Need serious input from a guys perspective and someone told me about this site.
I'm getting married soon. Been engaged for a year and a half. Lately he complains that the relationship lacks fun and excitement. That I only talk about the wedding, future family, home, responsibilities, and so on since we've been engaged.
I understand that guys are idiots.
They wan't you to do everything. They don't know how to do anything. And when you are an adult, living in a stressful world with a successful career, and FINANCIAL OBLIGATIONS; as well as maintaining your household on a day-to-day basis, how is it that a man can say "you're not fun? Everything is bills and responsibilities. I wish you were like when we met."
IT'S LIFE!!! WHY ARE YOU ACTING LIKE A FUCKING CHILD!!!?
That's being selfish and inconsiderate. Why can't you see that WE ARE ADULTS AND THERE'S THINGS TO GET DONE. WE DON'T LIVE LIKE FUCKING HIPPIES!
You want to get married. You want to have children. But you still wan't to act like a child.
What I wan't to understand is why can't men just get with the program of being adults?
Women weren't designed to have to manage the work as well that is why you are stressed. And it's in his DNA to have a fun wife so basically blame the modern living situation we're all wage slaves
Isaiah Barnes
So what's your real answer since your vocab is so limited.
Carson Collins
Strong words for an unmarried, childless 31 year old girl.
Justin Cox
Sounds like you're marrying a dumb ass. Bad choice on your part.
Angel Rogers
Where the fuck did you come from?
Tits with timestamp or GTFO. Rules.
Camden Young
You gotta find a man who shared your mindset, someone who takes life as seriously as you do. A lot of males think they're grown up and fully matured, but they are still kids. Even if someone is 40, doesn't necessarily mean they have grown to be a man.
Your fault for getting married. Stereothypical family is a dead concept. Me and my gf agreed on not having kids and use all the money for ourselves, and kindly fuck anybody else.
Needless to say, our relationship is only cool stuff.
Robert Roberts
wagey wagey get back in your cagey
Cameron Sanchez
weddings are gay. also, men want a mommy they can fuck. he will always want you to wipe his ass.
Ryder Fisher
True, but with tongue.
Jace Diaz
Your probably a nagging bitch who obsesses over responsibilities and is constantly bringing them up for no reason instead of talking about topics you both mutually enjoy. Gtfo cunt
Cooper Mitchell
Its probably because you're a stuck up bitch that is nagging him ALL THE FUCKING TIME!! Fuck you're even nagging to us!
Plus, you probably dont help out with anything. Your only argument is "We are adults!" which is pretty weak really.
Want a change? Quit nagging him, understand he won't give the same consideration to everything you find important, and give him anal.
Parker Howard
haram
Jose Scott
Hero.
Jonathan Ortiz
Nice bait.
Zachary Bell
Bitch STFU you chose him. Your an idiot for entertaining him. Complain after years of fucking him (letting him inside of you) and analyzing him the way only a female could Femanon you played yourself. I might be wrong but only my two cents. You just want to complain but you're still fucking him
Alexander Rivera
First of all you sound like a sexist prick.
It is always a woman who is behind the strongest, most successful man.
Without us you guys would be shit, second of all. It's not "working and managing a household" that stresses women, it's the fact of a man relying solely on his woman to do it all and then still expect life to be like when we were teenagers.
Fun, care free, no job to report to the next day.
Now, if I didn't have to work (we both work in the news business) yes, I wouldn't be as tired, and I'd have more time to think of fun spontaneous activities for us to do. But, that's not reality and I get what you're saying even though it's VERY offensive, but where do we go from here? Just keep using your archaic conservative views as an excuse for why men can't grow the fuck up?
Josiah King
Kek
Kevin Lee
>us Stfu, tranny. No girl on the internet until timestamp.
Ah ha... And you're Einstein? You didn't even figure out how to find a husband that shares your values. I didn't go through anything this complicated with my wife because we wanted the same shit. (Normal nuclear family)
And your best shot so far is to come to fucking Yea Forums of all places for advice? If your fiance is an idiot them you both deserve each other. If I knew him I'd tell him to run away from you as fast as he could because you're a fucking harpy that has no respect for him whatsoever.
