What do to achieve waifu status? I wanna make my bf as happy as I can, but I don't know how to express my love in good enough ways. One idea I had was showing up at his job with a surprise apple pie or something, but I unno if that's a great idea or if it would just be creepy/inconvenient/annoying.
What other stuff can I do
What do to achieve waifu status? I wanna make my bf as happy as I can...
depends on his job, i guess.
i'd love it but i'm also into clingy girls, so take that with a grain of salt.
and sex, lots of sex.
well, he's a nurse practitioner at a small clinic. I've met a lot of his coworkers, I don't think they'd have a problem but who knows. Gosh though, does it really sound that clingy?
Honestly he doesn't want to have sex as often as I do, so I guess I have that covered.
it's the kind of job where he could be legit busy, that might not be that great.
one thing you could do if you're friendly enough with the rest of the staff would be to leave a small cake in the break room's fridge (assuming they have one) and text him about it before lunch break
massages might do him good, too.
overall, most guys will be happy with you just feeding them, fucking and not being cheated on or treated like shit.
well, I don't think I'm that close with them to be able to do that sorta thing, but who knows. They seem to get catering and stuff a lot.
Oooh, massages is a really good idea.
Well, I do cook for him every night, I'm working on getting better at that. I guess I'm trying to go beyond what most guys would just be happy with and be the best I can be
If youre gonna bring him something, bring enough for all his co-workers too. Like a two layer homemade chocolate moose cake. So everyone at his work can have some and they all talk about how awesome you are and they're just like "wow user you got a real keeper there". Of you don't want to come off as too creepy or obsessive try to do it for an event of somekind, like Valentine's or anniversary or something, any excuse will do.
Oh also wake him up with a blowjob every once in a while.
you sound too good to be true, there must be a catch somewhere or your guy is the luckiest motherfucker around.
this sounds like a good plan
Ahh that's a good idea! Though having to wait for those kinds of things sounds a little daunting, I do like things to be spontaneous.
I guess I do worry about coming off as creepy sometimes. He hasn't caught me doing anything weird that I know of, but still, I recognize this stuff probably has a habit of leaking out.
Aaaah I've always wanted to do that last thing, but I'm really lousy at waking up. His job gets him up too early.
I don't know, I think there's plenty of catches but he sticks around anyhow.
now i'm curious about these weird habits of yours
don't worry, as long as you're a cute girl you'll get a pass on a lot of things
well... I guess sometimes I wear his old clothes and stuff, especially the gym ones. He has a really good smell about him, and it's really nice to be surrounded by it sometimes, though it kinda makes it hard to focus on chores so I can't just do it all the time. Also recently I started drawing pictures of him doing lewd things to me. It's the only nsfw art I draw, and he doesn't quite know about it.
I don't know, I feel like I can't get enough of him. We already live together, and spend most of our nights in and together, but sometimes I wish he could stay home too so I could be with him even more.
that sounds childish but adorable, he's a really lucky guy.
post the art! do it!
>inb4 flood of "can we see the drawings"
is it childish? I always thought it was just plain creepy. I don't know how I'd feel if he found that stuff out. I feel like I'm the lucky one tbh, he's great. He lets me be his housegf like I've always wanted, he's super sweet and understanding and stuff, and very neat and stuff too.
I don't want to post the art though, it'd be a bit too close for comfort since he has specific tattoos and stuff
just wondering, how old are you two?
and yeah, it all sounds like cute teen stuff to me, but i'm into that
really, i'd say the only thing nobody mentioned so far that you should do to keep him happy would be to take good care of yourself to stay his beautiful waifu forever
I'm 25 and he's 34. I guess he treats me like a kid sometimes, like he ruffles my hair and calls me kiddo and gets me stuffed animals and stuff like that.
Ah, well I do my best to keep myself healthy too. Mostly eat fish and veggies over unhealthy food, and go on plenty of hikes and do squats and such.
yeah, you sound much younger than that (witch is a great thing).
you have no idea how jealous i am of him, i really wish i could have a girl like you
how did you two meet anyway?
that is 100% a cgl or dd/lg relationship.
in that context, how you feel is completely normal. the person you love is your whole world and you can never get enough of them. nothing makes you happier than making them happy.
as to what you can do? that's all down to what he likes. noticing little ways you can make his life easier is what its all about, and it sounds like you're on the right path.
People tell me my personality seems younger than I am, though I guess that's mostly his old guy friends.
We met on okc of all places. Apparently I was the first and only girl he met from there.
I've heard about that, it definitely seems interesting. I'd love to maybe try some of that stuff, but no idea how to broach the subject at all.
Gosh, you think so? I mean, I guess that is how I feel, I just always worried it was a bad thing. Pursued and the pursuing, you know?
>ruffles your hair
>calls you kiddo
>buys you stuffies
yeah, I'm not in any doubt. cgl/ddlg don't have to be all roleplay and outfits, at their core they're just a caring relationship dynamic. You need somebody to care for and nurture you, he needs someone to care for.
