Feels thread? Feeling down tonight

I wear glasses and have the most fucked up teeth on the planet and i still talk to girls, looks aren't an excuse

the first step to self confidence is to be kind to yourself. whenever you start berating yourself, just shut up. whenever you say, "I can't have a girlfriend" or "no one will ever find me attractive" just say to yourself, "that's not true" and "I believe I can find love." do that for a long time and you might begin to relax and attract women.

Oh shit a feels thread. Yeah feeling suicidal tonight. Might break up with my bf. I'm a mess. Broken and carry a lot of baggage. Might do it next month when my parents are away on vacation. Just take the old shotgun and blam.

I can't condone or suggest that, but it's your life and you may do what you want with it.

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I just got a bj from my girlfriend a few minutes ago. Feeling pretty good right now.

Why are going to break up with him?

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cool story, bro. you tell that at parties?

why do you wanna break up with him, doesn't he bring light into your darkness?

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lmao this is why people don't spend time on /fit/ even though there is some good info on there. so fucking autistic and cringy.

Yes

If you're feeling down you just lack sufficient motivation to be a man

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how's the view from your high horse?

I know just the whale here in Oregon

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Cope moar lanklet

It's fucking fantastic knowing I'm not bitch-made like you crybabies

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Yes, getting laid does increase happiness, but is not the sole factor. Life still sucks

yeah, you definitely aren't pathetic because pathetic people totally wouldn't spend their time crashing feels threads with meathead logic. in fact, the only way to not be pathetic is to lurk Yea Forums so that you can feel superior to people with emotions.

I'm getting married in 1.5 months and I have no idea how it's going to go

like cold feet, or what?

are you me?

>meathead logic
Lift more. It will increase happiness and self confidence, reducing your dependence on women. There is literally no downside, so why aren't you doing it?

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no the wedding. So many things have to come together. 200 guests. aaa. Huge waste of money tbh

On the other hand, I cant wait to be married

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If you don't feel sadness and your only response to seeing sadness is to tell that person they aren't motivated enough, you should be institutionalized.

Yeah, I can't even imagine the hassle planning a wedding must be. glad you're excited about wifing her though

she's one of those girls that had an extremely strict family. I got to reap the benefits of her lack of world exposure because I was at the right place at the right time. Girls like that end up being super faithful. Also I conditioned her to enjoy getting her ass eaten

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Yea if you want

interesting perspective.

Wow, some grade A response there. Exercise is a great way to meditate, a proven antidepressant. Are you trying to rationalize being overweight or are you just lazy?

let me reiterate: thinking that sadness is something bad and that should be gotten rid of, and/or isn't a part of being a man makes you a robot who should be seeking help. I never spoke ill of exercise, I'm pointing out your ludicrous view point on "feeling down." pic related is what you said and what I am refuting.

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I see now, well let me take that on. Sadness takes away motivation to do anything, so if you have the discipline to do it regardless you will get your motivation back and through that, happiness

yeah, I can concede to that, but barging in on a feels thread just to tell people that they're sad because they're lazy is still a dick move. work on your tact and maybe you would actually be motivational instead of just an asshole.

Hello friend. How has your first week here been?

Welcome to Yea Forums

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that's fair. I'm just trying to keep Yea Forumsros from killing themselves just because someone has no idea how human interaction works. you may think it's futile, but I'd like to see you try and stop me.

kys faglord

wow, that was a really piss poor attempt to stop me. are you 5 years old?

I don't care what you do, as long as you start working out

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My brother wants to be a girl, and told me he never wanted to be my identical twin brother.

Ever since then... things have never been the same. I'm depressed, and potential suicidal. I feel empty knowing my brother never wanted the bond we shared. It doesn't feel good at all guys. I really want to die.

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I work around trains and I cant stop fantasizing about what would happen if I stick my neck on the tracks. But we also work in groups and it would be messy as fuck

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I hate to disappoint you, but...

Bruh is that the Terminator 2 arcade game background

yeah, that blows. you have a choice to accept him for who he wants to be, or to ruin your relationship with him. it's tough, but the choice isn't whether or not to have a choice.

every human thinks about doing that, its normal

whats not normal is actually doing it.

Get going. Become a better man

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Played hide the salami 30 mins ago. Shit was so cash!

you tried working out?