Your marriage will either end or result in a pile of resentment so high that Muslims will try to hit it with an airplane.
Austin Bailey
All work and no play makes Jack really fucking bored. A life revolving around money and jobs isn't a life worth living. Sure it's important, but if that's all I did I'd eventually kill myself before retirement.
Liam Cruz
Have you tried sucking his dick more? How often are you going down on him? Research indicates that women who spontaneously suck their mans dicks twice or more a day have a much easier time getting their men on board with their ideas and goals.
Further, ground breaking research also indicates that women who offer up anal sex on a regular basis and without complaint also engender feelings of bonding and love at levels far beyond those of women who do not.
Kevin Thompson
Maybe take some time off and enjoy life is all I'm saying. Men do need to grow up, a bit of military service or the like gives your life structure and routine which a lot of men lack. It also seems like you are projecting a lot of your stress onto your fiancé though
Ian Hall
Ty user. Will save this for next time i post thread
Nathan Gonzalez
>hurr durr sexist >womyn why men rich
The rest of your argument is the same bullshit that is ALWAYS expected of men yet it seems you can't seem to handle it. Weird. ;D
Daniel Campbell
Fuck off to reddit cunt.
Caleb Robinson
Sure, I would if he took showers every day.
Matthew Nelson
>You sound sexist >Without us you guys would be shit
Woot. Same situation here but I’m male and she’s a cunt. Sorry for you, I have no fucking clue what to do.
Dylan Jackson
Fuck off faggot
Robert Martinez
>Getting this far in a relationship with a person who doesn't understand basic hygiene
Are you sure he is the bigger idiot between the two of you?
Josiah Carter
>I understand that guys are idiots. >IT'S LIFE!!! WHY ARE YOU ACTING LIKE A FUCKING CHILD!!!?
You are clearly acting like an adult here.
Justin Scott
I'll redirect you to this
Jaxon Young
ouchi
Jack Jenkins
Ah so I see. You're 31 and now settling for any type of guy that will take you and you're surprised he is shit. Probably focused on a career and tried to have it all but your biological clock was ticking so you took the only thing left and you come here with buyers remorse.
Leo Reyes
Is it not women who give birth to men? Feed men? Wash and dry their clothes? Who they call if they can't fucking figure out if coloreds go with whites?
Is it not us who know how to thoroughly clean a house without having to cut corners and sweep shit under the bed?
IS it not us who has to schedule your doctors appointments? Do you even know who your doctor IS!!?
I'm sorry to say...actually I'm not sorry. But as I said, men would be shit without women. Periodt.
Jordan James
>resentment so high that Muslims will try to hit it with an airplane.
kek
Landon Turner
He doesn't have to explain why you're a disappointing, frigid bitch and you're lucky he even bothered to try, you stupid whore. How much weight have you gained in the meantime? I bet he didn't even mention it.
Besides with that OP pic you're probably a nigger, in which case advice for humans doesn't even apply to you and I'd instead suggest you go scream at waitresses and gas station attendants since that is all I ever see niggers doing and I assume they get a great deal out of it.
She is 31. Taking time off and enjoying life is all she has done. Now she is trying to get her family life in order at rapid speed because the clock is ticking.
Camden Fisher
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Carter Morgan
So basically you just prove me right. That men are simple. The mere fact that you can't even answer the question, of why men just can't mature up--you ask me for a picture of my tits--just shows why without us you guys would be nothing more than just horny quacks.
What if I don't give a flying fuck about your problems and just want to see tits? Tits or GTFO I don't negotiate with terrorists
Jeremiah Adams
Fail to see your point, because I don't think anybody cares about your titless and timestampless opinion
Kayden Kelly
You're a man baiting Tits or didn't happen With timestamp aswell
John Reyes
Complaining that the relationship lacks fun and excitement is a red flag for me. I don't have any advice on this topic but it seems like he doesn't want to grow up.
Giving him the benefit of the doubt, maybe he's scared? Seems like he wants two things that can't really coexist. An adult life with marriage but still wanting to keep a piece of the life he has.
I don't know him other than what you said but maybe he's not ready to take that jump with you yet?
