Yea Forums help pleeedeeddeeeezzzz
how the fuck do i stop being shy and autistic when talk to people???????
Yea Forums help pleeedeeddeeeezzzz
Jose Smith
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Ayden Sanchez
i mean not only in real life. but even online when do voice chat with anons. i just struggle with words tho all what i say is in my head..
Nicholas Clark
med fags needed. bump
Xavier Turner
Fake it till you make it.
It won't magically make you more confident but it did help for me and I am literally autistic.
You'll get used to talking to people and you will get better at it.
Know that a situation is mostly only awkward if you see it as awkward.
Joshua Murphy
it's hard to fake it when you're extra self awareness..
>Know that a situation is mostly only awkward if you see it as awkward.
interesting...
Adrian Garcia
Stop caring about what they think. What makes their opinions and thoughts of any importance? Many of the people you meet will like you and many of them won't. That's unavoidable. You don't even have to try hard, so it's more important that YOU actually like them then that they like you.
Anthony Butler
These to be completely honest.. good luck Op
Jonathan Green
Yes I know that feeling too well.
Gotta start small and try to get used to it.
For me it helped to go to a local card store and play yugioh.
After a while people started approaching me and I was kind of forced to interact a little.
I could also see a lot of other awkward people and trying to be nice to them helped me out as well.
This all sounds extremely autistic but it worked out ok for me haha.
Josiah Morgan
cool. but what do to avoid the cringe silent moments? i really try to pretend being normal but always end up being cringe faggot then after a while i re make the whole conversation scenario and regret not saying other things. it's a literal pain in the ass
Josiah Perez
>tfw live in 3rd world where none of these things exist. it's weather you born out going talktive guy with friends or be an autist and die alone with no friends.
Colton Wood
I used to have this problem bad. I started trying to truly want to listen to what people were saying and put myself in their shoes. It helps and has a trickle down effect making conversation much easier and fluid.
Try empathy. Worked for me.
David Walker
thanks anyway anons. absolutely will consider what you wrote
Nathaniel Sullivan
Silent moments aren't always a bad thing.
Like I said a situation is only awkward if you see it as awkward.
Sometimes there is silence in a conversation and that is ok.
There has to be some kind of group you could talk to and if its only online in a video game or something.
Connor Mitchell
Talk to more people.
Also this.
Benjamin Johnson
thanks user. will absolutely consider this too.
>There has to be some kind of group you could talk to and if its only online in a video game or something.
yeah actually there is. the reason why i made this thread is cuz while ago. i couldn't even make a conversation in that online voice chat. i just talk and hide. autism and Brian chemicals just prevent me from continue it. lol its a suffer...
anyway. thanks I'll keep trying.!
Matthew White
If you’re a guy, just fake it till you make it. Just pretend to have confidence and don’t take conversations so seriously. Also you need to push yourself to talk to people, the more people you talk to the better you’ll become at it. It’ll seem weird at first but try to strike up conversation with a stranger, and if you sperg out and say something stupid or things just go south in general it won’t matter cause you’ll never see that person again.
Logan Turner
>i really try to pretend being normal
What are you doing that for? Most everyone is a little insecure. Most everyone else wants to be liked too. Most everyone else is a little weird. When you relax and just be yourself with no fucks given people become comfortable that you're not hiding anything. That's a big positive while the details of your weirdness are a small negative. Stop trying, just do.
Christian Johnson
bruh moment... why i try to be normal? lmao. if i be myself when i talk to people : 1- i will laugh without any reason. like a fucking weirdo. i hardly control it. 2- i never look at the person i talk to' s eyes.
idk bro i can't be myself
Adam Cook
thanks fren. will consider this too
Thomas Long
Fair enough Yea Forumsro I don't know you and I'm not going to pretend to know. On the other hand, prejudging everybody (and yourself) will always lead to disappointment, if you don't give yourself a chance then that part is on you. Sure some people won't get you, that's true for everyone, normies and weirdos alike. Just forget them and move on, that's what we all have to do. On day you're going to stop giving a fuck and accidentally tell someone about your weirdo piss bottle collection and he's going to say "WHAT THE FUCK!?!? I did that for like 6 months too, I dont know what the fuck I was thinking".
Bentley Young
kek. based. thanks for the talk user appreciated)
Hudson Ramirez
No expectations.
Carter Mitchell
Do you know how much work it is to pretend to be normal for us? That alone will screw you up in conversation. I've gotten pretty good at it, but I have a LOT of practice because I'm 50, and 40 years ago people weren't at all accepting. Get them to talk about themselves, that way they do all the work.
Jose Russell
Kys
Alexander Ramirez
fug. but actually this gives hope kinda. will keep trying and maybe talk to myself to train on that
no u uwu
Daniel Collins
Gpod. You can do this, it just takes practice.
Even nypicals have awkward conversations.
The longer you wait, the more you build this up into a mountain you feel you must climb, the harder it will be.
Conversations, for us, are like learning to walk, or ride a bike, or drive. With some practice it gets easier and easier, and one day you don't even think about it, you just do it.
Once I got good at conversations, it turns out I'm the master of the comeback, because I can think so much faster than most. I love being perceived as funny and watching people laugh at what I say. (I never say anything mean on purpose, I'm just "witty.")
Bentley Lewis
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yeah agreed. thanks user for hope. will consider your advice for sure
Wyatt Bailey
Ever been to 16personalities dot com? It wouldn't heart to explore who you are.I'm an ENFP-A, which is pretty unusual for someone diagnosed with
Asperger's.
Tyler Lewis
ill try taking the test now !!
Ayden Martinez
Cool, it only takes like 5 minutes. Everyone I know who has taken it has said that it was spot-on. Make sure you read all the pages for that personality type, it isn't super-clear on the results page that there is more.
James Williams
Cool, it only takes like 5 minutes. Everyone I know who has taken it has said that it was spot-on. Make sure you read all the pages for that personality type, it isn't super-clear on the results page that there is more to read.
Thomas Stewart
Psilocybin mushrooms will cure you.
Andrew Nelson
I love it when my shit glitches, sorry about the double-post.
Connor Rodriguez
No, but they's a lot of fun.
Carson Rodriguez
>eat poison to learn to be social
Daniel Reed
Pretend to be an actor/actress playing a confident and charismatic character.
Gabriel Peterson
Psilocybin can cure anything.
Jason Lee
meh
Cameron Barnes
You can't. You'll be autismo your whole short life. Sorry son.
Jackson Green
this.
Nicholas Wilson
Here's proof that Psilocybin Mushrooms can cure you. Testimonial from the King of Fungi
Tyler Cruz
bruh moment
Hunter Butler
So a guy on the internet with no scientific evidence or research says poisionus mushrooms that kill most small animals are good for me?
Seems legit.
Luke Cooper
Does that describe you? Did you read all the info? If so, you are a big-time introvert.
Wyatt Collins
they aint bad
Ryan Wright
bump