I'm so lonely I feel a tightness in my chest but I forgot how to cry what do I do Yea Forums please help
I'm so lonely I feel a tightness in my chest but I forgot how to cry what do I do Yea Forums please help
Mate, are you actually Australian?
You have to learn to suppress your feelings, user. If you are sad, it is only your fault. You can't allow your emotions to control you like that.
Trying writing a list of all of the goals you think you should be achieving. Next, ask yourself if they are your goals, or if those have been drilled into your brain by media and advertising. Learn about Nihilism and abandon religion. Write a new list of goals that involve making yourself happy.
I am it's saturday night i haven't talked to another human being in weeks and it's finally gotten to me
Hit your shin on a tow bar. You'll remember how to cry again real quick.
That made me laugh, thanks user i feel a little better
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Why haven't you been talking to people, and you didn't answer my question. I mean, probably Aussie given the time, but still.
Ahh. Life is a ride we all have to take. Just try to look for and do the enjoyable parts and don't take things too seriously and it'll work out just fine.
>forgot how to cry
Man shut the fuck up lol this is some shit a pouty teenager says. Go get a hobby to distract yourself
I said I am australian mate, my social life is just dead that's why
Thanks user will try
I know how it sounds but it's true I haven't cried in years, I should be crying but the tears just aren't coming out I don't know just stating a fact
Step 1: stop feeling sorry for yourself
Step 2: stop venting to Yea Forums because Yea Forums has no soul
Why do you feel like you need to cry? This place probably isn't the best to be getting support from. tbh.
I feel you OP, but you should probably talk to a therapist.
You're emotionally stunted, I'm the same way eventually everything will become so overwhelming that itll just happen don't worry lad
Where in Australia are you?
What this guy said isn't a bad idea. You get 6 or 10 (can never remember) consults if you get a referral from a GP. Never hurts to use them.
Try sniffing petrol (it really works!)
Nah. only for coons.
>Where in Australia are you?
WA
I just don't know how to build a social life from scratch, not originally from Australia, should I join a sports team or something? What do people do to make friends around here?
Not an abo
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>I feel you OP, but you should probably talk to a therapist.
I don't trust them I had a friend that went to a therapist they made up some bullshit about him and put him in a mental hospital, it really fucked him up and he was completely normal before it happened
Find an interest group and mingle with people that have the same interests you have.
I can’t believe that fucking rock is the only tourist attraction in the whole fucking country
They can't put you into a hospital without your consents unless you're a threat to the public.
I recently moved to Sydney from Brisbane, left all my friends and family behind. I've taken to walking in the park and meeting people that way. I have found people for drinks, for occasional food, and even one who likes to call me for a quickie.
Basically, spend the first week or two just focusing on walking. Smile and nod to people when you run into them. Say hi. Over time, when people are used to you being there, you'll end up with "acquaintances". From there, you can build friendships.
Sports are a good way to meet people too. Watching sports works well.
WA is an awesome place to be, people are generally pretty decent. Just do some basics and you can start to build them. The other cool thing is the exercise from the walking does rather help with depression.. Focus on the walks, get a couple of km each day, build friendships from there.
/mlp might do for that user
I want someone who calls me for a quickie too.
That takes time, and an amount of happiness in yourself. Build some friends you can call to go get a burger with from time to time. When you're on solid ground there, finding someone who is willing to fuck you is a lot easier.
Walk before you can run. Anyone who is on Yea Forums looking for support is not in a position to be maintaining any kind of relationship.
Move to Alice Springs, where everything will be better.
OP is male and in his 20s right? We all know there are no women here so why no interests OP?
mate under the health are act they can do whatever they want trust me i actually read the whole thing and talked to people working in the industry the amount of power they have to lock you up in a mental ward is scary af
You can do that? Don't people just walk past you and you never see them again? How does it even work? That's the first time I've heard of that kind of idea.
What are you asking? I'm looking for friends not women
They can actually keep you there without your consent for 21 days while running "observations" and pumping you full of chemicals that can actually give you psychosis even if you were perfectly healthy before the whole mental health system is fucked up with what they can do to you. Even if you're health their job is to find something wrong, they always find something wrong because they need patients to keep their job.
Yeah, sometimes they move on without looking back. That said, there are plenty of regulars who go walking at exactly the same time each day.
I've met some friends who were transient, I've got others who are now a part of my life. You just need to keep in mind that you may never see them again, but this is no different than any other friendship.
Just keep moving forward. See what works for you. Be willing to try things to meet people. Go to the a bar and have a drink, see if you can hold a conversation with someone for 10 minutes. There's all kinds of ways :)
It's kinda embarrassing but I've never been to a bar by myself so I don't know how it works if you go there alone since people tend to go there with premade groups i'll try your walking idea that sounds interesting and pretty easy
Bars are easy. You walk in, you walk to the bar, and you order a beer.
You look around, if you see people watching sports, go lean at the bar near them and watch. When something interesting happens, comment on it. If they reply, keep the chat going, and eventually introduce yourself.
This is like fishing though, you won't always land something, sometimes you just need to take your shit and go home empty handed to order a pizza.