Bentley Morgan
Yeah you’re prob right, I’m just waiting for the lease to end.
Owen Peterson
Tits or GTFO
Thomas Ortiz
without you the human race would die and bring you along with it.
1) get a better guy 2) don't ask stupid questions on Yea Forums 3) enjoy triggering the perma-angry virgins
Luis Hall
Hold on. I'm gonna post a timestamp for you idiots.
Joshua Watson
Tee hee thought the same
Jacob Bennett
this. he's not ready. it may be what he wants, and he loves you, wants marriage, kids, etc, but sounds like he doesn't want that right now. scared to take the leap or has cold feet.
Connor King
>It is always a woman who is behind the strongest, most successful man. If she was so fucking good why did she need a man to do all the work infront of her then, retard?
Nathaniel Gutierrez
If you dont post tits alongside it's just going to make things worse. Lotsa traps gonna pull the trigger because of it.
Liam Rodriguez
If someone told you about this site, they left out some important shit.
just because you are getting married and growing up doesnt mean you have to be boring. Maybe he's looking at a future with a boring bitch for a wife and having second thoughts. Maybe you should chill the fuck out and not take everything so seriously, go on a date, get shitfaced, do something stupid. These things never have to leave your life.
Evan Diaz
This .... and you probably don’t satisfy him sexually, or dont hardly have sex with him enough
Gavin Butler
I hope this is real, because this woman is literally a joke. Sexist, closed minded, idiotic, and obviously is very humble. Honestly swallow a 9mm, better luck in the next life. Maybe you won't be dealt such a shit hand (being an inferior woman)
Levi Flores
>wan't
Zachary Rodriguez
Then don't get married. It's pretty simple.
Matthew Edwards
Seriously well said. We dont always want to have meaningful conversations especially when they are being shoved in our face every day.
Christian White
Why the fuck as a guy would i want to let some freeloading cunt into my house unless she atleast did all that? I can fucking do it myself, you dumb fucking cunt, but what do you expect? Me to fucking work my ass off while you sit around doing nothing? Fuck that, better being single and sleeping around, same benefits to having a wife except i keep the money, too. Also less stress
We don't give a flying fuck about your life, retard. If you're going to post here post ur tits so we actually give a fuck or go fuck off, cuz quite frankly, we're fucking full.
Carter Scott
Fucking hell sounds like he is scraping the bottom of the barrel with you
that job you got, the one you think is empowering you and has you soooo emancipated - its ruining your relationship.
life isnt about money. move somewhere where its cheaper, get a 20-30 hour job with high qualification, your husband do the same. spend some time together instead of toiling away your life at that all so important job for money that wont be able to replace your man once he finally leaves.
at least thats what i am doing.
if you expect your husband to stop being a child, you can turn lesbian now
Tyler Bell
I actually laughed at that one.
And for the record I'm not boring. I'm the one who exposed him to the world of traveling. He's had the most fun on the vacations I've planned, thanks to me and my great ideas.
Again, something WOMEN do.
Anyway, here's a time stamp. Not a guy, dumb asses.
>I understand that guys are idiots. >They wan't you to do everything. They don't know how to do anything. And when you are an adult, living in a stressful world with a successful career, and FINANCIAL OBLIGATIONS; Stfu, cunt. U aint chippin in a cent. U r not fun to be around. No1 wants to hear your nagging. He can afford fun. Kys
Oliver Russell
gorilla detected, call the zoo catchers with the big nets
Dominic Ortiz
whoopdefuckindoo
Brody Kelly
maybe your opinion on men would change if the one you wound up with wasnt a useless piece of shit.
i fed my own baby, changed diapers, got a job and a car, know how to keep a house clean and how to run the household without it turning up to be a broken mess every other week, and you see me bitching around?
lady, you need to get fucked and stop being such a crybaby bitch.
Jason Robinson
Why the fuck do men need to grow up? If have a job, sleep around etc. Lifes fucking great, why change it? Why would i want more stress and less cash just to raise some cunts in this already overpopulated planet. Fuck that shit.
If being a child is living the dream, fuck yeah i'm a child. What you going to do about it?