It's not a bad thing. it's the best kind of relationship. You never have to worry about where you stand, it's always nice and obvious.
wow, that makes my heart flutter a little bit to think about. I guess I'll try to talk to him about doing more of that stuff. It is really nice.
Thank you, user
you're welcome. anything about it you want to know while we're here?
Are you in that kind of relationship yourself?
And, well, I don't know, I guess mostly I'm just wondering how to bring up the topic with him. I think maybe it's the kind of thing he'd like too, but I don't know for sure.
>Are you in that kind of relationship yourself? I am, and have been in a few.
>maybe it's the kind of thing he'd like too, but I don't know for sure.
I think you can be pretty sure he is from how he treats you.
>how to bring up the topic with him
technically that's optional. Just knowing why you feel that way and why you react to things a certain way can give you some peace of mind. You can enjoy the relationship without naming it if you want.
If you want to actually try a bit of roleplay or outfits? then you get to do it the old fashioned way. shyly suggest that you heard about it and it sounds like something you like if he's okay with trying it.
>how to bring up the topic with him
call him daddy mid sex, he'll either like it, not notice or that'll be a really awkward moment, but it'll be forgotten the next day.
and after you're done just cuddle and start the "hey listen to what i heard about on the interwebs"
So a femanon wants to make her boyfriend happy? Have you considered spreading your legs and letting him have his way with you?
You're the kind of girl a guy dreams of.
Give him a blowjob to wake him up
Oh wow, you must be pretty good at it
Well, I do have a couple schoolgirlish outfits that he seems to like. He really likes the pleated skirt with button up shirt look. As for roleplay.. I dunno, that feels kinda artificial? I'd rather it be natural, like the kinda behavior that goes on all the time.
That's top bold, user. I think I'd rather talk to him about it first. He does kinda look like my dad.
I consider that constantly
I don't know about that, user. I've been pretty unpopular with most guys for a couple reasons.
I want to try that, it's just hard to wake up before him.
It doesn't matter if you're popular with guys or not. If you love someone this much and they love you back that's all that matters.
The short version of being a little is to act as childish as possible. See if he likes you as his cute little girl or a sassy toy he needs to hold down from time to time.
Can we get a pic of you, I want to see what we're dealing with. Also do you have any weird behavior going on?
schoolgirl outfits are good.
feeling natural is the most important part. some people need to go full coloring-books-and-pacifiers to really enjoy themselves, though. but telling him would mean you can call him daddy casually if you wanted.
speaking of, this can work: a girl saying it out of the blue while she was cumming was how we both found out we were into it. It was like a bolt out of the blue that changed my life.
Well golly, thanks user. It's all that matters to me for sure, anyways.
He definitely likes when I play up the little kid stuff. Sometimes he says stuff in jest that I kinda wish he was serious about, like he gets mad at me staying up late so he jokes about having a bedtime and stuff. I guess that would help me wake up before him if we did that, though.
Sorry, I'm not really comfy with that. Don't wanna risk him finding this. And well, some weird stuff I talked about I guess.
That's I guess the biggest worry I had with cgl stuff cos sometimes it feels kinda fake. I actually went to a bdsm munch with a friend once, but it all kinda felt really performative and not natural at all.
I don't know if I'm bold enough to just blurt that sorta thing out.
Alright if you aren't going to give a pic can we get your three sizes and hair color?
I guess... I don't really know what three sizes you're talking about, but I guess I'm rather thin. I forget to eat a lot and got lucky with genes.
And my hair's brown
You might want to get used to the idea of pretend incest if you haven't already. A lot of daddies take 'dad' literally. And if he isn't into being called 'daddy', he might be into being called 'big bro'. Try giving him innocent puppy dog eyes the next time you blow him, pretend you've never sucked dick before and that this is your first time getting cum on your face/in your mouth, all that stuff. Act like you're 10 in the bedroom.
If you're feeling really adventurous and you have good soundproofing, you might want to ask him to try pretend rape with you. Daddies get off on their littles saying no and forcing them anyways.
This thread is adorable.
honestly, just don't overthink it, it doesn't have to be about bdsm or kink stuff, the point is just for you two to have fun
Well, I suppose that won't be too difficult, incest is something I've always kinda liked the idea of just a little bit. Those are good ideas about the puppy dog eyes though, I'll try that for sure.
The last thing I don't know for sure, though. He's so sweet to me, I don't know if he'd have it in him to even pretend to do that sorta thing
Anyways I'd better get to bed. Thanks for the help, everyone!
three sizes are bust, waist, and hips
Pretend he's your brother or dad the next time you fuck. Makes getting creampied feel a lot dirtier.
> it all kinda felt really performative and not natural at all.
you're gonna do great, babygirl. just do and say what feels right, and dont force anything.
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3d's can't be waifus.
It's the law.
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obviously you need to drug him and tie him up in your basement until he admits he'll marry you and never cheat. i've seen this in anime and it works 100%.