Serious question to every incel or virgin here - why don't you pay a hooker/ escort/ prostiture - whatever you want to call it and stop being a virgin. I seriously don't get it.
Serious question to every incel or virgin here - why don't you pay a hooker/ escort/ prostiture - whatever you want to...
i want my first to be someone i actaully love and care for. also personally i have social anxiety, so a one time fuck thing i would be so scared and nervous not about the sex but just the fact i have to socially interact with a random stranger and then fuck very shortly after.
That's fucking nonsense. I have anxiety too if that matters. However hookers are available to anyone, no matter how much of a loser you are. Pay a slut, lose your virginity and then find someone you love to fuck.
yea idk, i just dont want to have it official forever that i had to lose my virginity to a hooker
Stay a virgin then.
but i dont want to >_
tbh the first sex isnt even that special. I thought like this until I had my first time. Now I think to myself wtf I was waiting for.
That’s my man
Seriously dude, pay a slut and fuck her, you'll never think twice about it after.
Hope you die faggot incel
Incels finnaly on Yea Forums fun fact there are also incelopes. How stupid people can get?
I'm poor
Lost my virginity like 1 week back to some Asian massage place. I don't know if I'm an incel or not but never had a relationship through highschool due to acne but everything is all cleared up and now I'm an entry level software engineer and I guess I'm cute looking from what my female friends say and I had at least 4 girlfriends ever since I had my degree but my relationship never lasted more than a month till we did something besides once where I got my dick sucked. I don't know how to make myself seem interesting and all of the girls I meet just don't seem to ask about anything about me or whatever. I know how to talk to women but I just don't know how to get them to seem interested in me or something. What do I do?
Kill yourself
I have two theories:
When I had a years long dry spell in my 20s, it was also a time when I didn’t really have an money. Hard to date with no cash.. I’m not calling women whores, I often didn’t even have the cash to pay merely my half. And so you don’t date in that situation, and you can’t exactly afford a hooker either. And I’d never consider anything but an expensive escort that’s clean and above board.
Second: Incels are bound to become Demi. When you’re disconnected from your sexual being like that, for a long time, I definitely got to the point where I wanted to feel safe and know what I wouldn’t be rejected for making mistakes. I wasn’t a virgin, but I FELT revirginized. Like other women were so obviously not interested in me, it’s almost like if you DO get the chance to have sex with a girl, finally, you risk giving away the game.
So, advice. Incels should know that even the guys they idolize are often just as awkward in bed as them, they just aren’t reflective enough to think that it matters.
Get out of your own head. Get over yourself. Make changes you need to, now, today. Stop doing things you shouldn’t, now, today. Turn to real help, not Yea Forums, and for some of you this will probably mean therapy - sex therapy is common.
this user gets it
I love that you lost your virginity to the building hahaha. Seems accurate, takes a village.
Honestly, I cant say i'm Asexual, Bi-curious (since I've never done it but I fap to whatever), I've just never found anyone I'd care to do it with. most men/women I see actually I find to be kind of repulsive, often too stupid/ugly/fat/ghetto.
I'm at the stage in my life where I may as well just start looking for a life long partner, I turn 27 on the 23rd and I'm not getting any younger, so that also narrows down my selection even more than my own standards, on top of that I am 6'3 and 340 lbs my face may not be bad looking and my personality is great, but my mass is probably the biggest turnoff,
Lastly I am almost 27, 3 more years and I hit wizard status, might as well roll with it for now.
>paying people money to have sex with you
You already lost
You only think the first time is gonna be special until you actually have sex. Seriously just get the hooker and lose your virginity. You will not even think about her afterwards and your first time with someone you care about will be more ingrained in your mind anyway. There is no profit in waiting for it to be special.
Top kek, you sound like an idealistic faggot. i fucked normal women and paid hookers too, never regretted it.