I'm 25 years old and suffering from various types of anxiety and OCD. I'm also a virgin

I'm 25 years old and suffering from various types of anxiety and OCD. I'm also a virgin.
Will getting laid improve my mental health? I feel like that's the only thing holding me back from being normal. I feel like my failure to perform this basic evolutionary task is causing my mental issues. I never had these issues as a teen. They started in my 20s.

Attached: 1477849967901.jpg (468x510, 43K)

It couldn't possibly hurt. If your problems persist and you finally decide to off yourself, at least you won't die a virgin.

No.
Getting laid should have no impact on your mental health (other than a temporary ego boost).

Get your head straight first and then get bitches.

first world problems nigger

No. But improving your mental health might get you laid.

No dumbass

>Will getting laid improve my mental health?
probably not. didn't help me. i had sex a few times due to luck but haven't been able to do it again for over a decade and i know i never will again. i still exist in extreme social isolation.

I've been trying to "get my head straight" for years, and that's what's been keeping me from going out and dating. I'm an attractive guy. I just have a LOT of problems.

>I'm 25 years old and suffering from various types of anxiety and OCD.
Anxiety and OCD sound some self-diagnosed bullshit or meme disorders but whatever.
>I'm also a virgin.
That's worrying.
>Will getting laid improve my mental health?
No.
>I feel like that's the only thing holding me back from being normal.
Nope.
Being a virgin is the consequence of what's holding you back and "not normal".
It's not the cause.
>I feel like my failure to perform this basic evolutionary task is causing my mental issues.
Nope.
It's your "mental issues" that is making you unable to have sex.
>I never had these issues as a teen.
Wrong.
You had them but you were just masking them.
>They started in my 20s.
It's just your mind and body screaming to you that your life is shit and you will never breed.

Holy fuck, pussy is romanticized so hard that this moron can no longer function without getting a taste. Your life fucking change, you'll still be a retard influenced by social pressures.

Lifelong sufferer of OCD here. It won't make it any easier. It's a temporary distraction. I've gotten laid, and I still feel disconnected from normal people. I'm really sorry, OP.

Not him, but anxiety and OCD are both very real. They're bad on their own, but they're a fucking death sentence together.

Are you Elliott Rodgers?

If you have anxiety issues that could possibly lead to performance issues. If you are too nervous you won't be able to maintain an erection for sex.

I'm 35 and most of my issues (social anxiety like you) started in my 20s also. I was shy in high school, but nothing like I am now. You better start getting out of that hole now, or you'll end up like me - a virgin at 35 and a 20K a year job.

I don't self identify as an incel, I don't hate women, and I have no desire to hurt anybody. I just want to be happy, man.

>20K a year job
This doesn't sound bad for a virgin.

Wait until you're ready. Putting out too much is bad for your mental health.

Attached: anonGetsLaid.png (1054x427, 384K)

What do you think virgin means?

Living by yourself on under 20K a year isn't easy. I live extremely basically and almost never spend money on things I want, as opposed to things I need for survival. It isn't a fun existence.

Your brain still works tho, right? You're a victim because you're playing the role. I am sure you know. I won't larp that i understand you, but I won't pity you.
This is pretty funny. When are you recording your Netflix special? I'd like to bring my dates to your shows.

>What about groceries?
I can eat every second day, maybe this way I will lose some weight.
>A car?
No need, bus is cheaper and I get to mingle with other people.
>Utilities?
I want a cave where I can sleep and wash myself and my clothes as to not stink.
I don't plan on bringing anyone to my place since I don't have friends or a girlfriend.

Its no big deal to get laid. Its fun.

what is funny? if it were easy then we wouldn't even be talking about this.

When I was a kid, I had this list in my head of things I didn't know how to do, and things I had done, that embarrassed, me. For God's sake, I was embarrassed because I didn't know hpw to tell time! (I was maybe 4, we used analog clocks back then).

It's your personality. You have to get busy doing things and not dwell on it. Nobody up in heaven is going to see you and come rescue you from your despair. This ain't the movies.

You'll figure it out, just take your time.

>Your brain still works tho, right?
Kinda but I'm still extremely immature and say stupid things.
>You're a victim because you're playing the role. I am sure you know.
That's true.
>I won't larp that i understand you, but I won't pity you.
Thanks.

you probably suck up to every girl you encounter in hopes of getting your dick wet. have some dignity and pursue better self fulfilling endeavors

The paradox:
Getting pussy isn't everything; not getting it is

Attached: zorro i am a man.jpg (1366x768, 53K)

i'm 50. i've got it figured out.

>Kinda but I'm still extremely immature and say stupid things.
Hey, me too.
Old people can be morons, it's been known to happen.

