how do I stop being lonely fags?
I hate this so much, day in and day in alone.
And the people I spend time with know I'm a loser and treat me as such.
How do I stop being lonely fags?
step 1: stop being a fag
step 2: make real friends
make real friends?
how? where?
See step 1
Any background info to help understand how to assist in your endeavors?
twenty three year old with serious near suicidal depression and no friends.
the people I hang out with treat me like a loser, because I am.
I don't have a job, I don't study.
I'm a drop out of high school with little work experience.
I need to move away but im scared because people have disliked me my entire life and It feels like no matter what I do people avoid me.
So I think I should give whatever a shot, workaway . info ...
But If volunteering at a hostel goes bad and people there hate me 2, or I dont get along with anyone, and It turns out I suck no matter what I do, I'll probably kill myself.
Are you fat?
Me too, I'm 27 now. Harder to make friends when you get older.
This
This
no im skinny and semi good looking
still this
>people I spend time with treat me like a loser
Those don’t sound like real frens. Make a new group of frens.
no i definitely agree
but apart from that, anything else I can do?
could It get awful if i volunteer somewhere and im depressed, like everywhere I look it says "YOU MUST BE HAPPY AND SPREAD HAPPINESS"
I've never had real frens
people have treated me like a loser my entire life
maybe try to go to college again, It can create life opportunity
Its ok mate, the condition is in your head.
30 here, same situation but I have tons of good friends and a hot gf.
The depression doesnt go away with friends, the weight is there every day the same.
Just try to exercise doing whatever and get some sunlight once in a while.
This shit world has some beautifull things in it, just try to figure out what it is that you want.
go volunteer somewhere
I suggest finding something you worth living for; make small incremental goals that you genuinely believe will improve the quality of your life in the long run and soon enough those small goals add up to a sizeable difference in your life.
For example, get your GED, my cousin is possible the least book smart person I’ve ever met with the attention span of a squirrel, even he passed his GED. Once you get it, apply for a shit job, yes a shit job. I worked at mcdonalds for a year before I found a decent restaurant job that I could at least bare. Believe it or not, I’ve made long lasting friends with my coworkers at McDonald’s and I find that a very rewarding “gift” from my shit job. Once you have any sort of money, don’t buy stupid shit and save it for a deposit on a house or apartment. If you persevere, you can become financially stable, which in and of itself honestly can make your existence with depression a lot easier to deal with because then for example you can buy a dog. Dogs not only make people happy but you can pickup tons of chicks at local parks with a cute enough dog (don’t be a predator, just be nice). Use any interaction with people that day as a “win” for the day and soon enough you can evolve to have longer and more meaningful interactions with people if you surround yourself with a positive aura reinforced by you’re realization of self worth (established with the previous things I mentioned) and people will naturally gravitate towards you, you can only be around others if you can stand to be with yourself. Do small things to help boost your self confidence such as consistent yet basic at home exercise can be such a confidence booster.
TLDR get up and do shit
Then you're lucky; it's all in your head, not your stomach.
>Anonymous
fag
Join a militia against kebab
i'd recommend volunteering, might make you feel like you're not totally fucking useless in this world.
Idk man, if you cannot get a job or real friends. And there is nothing you can do to it. I would suggest you to go in the military. You dont need money to survive, you dont need shcool education to be there, and you can actually meet some really good guys in there. Think about it before putting a bullet through your skull man.
>You're an alcoholic? Just stop drinking
Brilliant.
seriously you need to stop complaining and just put yourself out there, its the only way you will learn op. I was super antisocial, basically was in my room all day, 1 friend I had forced me to go with him. It took months of it and I would force myself to go to places by myself. I slowly lost fear of rejection through rejection. now I own a business and have a family etc... sometimes we need to back ourselves into a corner to make us take leaps we thought weren't possible. wish you the best faggot, also reference step 1