Hey Yea Forums I've had sex about a week ago for the first time and it hurt like fucking hell...

>I've had sex about a week ago for the first time and it hurt like fucking hell
Ask him to use more lube next time

If it still hurt you need lube or foreplay and to take it slower. You might be watching too much porn. Sex isn't slamming it in over and over as fast as you can. Be gentle.

It's nothing to do with circumcision, don't be an idiot lol. Leave your dick intact

no.
start going for walks and eating less carbs, youre fat.
also youre virgins so its going to hurt because youre tight skinned. try getting her more wet/excited before you put it in- touch her softly, ask her what she likes, kiss her neck and all that shit- start reading up.

Will using lube on my dick before putting on the condom help?

Are you going to recognize you look like you have phimosis and fix it? or are you going to get your dick jewed and commit suicide?

I have lost about 20 kgs, I was grossly overweight due to thyroid, still need to lose some. And she was pretty wet cause it was her idea and she was excited to say the least

Yeah, but it also reduces sensation. I suggest you get a different girl to fuck. One that gets really wet and doesn't force you to use a condom.

Phimosis is where the person can't pull back the foreskin, I can pull it back quite easily

Ok cool, give me your mom's address nigger

tbh I kinda second this. Some (many) women are really fucking terrible at sex and blame men for it.

The first time might be uncomfortable because your not used to it, but not painful. Foreplay works wonders friend. Make her super wet first, maybe get her to orgasm first, then slowly enter her with your member. When your all the way in, start slow to spread her juices, then Amp it up. Read her feelings, she will let you know. If she's enjoying it, you will too. Her pussy will convulse with each of her orgasms and it feels amazing.

Same fagging

Not necessarily, it refers to any time the rigid band is uncomfortably tight around the glans. sometimes you have to do a little stretching, sometimes its so bad you do have to get circumcised, but OPs is barely even a problem, he could stretch at it when he pee's and it'd be fixed in like a few months.

what a nigger

Maybe but be smart. Don't put a ton on and then have the condom slide off lol. You probably wouldn't even feel it if you put on too much

Doesnt op have that thing were your foreskin is too tight around your dick so it hurts even when its erect? it looks to be a bit too tight

maybe op should post a pic of his erection, not being gay or a pedo (since its your first time i assume you're young), but maybe you should get circumcised

good.
you might just be a bit sensitive. still, go slow and gentle.

try adjusting yourself with a condom on, by yourself- just as an experiment. dont be gay about it, just test different grip strengths, and compare to what you felt with her.
if it hurts with a loose grip, compared to a tight one, it might just be the condom itself, and some lube might help you.

also, dont take the being fat thing too hard- just talking like a bro. good luck

No condom is dumb. If you want no sex life after a few sessions because she's preggo, go for it.

Get her wet, build both your desires, and start slow. Once your in, she's stretched more than virgin mode, bang away.

Then Make her scream and squirt as fast as possible if you want a really good time.

Nope, I understand, I've never felt so active and strong in my life. School life sucked not that I think about it

When i lost my virginity the bit of skin that connects the foreskin to the head tore in half and was stingy as fuck for days. But every time after that it was fine, at least have sex a few more times before getting the cut

You roll a condom down your penis, you don't inflate the condom then slide your dick in.

Kids get girls preggo shiiii

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You wanna get cut? Look at this picture. Notice how the uncut is the only dick that looks healthy and moist, whereas the others are dry, scarred, and fissured. There are no benefits at all for being cut.

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When I pull it back

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That's phimosis for sure.

Stretch routine for a good few months, should see improvement quickly.

try a different condom, lot's of spermicides and lubes can irritate genital tissue

Damn...

Pics?

Same thing my first time. Hell, I even bled. Don't worry it gets better with practice. I don't even think about it now.

DO, however, get into the habit of pulling the foreskin back and give everything a good wipe-down with toilet paper every time you take a shit. This helps toughen up the skin without losing sensitivity (the pain stops after just a few times doing this) and you keep everything clean.

I thought about getting circumcised too but a lot of guys said I shouldn't, and they wished they could get it back. Not sure why.

