>Be me >In fairly new relationship >This woman is something special >She isn’t a libtard >She’s easily a 10/10 on my scale >She’s very intelligent >She’s hilarious >She’s pushed me to be better >She’s the best thing that’s ever >happened to me >She left a guy to date me and is >conflicted by it though >She was going to leave him either >way, but she feels guilty I was a >factor >She’s in Russia with my best friend >besides herself right now, along >with another close friend >Earlier today she told me she >wanted to take a break >She used the old it’s not you it’s me >She kept apologizing >She told me not to drink too much >and not to kill myself >I’m not the type to do either over a >woman whether I love her or not >I just feel insulted like she didn’t >really know me and took me for >granted >It just hurts >I love her more than I’ve loved >anyone else before >I hope to marry her, but the whole >thought of a break is selfish in my >opinion >I believe she intends on getting >back together with me >Yet while she’s in Russia we are >hardly talking >Its the perfect senario to reflect >without a break >I can’t tell my family because it >would break their hearts and cause >more trouble than it’s worth >If my mom found out she’d have >trouble trusting my girlfriend >I really only had one place to turn >since I have so few friends and she >is close with them as well >I want to give her the ability to tell >only who she deems fit
PS. I won’t be posting photos. She’s very paranoid about stuff like that and I won’t be sharing her here until I get the ok from her.
Also, as you can tell I’m not quite a newfag. I’m more of a lurker than a poster.
Ryder Fisher
if she really wants to 'go on a break' just end it. its retarded infidelity disguised as modern relationship therapy. i know, because i wanted to dump my shitty gf but she was so obstinate that i ended up 'going on a break" as compromise. i knew it was bullshit then, and its still bullshit now.
Cooper Smith
Normally I’d agree with you, but she’s different than ever other girl I’ve dated. With them I know they’d pounce on another guy, she moves very slow and is still a virgin which blows my mind. I trust that she won’t go off with some vodka loving commie. The only worry I could have is my friend and ex roommate that’s there with her, but he’s a good guy and he rejected her before she ended up with me so that’s unlikely.
Oliver Morgan
I suppose my biggest worry would be if she really hopes to be with him despite having feelings for me and that’s why she broke things off like that. It’s just not my day man, but thank you for replying. I didn’t think this post would get one tbh.
Asher Brooks
>wanted to take a break She wants to fuck some guy on her trip and not feel guilty about it. This is, unfortunately, something of a no-win scenario. She's demonstrating how she values your relationship: as a thing she can turn on and off to indulge her whims and wants without consequence. A measure of your cuckold potential. And based on the rest of your post wherein you basically say you're wrapped around her finger, she's probably right. The way to handle this is simple: "There is no break, only break up." She has to understand that the consequence of her dalliance will be losing irrevocably everything you two have. She'll weigh it and decide. And may go ahead and fuck the holiday guy anyway behind your back; no way for you to know. If she does, it won't be the last. (The friend factor it's highly suspect, too, by the way. They were undoubtedly effing y her on to indulge this little travel dalliance for the movie-like romance if it. Or they just dislike you and are trying to break you up. Doesn't matter. They've got her ear and you're on the other side of the world.) I've had a relationship end in almost exactly this way. (The only difference was the travel not being international.) It's sad, but I got past it. I'm told though the grapevine that she regrets it to this day fifteen years later and thinks I'm the one that got away. So I've been there and I feel for ya.
Blake Roberts
Yeah sounds like this sorry mate
Logan Fisher
>he rejected her before she ended up with me
sorry bro she's still got feelings and is trying to work on him. cut your losses and run, you'll find someone better i promise
Kevin Foster
Thanks for the input man and I’m sorry you’ve been through this. I still don’t really think that’s the complete reason though, despite it being a fear of mine.