He has the most who is most content with the least - Diogenes

Its just a coincidence that you have the most body fat then

every time I have to stop work for one I keep pacing and gauging the windows of time it takes for a set of wheels to pass. we get at least 10 of them in a 12 hour work day. one of these days I'm going to do it

since you're so concerned with my fat, I weigh 150 and don't work out at all. suck on that, try hard

you have no one who would miss you, or do you just want them to suffer?

I JUST WANT TO DIE!

I FELT ENOUGH PAIN!
I'm only here on earth because of my parents, and younger brother. I would have killed myself a long time ago.

Once again, the choice isn't whether or not to have a choice. Everyone around you feels pain too, it's your choice how to deal with that.

How tall are you? What's your body fat percentage? How much can you bench? How fast can you run a mile?

Riddle me this, Batman: Why do you feel the need to upstage a stranger on the internet? Seems like you have a fragile ego and can't imagine a world where a person who doesn't work out is actually content with their life.

thats half the reason I havent done it years ago. if I finally completely lose my grip on time and reality in a few months then theres no telling what I might do

maybe focus your time on grounding yourself in the reality where your loved ones would be scarred for life if you committed suicide by train.

I'm not trying to upstage you, I'm trying to prove that you have so much potential that you simply refuse to reach into because of nonsensical reasons

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and what exactly is the end of that potential? what is the end for that effort? not going to prevent me from dying. not going to make it any easier to enjoy my life. if you're doing it for meditation, that's great, but there are many paths to the top of mt fuji.

If you don't want to do it for the happiness it brings, then do it for the happiness of your loved ones. Almost everyone has had a loved one that just insisted you were the most handsome little man in the room, why don't you make them proud? Better yet, do it for the mires you get from toasties or for power over them. You could also do it so you know the feeling of true strength, nothing as complex as leadership. There's endless reasons why people get fit, you just have to find yours. People die every day, it's up to you to break out of nihilism and become somebody

so many assumptions in this post. I already make my family proud without being in peak physical condition. what about my comment makes you think I'm a nihilist? if you think power only comes from physical strength you probably aren't very smart.

>not going to prevent me from dying
>what is the end of that effort
That self defeating tone is heavily reflective of nihilism.
>nothing as complex as leadership
I mean power as the ability to enforce your own will using your own means. If you have to rely on the power of a collective or another individual, can you truly be said to be powerful? People don't need many complex things, don't make something as simple as your own power one of them

>provincial exam tomorrow
>stayed up past 12 am
>dont ever eat anything
im going to be so fucking exhausted

the things that I do have meaning. I might work out if I actually had a reason to, but so far all of your reasons don't apply to me. doesn't make me a nihilist, at most it makes me utilitarian. everyone's body withers and dies at some point making your obsession with physical shape meaningless in the long run. I always have power over myself and my own decisions, why would I want to try and exercise power over anyone else? you still think your way is the only one, and you're still wrong.

good luck mate. maybe if you pass out they'll let you do a retake

Like I said, there's a lot of reasons to work out. You just have to find your own

Nigga please. I haven't touched pussy since 2010. I'm okay.

your core assumption is still that working out is somehow essential, which isn't true. the only essential things are eating, drinking, sleeping, and shitting/pissing. if I had a reason to work out, like I was training for something, I would do it, but that doesn't make it some sort of cure all that everyone should mindlessly practice. to me it seems like you can't accept the fact that literal millions upon billions of people have led fulfilling lives without making significant exercise a part of their daily routine.

kek amen to that

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trying to control that which is not under your control is a sure fire path to unhappiness. relinquish your desire for control and be free.

Who's to say what brings me unhappiness? I'm completely free, with nothing but my primal desires guiding me

You've saved a picture about how to pick up girls by "using control" lmao I'd say you're probably unhappy. Also trying to "use control" to get girls is a good way to attract people who are codependent, so good luck with that.

I go on more than one thread at once. I'm not trying to get anyone, I'm exercising for myself. I like the feeling to be able to open a jar of pickles as easily as a bottle of water, or to run that extra mile just because I can. I'm very happy, you probably would've posted a sob story on this thread if you didnt see me

That's a weird thing to save if you don't care about picking up chicks, but okay. Those sound like very simple things to derive joy from, so I am happy for you in that. Like I've said countless times in this thread, I am perfectly content without working out. I came to the thread to help out the people in need with some emotional support, but you scared them off with your macho bullshit so now I'm just here because I disagree with your insistence that everyone's life could be improved if they just worked out. you're the embodiment of what I hate about evangelism.