Quite frankly, life as a kid is great. I work enough to own my own house, i have time off to do what i want like play video games, chat chicks up, get lucky now and then. It sucks you let your insecurities force you to living a life you don't enjoy for "the greater good" which is inevitably going to lead to us all dying of over population.
Then again, it's alway the retards who have children, that's why we're in this mess to begin with. fuck.
Charles Anderson
Actual tits or didn't happen What this user said You might be tranny Tits or didn't happen
Joshua Fisher
>missing the point of "tits of gtfo" this badly What a dumb fucking cow, jesus christ.
Jayden Thompson
ew a nigger
Brody Smith
at what point in my post did i write anything about my gender? you think i am a female? you dumb fucking retard.
Parker Nguyen
Fact is you are obviously boring to him an it will only be a matter of time before he finds excitement elsewhere stop trying to place all the blame on the poor sod and accept for once some responsibility and u derstand that what your doing is fucking toxic... On a side note dont give me this if he cheats on me lecture etc as im pretty shre you would have rode the cock carousel
Elijah Baker
then ur either a faggot or a dumb cunt
Cameron Scott
this. i hope the dude leaves her and find a better girl
Camden Garcia
>31 year old woman posts her tits on the internet to gain validation from a bunch of anons sad
If any of the men here think I'm going to actually post my breasts it just proves how simple you all are. I took a pic. Close up. If you can't see I'm a woman you belong in a institution for children with cognitive disabilities.
Ian Bailey
>"im not boring" >"you guys axed for tits" >barely shows nat geo nipples
Owen Mitchell
you are a dumb fucker that lacks reading comprehension
Brayden Jenkins
because you wont shut the fuck up about the wedding, its 1 day fuck off
Cameron Roberts
He's going to wish he never married you, like all men do when they marry. Just give it some time. He'll see what youre all about
Benjamin Barnes
why the fuck are you asking for genuine input on a serious situation on Yea Forums? are you fucking retarded?
Isaiah Murphy
>31 year old nigger bitch complaining about her life on fucking Yea Forums of all places, and getting worked up when people are "sexist" (stating facts)
I TAKES A YEAR AT LEAST TO PLAN A WEDDING. I KNOW YOU'RE TO SIMPLE TO UNDERSTAND WHAT ALL THAT ENTAILS. HOW MUCH TIME AND ENERGY YOU HAVE TO PUT INTO IT. But it's a WHOOOOOLE lot of work and it does consume your weeks. So it may be one day, but the preperation is no joke. So I should be appreciated. You should be grateful. To ask me "where's the fun" is extremely selfish considering the fact that we're both in the news business as I mentioned before and work odd hours.
And it sounds like you would be the same. Asshole.
Jose Murphy
>"men never grow up" >"follow my advice if you want to stay with your husband" >"why do you think im a female?" seriously, are you that blind? Or did you forget you're a cock loving fag?
Apart from all the stuff men invented, amazing things men discovered, societies and cultures men built, and the sacrifices that millions of men made to keep their home (and by extension, whiny cunts like yourself) safe.
But no, youre completely right, Leo Szilard wouldnt have been able to work on nuclear physics without his mum washing his underpants, Newton wouldnt have written his laws without his missus making him a sandwich and NASA wouldnt have gotten us into space without the office bicycle giving everyone blowjobs in the janitors closet.
Fucking relax, my Fiancé and myself are planning a wedding right now and its as stressful as you want to make it .. and based on how you are acting on a fuckin Yea Forums thread you sound like a high strung control freak. Im not surprised he isn't being helpful, he probably doesn't wanna deal with that bullshit.
Juan Sanders
>wan't your 31, explain to me what the fuck is a wan't. Is it similar to an "axed"?
Bentley Gomez
>relationship lacks fun and excitement
he just wants blowjobs and threesomes
Samuel Cook
You sound almost as stupid as she does
Brayden Torres
Jup she watched too much Jordan Petersons nagging about responsibilities it seems
Brayden Hill
Tits or gtfo
Gavin Roberts
I like this post user. I like you.
