>girl came into a store that I've been trying to talk too
> she is single, normally I chat her up for a while and then put my arms out for a hug.
>decided to ask her for a drink at a local bar
>she says sure and then leaves
> doesn't give me a hug
> next time I see her, I tell her I'm disappointed in her cus she didn't give me a hug
> she laughs and then we talk. Ask her about the drink again
> she says "yeah... But as friends"
What happened in this situation bros?
You're ugly. Sorry man.
she sees where you were trying to head and she immediately detoured your hopes and dreams.
How do you know that? How could being attractive have changed that scenario?
he's looking at her boobees
But why
>a store that I've been trying to talk too
You have been trying to talk to a store?
You're creepy. Sorry man.
you really need to ask this question brother?
She obviously is not into you for whatever reason.
This user thought it was your looks.
Let it go, whatever it was, it is over now.
So go find one that does like you in not a friend way
How am I creepy? This is just a normal conversation
you are at an epic crossroads, you can either focus your life on a girl who clearly doesn't want you and be in the friendzone
or move on and foget about her
>wheres my hug at
of course shes put off by you
You probably misunderstood the whole situation and took her being polite and friendly for giving you an opening. She's using the business you were at for a reason, and it wasn't for hugs. Also, dude, hugs are for friends, family loved ones, not future potential dates. Hugging is you walking yourself through an open door to the friend zone, not being suave or respectful.
Don't be a "nice guy" and get pissed off in a few days and go nuts on her. Just be cool.
Did she hug you first or did put your arms out for a hug the first time?
ask her
creep
I put my arms out
This. You should just move on. We don’t know why she isn’t in to you. We aren’t your psychiatrist. If you are brown, it is probably that, otherwise she just isn’t attracted to you. Your only chance is to get with another girl that is around the same level as her
How long did you know her?
Dude you were thinking about the reason she didnt give you a hug.
And you talked to her about it.
Obviously you just wanted to feel her up and she noticed.
Stop being a creepy bastard and treat her like you would treat a male friend.
Turns out women really like to also be human for some reason idk
It's been a while.
I have yet to meet a single female that has ever enjoyed a hug outside of family and long time friends. Otherwise it's a chore. Your hug is a chore to her dude.
Sometimes when presented with that kind of thing.. they'll hug you just to be nice.. but it could have made her uncomfortable.
Dude move on, be cool with her but focus elsewhere you’re never going to click with every chick you want. There are lots more out there and some of them are real freaks who love to get choked and bareback strangers. Find some of those, use them for a while and then look for some actual good breeding stock when you’re ready.
Okay, well this is weird, bad, misleading and awkward advice.
Whole comment is yikes.
If you want real advice i think this is the answer.
You just had to be autistic and ask why you didn't get a hug didn't you?
I still don't understand why you're trying to talk to a store.
Nice get
this is you OP, don't be a creep
Mebbe store-teller?