What does it mean to be "turned on?" Why do certain body parts and body types "turn us on" so much?
When you are masturbating or having sex, ninety-five percent of the time you aren't thinking consciously, you are just in a mindless state as you stare on.
Most men love tits, but what about them is sexual? What secret power do they have to turn men into horny bastards?
Is it possible to detach yourself from sexual desire and just view a body as an object? If so, then how?
Let's have a discussion.
What does it mean to be "turned on?" Why do certain body parts and body types "turn us on" so much?
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Programmed, nigga.
These things are primal, ancient urges, I understand that, but I'd like to be above that primal state as I'm sure many would.
Yes, but can we unprogram ourselves?
Looking at sex from an outsiders prospective makes it look silly.
You can try and fight it all you want, but it won't change. You could isolate yourself from it all I guess, but you won't ever kill your drive
I wish to be detached from it. I long for it.
It takes up so much time, even though the act itself only takes five to ten minutes.
cus the ones who subconsciously wanted it, fucked pussy as much as they could and that's why we are here today as the descendants . pussy and tits are attractive, because pussy and tits are attractive.
I agree to a point. It can consume your entire mind. It's second to our survival instinct; not something your switch off or train away.
> Can we unprogram ourselves?
You can train your mind to ignore the biological signals and instincts, and you can counteract (though not exactly undo) the results of your sexual maturation and development from environmental influences, but it takes an awful lot of constant hard work and can be viewed as a form of mental illness to do so.
> looking at sex from an outsiders prospective makes it look silly
An outsider's perspective? Yeah I suppose objectively sex is kinda crazy but you need something to keep the species going and that's the solution we ended up with.
Very good point.
It is human nature to be horny, but imagine what life would be like if you could choose to be horny. It would be amazing.
how do you think doctors are able to do their jobs? they stare at naked people all day long. reality is most people are hideous or average and not arousing to look at really. after going online you'd think every girl has this perfect shape and nice tits and ass, buts that's just not how it is, same with guys.
Indeed, it could be considered mentally unhealthy to be so obsessed with detaching oneself from standard wiring.
But with the population problems we are facing today, it is a welcome illness.
>how do you think doctors are able to do their jobs?
Just because you find a patient extremely attractive, doesn't mean you lose your shit and become some groping neanderthal.
tits are a sign of child bearing, and some people also think they mimic the shape of a woman's ass when she's bent over and presenting herself.
Some people have more self control when it comes to the urges, but they still hinder your abilities greatly.
To never have sexual desire would be a blessing.
> Population problems
There are, relatively speaking, less people starving today than pretty much ever in history (though the raw numbers are obviously quite high)
We don't really have a population problem. Food production is keeping pace with or even able to exceed population growth, though distribution faces some technical issues.
We're fine.
Yes, it's easy, you just...think objectively. Override your basic, immediate emotions with a little willpower. That thing "progressives" refuse to acknowledge exists so they don't have to grow up. You just apply that to say a picture of a naked woman and look at it with detachment, and if it's for some reason important to you you practice this until you strengthen the neural connections associated with that mindset enough so you can instantly slip into it.
You can do this permanently, at least while you're awake, with enough practice and resolve, but it's a huge waste of time and mental effort you could spend on literally anything else, and it will also damage your psyche in other ways because it leaves hormonal impulses disconnected but still present.
But yeah, I guess this concept used to be referred to as "mindfulness" before that became synonymous with doing yoga and sucking dick with soylent as lube. I don't know, I just call it what separates humans from animals, the ability to think about and modify your own thoughts.
So it comes to ass then? Why is ass sexy?
Perhaps it has something to do with how healthy an individual looks.
Ass is sexy because it's an obvious visual indicator that exposed vagina is close by
You can see a naked ass from a mile away but you can't see a vagina well without prying open some legs
That said, I think tits are to better warm the milk and also you can warm a baby up with them without losing as much heat directly from your core, so big tits became important and desirable in the cold climates of Europe as a sign of fertility and ability to care for a child, and women with big tits tended to be able to keep their kids warm better without freezing themselves.
Also women with bigger tits would survive better so long as they weren't landwhales overall, because more percent of their blood stays near their core and the fat keeps their chest warm, which is also why surviving European men, who didn't have tits, tended to be hairy and beardy.
Mindfulness is still mindfulness. Some people just use it as a kink, ironically.
This is true.
People tend to use it to describe thinking "spiritually" or "naturally" rather than objectively now. Basically they're retards so they completely misunderstood the good points of Hinduism/Buddhism
Objectivity is next to godliness. May humanity realize that soon.
>Ass is sexy because it's an obvious visual >indicator that exposed vagina is close by
you're talking through your ass, any body can come up with that stuff
Lol
I hope this is an intentional pun, and not you failing Occam's Razor.
>Ass is sexy because it's an obvious visual indicator that exposed vagina is close by
nigger what the fuck
ass is sexy because ass is sexy,
much like tits are sexy because tits are sexy.
I look at ass because its ass not because there's possibly vagina nearby (though that is a bonus)
It's called bring married. No longer does sex exist and you find yourself looking at other women.
user was asking about the psychological roots of the thing, not the conscious mindset. How did you have the attention span to read my paragraph but not enough sense to realize I'm not talking about conscious, manual thought processes?
You're that tard who back in the day would have told someone who tried to explain Newton's theory of gravity: "Uhhh no what the fuck nigger, apples don't fall because of 'gravity', apples fall because apples fall, none of this woo-woo conspiracy garbage."
dude you think too much about this shit
Ironically, women with very large breasts tend to have issues with breastfeeding, yet they seem to be selected for in some areas nonetheless
continuation of yourself (genes) to keep away from death as long as possible. Most people's first experience with nutrients (milk) is from the breasts, or its generally understood milk comes from breasts, and that it aides in this ultimate goal. When we seek reproduction, the health of the woman is factored in, even if subconsciously, which includes healthy boobs that make healthy milk which is condusive towards healthy offspring. Keep the party going faggot or get out of the way.
>things I don't personally like are silly
the post
>user posts an embryo-tier "looking into objectivity" post, showing the very first bud of an intellectual potential
>Anonymous is quickly to remind him that like, dude, just don't think about it l0000000l
I never thought I'd say it, but I miss 2009 Yea Forums
Yeah, there's a limit on practical functionality, but C cups are no issue.
your dick doesn't know that dumbass
You sound like a faggot
Sadly, we are nothing more than a slave to our desires. It's part of our genetic makeup to want what we can't have. Our brain has been hardwired to seek out stimulation, wanting to have sex is just as natural as wanting to eat, it's how our ancestors reproduced and it's what plagues every living thing on this planet. There's no fighting it OP.
>if you want to do something you have to do it thus you are a slave to it
sup reddit
It has control over you which makes you a slave, when you don't have it you're think about it and when you're not thinking about it, you're doing it. If anything a slave has more control.
Stop using words if you don't know what they mean, you stupid little faggot
>I am not a self-acting agent responsible for my own actions
the post
Stop making excuses and work with what you can control, or what you can't will consume you.
Big curves, boobs and butts were traits that our ancestors desired because they were linked to fertility, so men preferred thicc females, leading to these characteristics being passed on. Same reason why we have larger penises than other primates.
stop projecting, it's not my fault you're a virgin. It might have something to do with the fact that you're an abusive asshole
Itt.
12 year olds justifying their sex/porn addictions
>Same reason why we have larger penises than other primates.
t. dicklet
there's nothing inherently attractive about the human body. porn is good because it sexualizes the human body and makes it seem appealing so you can get off.