But anyway with a little maintenance work you'll be okay.

What kind of stretch routines cause all I've seen are for people who can't pull the foreskin back over the head, I can do it just fine though

I'm uncut but my dick is dry cause I jerk it so much

On the riged band, increase the circumference.

basically pull outward on the bit that's tight, and do it like an exercise, multiple times a day, when you pee or think about it, for a good 3-5 mins a time, it will fix it super quick, check out "foreskin restoration" on reddit, (sorry it's the only one) and tell them what you're doing and the problem and someone will fucking walk you through that shit im serious.
Don't get cut, thetres hundreds of thousands of us who regret it.

I jerk almost every day and have sex once in a while. Dick is still healthy and great.

Learn about circumcision
Be disgusted
Become antisemetic
"circumcision: an american love story" youtube it.

Thanks bro

Always willing to help keep a foreskin away from the kikes.

Jerk 3+ times per day with a foreskin and no lube, chafing occurs. I will get little flecks of dry skin peeling off my glans.

same, im cut, can't go for a three-fer jerking off, it's just too much and chafes and hurts even with lube, I can if i'm inside a person though.

OP are you me?

Im having a gf for about 1+ year now and i say things have improved, but before i ever fucked i couldn't even touch the head without hurting. At first sex and blowjobs were weird but then you get desensitized, and i feel that my foreskin is tighter than it should because it hurts if i get a handjob and she doesnt know how to do it like i do. I realized the tight foreskin makes a lot of contact and takes away the moisture from the head and this hurts. After many days of sex head is really desensitized but foreskin and stuff hurt like hell.
I will totally go to a doctor sometime and i think so should you.

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That's another good reason not to cut your dick. I can masturbate more than 6 times in a day if I want to, thanks to foreskin.

It's almost like when women lose their virginity.

You have a skewed perspective because most american men have their dick completely flayed.

Desensitize - then enjoy sex. You have to work at it sometimes, be glad it's sensitive tbh.

Oh and read what I said to OP about foreskin restoration.

stretch er out, work er loose, no sense in letting a kike take WAY more off than he should.
Balls are uncomfortable half way up the fucking shaft man. this restoration shit to get it back right is a bummer.

Right now it's at a great level of sensitive. Thing is foresking makes it hard because it gets in the way, if it were looser tho..

You can read, or you can get kike'd, I aint gonna spoonfeed you, I already said my piece.

i never said im gonna get kiked.

dont jerk off.
it will help with your overall willpower and muscle/bodybuilding
and you will become used to m/f intercourse as the normal instead of with your hand or however you do it

literally not jerking off will make your skin and your balls more full and healthy, no homo

Then stick a finger innit and pull outward on the rigid band, repeat every time you pee x 6 months, for a few minutes at a time, see results, continue if needed.

I heard doctors give some creams that losen the foreskin

It's really unnecessary and can cause complications, but yeah, you can get your lazy bastard shortcut stretchmark causing more problems than using nothing but lotion cream....

They're going to give you some OTC steriods, nothing will happen, it will thin the band and you won't be able to stretch and you'll have to get circumcised. That shit is known to make it worse.

In the US anyway - the urology is centered around getting you kiked in any way possible, it's the only explanation for the retardation, and doctors aren't stupid people.

OP you just have phimosis, it's the equivalent of a female's skin surrounding the vagina being too taut, such that penetration stretches this skin and causes pain. Once it's stretched adequately, the pelvic floor muscles in the internals of her vagina provide the tightness. Just masturbate, but whilst you do, aim to pull the foreskin back bit by bit (not too much so that it hurts a lot) just a bit and you'll loosen the tight skin. Do it slowly and over time and you won't experience pain again like you described. With that said, make sure you're using condoms that fit, and be sure the vagina is lubricated (perhaps more than you would initially expect). Foreplay is a great way to ensure this, but you could just make use of lubricants. (p.s. avoid water based lubricants as these can sometimes cause pain too.) Good luck OP

Honestly I think that specifically comes down to personal tendency, I've met all kinds of guys cut or not who have more/less stamina before dick just goes into red stingy tired mode.