It’s really not that hard to get fucked.

maybe it's moronic to play (((their))) game and sacrifice your self dignity and waste your time, money, and effort.

It's moronic to use terms such as "sacrifice" when describing something that is clearly a barter transaction. You're not presenting your best offering so the god's bestow you a pussy to fall into.

Again
Lose weight go to dr get in some meds and a diet
Workout and excercise
Go to school
Get a better job
Get dick sucked
Will it help? It could but may not. I recommend going to get therapy

This.
Men need to quit putting pussy on a pedastool. This is the exact reason you aren’t getting laid and it’s fucking cringey

I actually enjoy womens company. The whole thing should be mutually enjoyable

What's really fun is making it to your mid 30s still a virgin thanks to avoidance and depression and shit, becoming socially adept and assertive thanks to a normie job but never having developed a social network or social hobbies, work draining you so much you don't have the energy to do shit when you get home, then going on dating apps and realizing that:

1) you need to change your lifestyle and sacrifice all your free time to meet women IRL and get the social type pics required on a dating app to look normal,
2) women your age are generally married or have kids, especially if they're on a dating app, and
3) you're not attracted to women your age because of your arrested sexual development

Basically it's not worth putting in the effort to fuck anyone I actually would want to fuck at this point. Better off hitting the gas on career and becoming a sugar daddy or buying prostitutes at this point.

> says the cringey fuck
work on your critical thinking skills

Explain.

Horrible advice

Not OP, but I'm 23 and in a similar boat. There's a really cute slightly autistic girl who has a giant crush on me, and has very explicitly asked me to fuck her on numerous occasions. Should I go for it? Part of me feels like it would be predatory because she isn't aware enough to consent, but part of me thinks that I'm 23 and still a virgin so I'm probably not all there either and it's fair game. She's two years older than me and constantly sends me nudes and asks me to fuck her, but other times she acts like a child. Should I do it just to get it over with?

Whats wrong with being sober, working out and avoiding stress?

Nothing I read by the user you replied to was cringey. What the fuck are you talking about?

Is she slightly autistic or mentally retarded?

Yeah, if you're 23 and still a virgin you're probably slightly autistic too. You're aware enough to feel predatory though, so it's a sticky situation. I personally wouldn't do it. She'll get attached and you'll feel bad.

Too well thought out to be legit.

She's pretty autistic. She's not a downy, and she's able to hold down a job and stuff, but there's definitely something off about her. There's something a little off about me too.

Just go for it, faggot. You're 23 years old. She'll probably be happy to lose her virginity too.

I have OCD, my mom has it too. Mainly intrusive thoughts and obsessions. I find it very hard to relax around girls and have sex. Start exercising ALL THE TIME and learn about mindfulness. you'll be fine brother

No, getting laid will only hurt your mental health if you're already mentally unwell. It will make you insecure and obsessive.

This. You're clearly both autistic. She's clearly more severe than you, but if you're a virgin at 23, you're not so normal either.

What will help you is exercise. It balances out the chemicals in your body, thereby regulating your mood. Running or biking are good options and so is bodybuilding with some cardio during the week. You'll look better, feel better and will stop having mental problems. Americans have a lot of bad shit in their diets and too many distractions. Get focused on your body and fix it.

The worst thing you need is a clingy crazy bitch taking you on a ride to funny farm. Trust me, all women are crazy but don't jump right into the alligator pond. Women can fuck you up pretty bad. Fix yourself and get a stable chick, not some fucking potato.

You're a literal fucking moron, stop posting.

>Start exercising ALL THE TIME
right because that isn't completely tiring and sweaty. try again.

If you think releasing some dopamines is going to fix your hardwired brain issues, you’re mistaken.

Yeah you should have a relationship, but you should solve you first. Get some therapy.

Yeah most mental health issues that are genetic don’t rear their head til your twenties.

alcoholic depressive here, my problems didn’t arise til I was 25

>genetic
Both of my parents suffer from anxiety and OCD, and they both managed to get married and get laid (obviously, because I exist) so that gives me some hope.

Genetic doesn’t mean every generation friend, and mental health issues doesn’t mean you can’t get a girl.

My health issues are directly from my grandfather, and others up his line, dads fine. Mines not as bad, as he flipped a work truck into a creek back in the day (granted no one got in trouble for duis back then).

But yeah, I have a gf of 4 years and we live together for the past two. She just mostly hates when I spill a beer in bed when I fall asleep with it in my hand.

Start eating right. Start exercising. Get your sleep schedule back to normal. Go out more.

Fuck this advice. Plow her pussy.

Never put your dick in crazy, user.