>be me
>be 7
>new neighbor, shes 5
>instant best friends
>constantly hanging out every weekend
>she vanishes when im 12
>shit sucks, whatever
>im now 17
>best friend moves back
>shes grown up, shes cute
>im anti-social and r9k as fuck
>eventually we become friends again
>shits great
>normally would spend my school nights playing minecraft
>now we're sitting out on my front porch, even during the cold november nights, just talking
>one night
>she rests her head on my shoulders, our hands lock
>suddenly warm, everything feels great
>though we both know we have feelings, don't do anything about it because teens are fucking retarded idk
>graduate high school, both our friend groups know we're gonna date
>we shrug it off like they're crazy, but we both know its true personally
>FF october 4th, 2015
>we finally kiss
>we make it official
>things are awkward since she moved to a new town, barely see each other
>i pick up a shitty 3rd-shift job to make money
>save up, buy a car
>shitty little rustbox, had never been so proud of myself before
>we're seeing each other practically 24/7
>i move in with my mom because problems with dad
>eventually gf moves in with me
>mom loves her
>i'm so madly in love with her, it's insane
>cuddling is amazing, the sex is FANTASTIC, waking up to her groggy little tired face in the morning was true happiness
>suddenly the idea of popping the question wasn't as ridiculous anymore

>4 weeks ago, a week before our 3 and half year anniversary, my friend suddenly shows up at our house
>gf's gone with friends, figured we were just gonna chill
>"user... Anonette cheated on you"
>call her up, ask her to come home
>in my mind, im thinking "nah he's wrong, he's probably mixing it up with someone else"
>ask her

i will never forget that silence. that's all her answer was. was just silence.
she eventually confessed.
my soul was ripped out of my body and nothing is enjoyable anymore.

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ouch. I'm very sorry for your loss. I've lost friends before but nothing like that. do you think you could still be friends with her, or would that be too painful?

That image seemed like a fitting response to what you said. If the "people in need" are scared off by good advice, they need to get off of Yea Forums. And everyone's life CAN be improved by exercise, you just don't know because you haven't tried it. If you are lumping me in with evangelists, wasn't your intent to do the same but with different (and wrong) words?

Not the guy you responded to, but unlike sky wizard exercise releases endorphins, strengthens your immune system, and 26 other beneficial for your health things. Literally exercise would improve everyone's life. I'm really tired of trying to have a content or sharing thread of any type and 20 seconds later having some thin skinned shit go "omg there are real people talking here? okay do you all mind listening to me cry about this thing that happened seven years ago?" YES. yes I fucking mind. Help yourself for crissake or go in the woods and start chugging wintergreen berries. The amount of mediocrity among all you smoke pot like its fucking air tweenagers is rediculous.

I'm ready to kill myself every goddam day and the only thing it has taught me is that sharing those feelings makes everyone elses day suck just a little bit more.

I ran cross country for many years. I backpack frequently. I fully know the benefits of hard exercise. the difference between us is that you're insulting peoples manhood for feeling sad. at least I'm attempting to sympathize and then offer advice if it's warranted, your method is to insult them, shove an ideology down their throats, and pretend they should thank you.

got it, so your immediate response to someone saying they had a bad day is to respond "fuck you, man up, do some squats"

yeah your soul being ripped from your body really is no big deal, I'm sure putting up a constant scab ripping reminder of the worst pain in his life would be healthy. If asking mildly interested half ass passive questions is your idea of help holy shit

The weak need to become stronger, they cannot become strong by being coddled on an Iranian scuba diving forum

>oh so you mean this rediculously dramatic dumb ass summary of the post you took time to write is what you said?

yeah kid, totally

damn, someone's butthurt about being called out for being a raging, macho, asshole with a fragile ego. I happen to think that forgiveness is an extremely healthy habit.

again, this is exactly what was said
"you lack sufficient motivation to be a man"
that's the long way of saying "fuck you, man up"

I think you have forgiveness and stagnation confused. But of course you're some kind of psychological savant, stuck posting on a shit board.

damn let's start debating who is cooler and smarter and less upset because of the actual useful non triggered shit we have to say

>look I can redefine things people say to always think I'm right

>not that guy
>thinks it's that guy
So along with muscles, you also lack reading comprehension

life is full of pain. letting go of that pain is required to continue your life. how is that stagnation? I thought you might understand the importance of not letting pain rule your life considering your rantings about working out, but I guess I was wrong.