Henry Parker
Timestamp and show Tits or gtfo
Robert Phillips
im a guy, i dont plan on growing up. please explain to me how my advice would be different when talking to a man. maybe something got lost in translation, im not a native english speaker.
please, elaborate on how working less and having more fun in your life is advisable for a woman but not for a man.
Mason Evans
see
David Barnes
Has this worthless fucking roastie even shown tits yet?
Why did I have to scroll this far down for tits or gtfo? New Yea Forums can get fucked
Jordan Cook
This better be bait.
If not, then honestly you sound like a nagging harpy. You probably are not graceful under stress and have become unbearable as you fixate on the future. Be less myopic, relax, realize you can't control everything. Perhaps if you learns you wont get your ass divorced in 5 years. Its obvious your fiance seems more grounded and easy going. If change seems like something you are incapable of, just call it off now. Dont out your kids through a divorce.
Those are some hirsute forearms for a biological female.
Angel Myers
how did you take pic with arms crossed
Asher Adams
I asked him to take the picture. Idiot.
Noah Jackson
Timestamp or didn't happen
Dylan Bailey
You got the picture. Fuck you.
Caleb Wright
So you're saying females are really good at taking care of the household while the man wants to be out doing stuff. This is a brand new idea and will revolutionize male/female relations forever.
James Peterson
Over half of marriages end in divorce. You are not even married yet and you are going through this shit. Break it off and get a man you can control for as long as you wish, this guy seems too good for you
Christopher Price
Lol the question is if you have a vagina. I'm not challenging your opinion on easy living retard. You give advice on how to live with "your husband". You then state right after that you're living by your own advice, which does imply to me that you have a husband yourself... So you are either gay, or a female. Or a guy with shitty english lol
>does this look like a faggot tranny to you?? seewhen you consider that faggot trannys often have surgical scarring at the niplles and you've hidden yours, yes, this looks very much like a faggot tranny. tits or gtfo.
>husband taking a picture of your tits so you can complain about him on Yea Forums
Is this even OP?
Parker Smith
Overpopulation is a meme and a myth. You are a zogged jewpuppet and your genes will not survive. Your ancestors will look down at you like a degenerate puppy, barely a human being that exists only to satisfy his dopamine receptors.
Parker Ramirez
But seriously tho there are a mountain of tranny's and traps here, I'm going to need to see your tits ma'am.
You are nothing but the carrier of you genes. You sentience is an illusion, an evolutionary fluke that exists to satisfy your limbic system to the point that all of your desires entirely drive from it. Even all of that is just a convenient vehicle found the DNA molecule to propagate. You are nothing any these retarded "real man" and "real women" shit is absolutely insignificant. All that matters is which genes survive and which genes have the highest chance to survive after propagation.
Ethan Perry
So basically you are horny quacks and you can't have a conversation without thinking about sex.
GROW THE FUCK UP!
Why can't men focus on anything without thinking of sex?
It just proves how small your brains are.
Hunter Torres
Timestamp tit or gtfo
Joseph Sanders
If you're a female, you're a cunt. If you're a male, you're a faggot simple.
Jason Powell
Think its time for you to step away from the internet you deluded fucking cow
Brody Cooper
actually hurtful gonna fap to the tranny instead so take that
Easton Nelson
Because you are a retard and your future husband is also a retard. Majority of humans are completely degenerate and useless, most of this thread including you needs to be removed from the genepool. Humans used to be strong, we used to be intune with both the nature and ourselves, now we are nothing more than dopamine chasing monkeys controlled by bigger dopamine chasing crooked nosed monkeys. The only solution is to turn to the roots, whatever they are for the person in question.
Tyler Peterson
>I didn't come here to solve a problem, I came here to bitch and moan
Typical woman.
You're the problem. But you'll never be intelligent enough to critically analyze your situation and come to a sane conclusion. Keep howling, howler monkey. And he'll keep ignoring your howls like a homo sapien should.
Logan Lopez
Homosapiens are niggers, Neanderthals are white.
Ryan Green
Then you have failed by limiting yourself to a single women for the rest of your life while me and the boys go around fucking bitches. I could have a son for all i know and not know about it. Personally, i don't give a fuck. enjoy raising the next door neighbors kid mate.
fact is breeding has nothing to do with marriage, and even if my sentience is fake the illusion of joy and happiness feel real to me and honestly as long as i am happy who gives a fuck.
