text for a bit and I say (Yeah in advance I know it was a stupid thing to say) "You know if things don't work out with that guy we could always be fwb" and then had a "jk" written straight after
Either way she replied with "I'm not a whore" and "Jokes like that are disgusting, see you at work" and I apologise and say I didn't mean anything by it and she just replied with "I see you at work" to which I replied saying I feel really bad for saying that and she left me on seen.
Anyway her dad has been working at the place for years but the manager and assistant manager have taken a liking to me, how fucked am I boys?
It's so bad to the point where I'm considering not going in tomorrow and quitting.
I should have known not to say anything stupid around her anyway because she made a big deal about me saying horny in a conversation I was having with a friend from work
Your only mistake was to apologize. Do not do such things. Just go for it and ignore things you do not want to have mentioned. If you make a big thing about it, it becomes a big thing.
I feel like if I didn't apologise after "I'm not a whore" and "Jokes like that are disgusting, see you at work" I would genuinely be a dead man walking.
Anyway I messaged her again and it seems like we're cool and I don't have to worry about her going to my manager or her dad about it, was actually so scared I lost my job there.
Matthew Johnson
Honestly she kind of is a whore, but she's one of those liberated modern day feminists that sleep around a lot but the second you joke about something they deem wrong you're fucked
Christopher Wright
This is why you NEVER get involved with people from work. Even if a woman is into you things never work out and it will affect your personal and professional reputation.
Also never, no matter what, leave text evidence that can be used against you. It's okay to flirt with someone you know for sure is into you, but flat out talking about sex in ways that can be used against you or screenshotted out of context to make you look like a creep are a big no.
Just go to work, treat her with respect and be professional. Seek fwb outside of your social circles.
Just play it cool, have self-esteem, be the cool guy that tells always such things, and do not mention it. If you ignore it, she ignores it. If you mention it, she has to react!
Also, even, in the worst case, she tells something: Her dad and the other guy are guys. They understand you, that you would like your hot daughter, or whatever, that is normal (as long as you do not apologize). Why would they fire you for that if you are a good employee?
Very wise words, I'm lucky that this is just a summer job. At least I got a valuable lesson that I should have known already through common sense.
Anthony Ross
Dude don't be stupid (more stupid than you already have been).
It happened outside of work so leave it at that. You misread how things were going and assumed incorrectly. Hold your hands up, apologize and move on.
Anthony Martinez
At first I thought u we're just making up stuff or this was copypasta but holy crap your entire post genuinely reads like a text from a 12 year old girl how old are you OP Jesus Christ
Adrian Allen
Stopped reading at: >You know if things don't work out Abort mission OP, you done goofed Masturbation inbound
Dude, your chances if staying in that job now are very fucked. Just quit your job and find a new one.
Mason Jenkins
OP Here.
I think I'm in the clear, if I get fired or have any confrontation with her dad I'll make another thread tomorrow but everything seems fine worst thing I'm going to have to deal with is her being upset with me tomorrow which I can live with
Jacob Mitchell
Cool, but post some dicpics today.
Tyler Ortiz
Not a big enough whore to be interested in you, though
Landon Peterson
She was up until she started texting this other guy.
A few weeks ago I asked her if she wanted to meet up and she said she'd love to and to get back to her in a few days once she knew what dates she was free, I never got back to her because I was banging some girl I met on tinder.
Leo Ward
Yeah ok bud ur drowning in so much pussy that u don't have time to get with this one girl from work that u have known forever and who you literally have her phone number and who greenlighted you to ask her out on a date. Uh huh uh huh yeah I believe it
Aiden Davis
I know you're being sarcastic but I'm not really drowning in pussy, just met another girl and lost interest in her. Thought I'd ask again as the girl from tinder is boring, simple.