>forgiveness evangelist

I know you'll deny that I'm doing the exact same thing you are now because of how open minded and non fragile you are and all that bullshit. This place was once an escape. Somewhere you could come to enjoy. Everyone had just as many problems, but actually put effort into escaping instead of ruminating.

you just going to keep talking to yourself pretending like you're entertaining a conversation?

that's the argument that's being defended here. that it's a perfectly normal, healthy, well adjusted thing to insult people who are in enough pain to reach out to complete strangers. that's how you give people trust issues.

I think you're lost

Probably gonna break up with my girlfriend once I'm back home in a week worried about my name of the fucking lease and everything with that.

>reach out to strangers on an anime forum riddled with porn
Yeah, it does seem like Freud would hang out on here

Its amazing how hard it is for this new generation to even talk to someone else without subconsciously believing it makes them inferior. Just starting life, but know everything about life.

A lot of things you've said are wrong, but you don't care. Yet you want to "help" people. Pffft.

That kinda thing happens. Just gotta talk to your landlord one of you signs a new lease.

I'm not always right. I don't know everything, just that you're a dick if you insult people in a feels thread. this isn't a motivational thread, it's a feels thread. it's for people to share feelings, not get berated by some gym zealot. did you learn your social skills at crossfit?

Thanks man prefer just to get out of it and fucking move on but I know it won't be that simple

Jeremy?

If so don’t forget you’re going bald too

Show my directed insult. And then look at you insulting alonside everyone of your posts. You're denial/projection incarnate.

How do you get someone out of their feels without making them dependent on others? You motivate them and give them the means to motivate themselves. Advice on a specific topic will just make them come crawling back when life kicks their ass in a different way

Sometimes it is. If you've filled at least one complete year many landos I've dealt with are like "ah don't worry man good luck". Be nice and ask, you'd be surprised broheem.

Teach a man to fish, for reelz

holy shit, I've quoted this so many times now
where were my insults? I guess being called an evangelist is insulting...

because I always want to follow the advice of people who insult me for having feelings in the first place.

Wrong guy

Get a dog. Get a fleshlight. Make some friends and be thankful. Find jesus or something... stop being so pathetic.

Okay, then make your own advice rather than ask random people on the internet

Let it go. You're way to convoluted to correct, argue, guide, make points. A completely unreceptive person demanding to be proven why they should even shut up and listen before they'll listen? Who is gonna waste that energy on someone so insufferably sure of themselves

and as I've said before, that was the ideology being defended. that's where this conversation started. I'm fine with telling people that exercise can help their life, but saying that it's a cure-all just isn't true. it turned into me defending living a fulfilling life without having to worry about exercise.

amazing is that actually possible?

no one said cure all. thats what you had to hear in your mind to make this little tantrum a reality

I've been listening perfectly fine. it seems you perceived a lot of insults directed at you, which I don't believe are there.

Pretending that two seperate people insulted you is delusion, not an argument

>Ill just repeat how right I am and how triggered/upset/whatever the other guy is

Do any of you ever notice this is all you ever end up doing or do your responses actually feel different to you

It all boils down to U mad bro?

I used to actually be able to come here and talk to someone but now I just leave after five minutes for another week because some shit has to prove how they can explain to thin air how right they are. I mean shit, you all realize you're proving nothing to no one right? Its just yourself

kek

To add a little more if you were to ask advice of anyone...would you want it from some soft pushover or someone who sounds like they've been eating the shit for ten years that you want to know how to flavor?

>you're a dick if you insult people on a feels thread
>damn, someone's butthurt about being called out for being a raging, macho, asshole with a fragile ego
>you scared them off with your macho bullshit
>you're the embodiment of what I hate about evangelism
>you still think your way is the only one, and you're still wrong.
That if you count insults to another's argument. If so, then the list is even further extended
>seems like you have a fragile ego
>if you think power only comes from physical strength you probably aren't very smart.
>you should be institutionalized
>yeah, you definitely aren't pathetic because pathetic people totally wouldn't spend their time crashing feels threads with meathead logic
>suck on that, try hard
>yeah, I can concede to that, but barging in on a feels thread just to tell people that they're sad because they're lazy is still a dick move. work on your tact and maybe you would actually be motivational instead of just an asshole

>I have to leave because a mean man hurt my feelings

thanks for compiling my work for me.