Josiah Howard
So basically you are controlling quacks and you can't have a conversation without thinking about marriage.
GROW THE FUCK UP!
Why can't women focus on anything without thinking of marriage?
It just proves how small your brains are.
John Green
Talk to him. Tbh, you need to live for the other person in a marriage, and you both are not doing that. Take this with a grain of salt. My ex bottled shit up, and it changed her for the worse. She cheated for the first time in her life. She and I split day before last. Her problems were a few small bad habits I had, i.e. asking her where something is if I can't find it, before searching for it.
>asking her where something is if I can't find it, before searching for it.
That's not even a bad habit it's just common sense, "I can't find my anal beads, have you seen them"
Jaxson Hughes
does this count as dub dubs
checked
Gavin White
Possibly tripsdubs?
Anthony Young
bait thread
fuck off, larping faggot
Daniel Thomas
I guess she wanted me to go look for things before asking her. Lol Like I said, she and I broke up day before last, and that's okay, because there is a woman out there that will help me look for my anal beads when they are M.I.A.
Evan Nguyen
I certainly don't give a fuck, but I suggest you re-read what I wrote. The most successful tactic in humans for successful gene propagation is a multi child, as in 4+, close knit family. Understand k selection versus y selection. I also basically live in the woods which helps a lot and I suggest any sane man to do the same. My advice to you is that eventually your dopamine receptors still be fucked to shreds and their sensitivity will be hampered greatly. You will be left as a husk of an old man that can barely enough life, not to mention that you will die cold and alone. Your risk reward system has evolved for a certain kind of natural state, research how ancient humans lived and try to imitate it, you will find that your brain is literally tailored to enjoy that kind of life the most.
Kayden Sanchez
well no it's dubs because 00 but then it's also 900 900
Andrew Martinez
Ima tell you why she probably got upset. She probably hated that she had to actually shove anal bead up your ass for you to cum.
Owen Carter
800900900
Samuel Walker
Hello my dear jewish friend
Kevin Sanchez
The main issue with your lifestyle is that it is not sustainable. Eventually you will be in shambles mentally
Brody Smith
your choise, your responsibility not men, ..you end of thread
Brayden Lee
Well how else do you use anal beads?
Thomas James
She probably hated that AS A WOMAN she had to stick something UP HER MAN'S ASS. If she wanted a fag she would have picked one up! That's what I mean! I wouldn't blame her!
Jayden Lopez
She is a dumb bitch but are you implying that we don't have any responsibility?
Colton Bell
It's the pulling out of the beads that rubs you the right way user, do you even sexlife?
If you have ever had a leg shaking shit that's what it is like.
Also if you can't find your anal beads they are probably behind you.
I do know that and my fiance is too afraid to admit that he would like something like that because he's 100% heterosexual although he admits to letting girls lick him in the ass before, which is just as homo as anal beads.
Lincoln Lewis
>Broke up with girl >Seeks new girl with sextoy finding skills Is gay because enjoys sex?
It's only gay if balls touch, pic related as it is super hard gay.
I am in the opposite situation. It's not men, it's just certain people. My baby momma is an adult child and she is kicking and screaming, but she is realizing she is stuck with me and we can have a good life if we put some work in.
>IT'S LIFE!!! WHY ARE YOU ACTING LIKE A FUCKING CHILD!!!? Because you're about to marry one.
A real relationship is meant to be purposeful and not necessarily fun - although fun shouldn't lack ofcourse. It's for looking after another, enhancing eachother in order to tackle the problems of life with an extra pair of hands. If he is there to have fun then he will drop you once the fun is gone and go to the next party.
Man, reading and hearing about relationships like this make me seriously shake my head in disbelieve. How can you not put 2+2 together.
There will be no cake to eat when you will be a post-hedonistic lonely old man with no one who cares about him truly. Additionally hobbies that trigger your instincts also help with keeping you intune, like hunting or building/crafting. I'm just giving advice as an older man to probably a younger one on how to get the most out of your organism.
Connor Price
It just sounds like youre a cunt. Maybe work on that.