Any time, friendo

and no, I'm not dead to your feels. but I am not gonna support anyone who makes it sound like they couldn't stand up with rebar taped to their legs and a bamboo pole up their ass. that's just someone who would fail no matter what and its fucking depressing. EVENTUALLY you just have to pick up and move forward. You don't leave or drop the pain. It comes with you and makes you the unique person you are. If you're any kind of aged whatsoever you know depression NEVER goes away, it just mutates into something you can use. Sorry depressed bros, its a hard fucking truth but once upon a time you could come here and forget that fact temporarily, not bathe in it.

>gotem

>edgy little shits so sure that they're prepared for life outside the internet

see, now that's actually motivational. and a lot less insulting in my opinion, which no one asked for.

>you chased away all the pansies I wanted to help!

massive keks at your double dumbass standards

...said the 13 year old

and I had to completely stop talking and responding to your twat ass to do it

imagine that

wrong guy, but I like that people are getting confused now

>can't help myself

>what is a strawman
>what is reading comprehension

no way this is awesome

lmao, pretty much

>whats a computer

Here goes from a year ago

>Be me
>18
>Kissless virgin
>I’m ok with it, held out hope for the one girl
>Pick up Infinite Jest in the library for old times sake
>What an absolute meme
>Qt 3.14 who looks about 23/24 walks up beside me
“I read that book and it isn’t really worth it, his speech called this is water is nice though. Have you heard of it?”
>Whoa
>We have an absolutely stellar conversation about books for around 15 minutes
>Exchange numbers
>Confidencegrows.wav
>Leave the library
>Phone lights up
“I really liked our talk, sorry for rambling so much. Though if you like IJ I’m sure you didn’t mind too much.”
>My face lights up
>Go home with the first taste of real affection from a girl in a long time
>We talk some more over the next few weeks, in person and over text
>She asks me if I game
>Hellyah.jpg
>Spend our Saturday night at her place, playing cod, skyrim, and castle crashers
>Hours pass
>We’re having a lot of fun
>She fiddling with her thumbs
>Ask her what’s on her mind
“user I really really like you, do you want to be with me? I know I’m being upfront but I can’t help myself, haha.”
>I say yes
>She’s happy and crying a little
>I hold her and we stay in that position for a long time
>Both fall asleep
>Wake up to the smell of eggs and humming in the kitchen
>I stumble in
>Eat with her
>Just looking at how the sun embraces her skin
“I love you Liz.”
“I love you too user. Very much.”

If you want to hear the rest then I’ll keep going, thanks for reading.

not really

My main rant now is that to the customer at the TV repair shop,screw you! Dumb sheila, may you just stop buying TVs from us and stop being a total idiot. You're just a hole and you have no right to rate me that bad at how I gave everything to you on that stinkin flat screen TV.

loneliness can be eased as long as you take the time and make the effort. Love yourself and move from the hopeless way of thinikng, after that you can start building up confidence. It takes time but you need to be very patient if you want to build yourself up into the best version of you.

What is your blood alcohol level?

I don't really count my alcohol level in the house tho.

plus like I am ever gonna forget that 98% of you are super cool paid jews in trackpants patting themselves on the back who had to be told to shut the fuck up on several topics because their efforts are so fucking lazy you can reverse engineer the obligatory message that is being sold every time a hook nose opens their mouth... fat chance.

I don't need more trust issues tyvm

literally the only reason I stop by is its hard to watch tv when you want to listen to music. hide all the porn threads, hide all the 14 year old threads, politics, anything repeated and... two threads to check out. yeee

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correct. I both respect and pity the people stuck here. I asked you not to fuck with my booze and so far every other thing in my life has fallen apart so, I can't complain

>self-loathing
There is nothing in this life more pathetic than that.

shut your fucking face dude.

some of us need that extra shitty boost, we come here for it, to drive ourselves down further. you train your body, but we also train our minds. i havent had a good emotional release in > 2 years and goddamn it i need it.

i come here to read about peoples dead dogs and dads who made a pokemon save with their blastoise named after their kid. it fucks my shit up and the day after is the best day, always. so yeah, our day sucks a bit more. but our lives have feeling for a reason dipass