BIG story time. Sorry in advance for long post. Just need to talk to somebody
>Be me >17yo >Browse omegle to find a qt to bust a nut to >Face too ugly to use cam so I use the "questions" option instead >talk_to_horny_guys.jpeg >talk_to_more_horny_guys.jpeg >I quit wanting to jack off so I decide to shitpost >Come across a female >Okay. Probably just a catfish. >We talk for about an hour and half >She has to go >"WAIT! Do you want to exchange kik?" >"Sorry user, I dont have that app" >"Well, here's my user in case you ever want to talk to me again. I had fun talking to you" >Probably wont even bother >Next day >Kik notification >"Hey user! You remember me?" >im_so_happy.gif >"I wasnt expecting you to text me femanon. How was your day?" >Talk for more hours >things_looking_pretty_good.jpeg
>A few days later >I decide to ask for a pic >I dont wanna talk to a dude. That's gay >She sends me a pic of the bottom part of her face >holy_shit_she_is_fucking_hot.jpeg >My ugly ass starts hitting the gym >Fast forward a few weeks >3-4 AM >Just came from a friend's party >Drunk text her >"You up?" >"Yes user. Wanna talk?" >tfw your phone is older than the pyramids so you can only voice call >Confess that I love her >"I love you too, user..." >im_so_happy_again.gif >tfw long distance relationship >Few days later >Bad grades at school >"This is my last year, I cant fuck up" >Stop texting her all of sudden >"user what's up?" >"user?" >"user are you there?" >Deactivate social media so she wont bother me >Delete her pictures >focusing_on_myself.jpeg >confidence_starts_building_up.jpeg >grades_are_good.jpeg >feels_good_man.gif
William Allen
>A few days after my birthday >Stumble upon a note >Its femanon's number >Decide to text her after almost 6 months >I feel weird. My legs are shaking >"Hey femanon..." >She is disappointed and sad >I feel like shit >Apologize and explain the situation >She forgives me >wtf.jpeg >"How have you been femanon?" >"Awesome!" >She introduces me to one of her fem friends online >She seems cool >We talk more >We become bros >"user, did you know femanon fell into depression when you abandoned her?" >Whole body gets numb >It cant be true. >I ask femanon. >"How did you know?" >She tells me this time what really happened >"I fell into depression. Went to see a therapist. Lost a lot of weight" >Thinking to myself what I've done. What did she ever do to deserve this? >We are back together
Kayden Wilson
>Fast forward about a year >some_ups_and_downs_later.webm >"user when are you coming here? I need you." >mfw broke >"I'll find a job femanon and I'll be there soon. I promise" >some_MASSIVE_ups_and_downs_later.webm >I find a really good job in the merchant navy >mfw mad money >Docked at Brazil >Look at the females there >I need to fuck >I went to a bar with a few other crewmates >Spot a qt mulatto in distance >Lost my virginity in a hotel >I realize I just cheated on femanon >My stomach hurts; almost throw up during work >"I need to go home"
Sebastian Cruz
>6 months later >Back home >My family and friends wait for me at the airport >happy.jpeg >Femanon is happy I came back >Still havent met her in almost two and a half years >Plans to go to femanon >Tickets? Ready >Suitcases? Ready >Hotel? Trivago >Femanon texts me >"We need to break up" >wtgdf.jpeg >"Why?" >"I'm seeing another guy" >Fast forward a few mins >Crying like a bitch >"Femanon, I need to tell you something. I fucked another girl while in Brazil..." >Femanon's sassy and determined attitude vanishes >"ARE YOU SERIOUS?" >"Yes" >"user... I wasnt telling the truth..." >mfw I actually fucked myself more than I ever could >Femanon is furious and starts crying >I hang up >i_wanna_kms.jpeg >After a few weeks femanon finds an actual guy this time >"He is coming over user. STOP texting me" >this_cant_be_good.jpeg >The night after >She drunk texts me >"We need to call" >"Okay..." >She's crying >"I had sex with him..." >Guts started going ape shit >We both cry. We both still love each other. >"I dont want you to come here" >"I gave you my word I'll be there femanon"
Caleb Moore
>Fast forward to the day I'm going to meet her >Fly over to femanon's country >Neighboring countries, so about 2 hours flight >Land >Go to lobby >Look for her >She's actually there! >sweating_profusely.jpeg >arms_shaking.jpeg >I greet her >She sees me and rushes to hug me >"You're finally here" >I'm a man and I dont cry >We have a blast together >Stayed there for only 2 weeks >"I'll miss you user. Please come back soon" >"I promise" >Back home >Week one. We still talk >Week two. We still talk a little less though >Week three. We dont talk as much >Week four. Doesnt even text me a goodnight >I get mad and ask for explanation >"I cant handle you user. You stress me out. Give me some fucking space" >We dont text for a whole month >She texts me >"We need to call" >"I dont wanna be with you anymore user" >"I understand I think it'll be good for both of us" >"We can still talk if you want" >"Sure femanon" >empty_feeling.jpeg >thinking_of_kms_day_by_day.jpeg >still_havent_died_in_my_sleep.jpeg >just_another_day.jpeg >Quit gym >Gain weight >mfw ugly again >Present >It's been 2 months since then. She texts me once every week or so. >"user... I still wear your hoodie when I'm alone and kept the rings you gifted to me" >My spirit is lifted again
Nathan Cook
She hasnt texted me in a while. What should I do Yea Forumsros? I really wanna keep my word and meet her, but I dont know if it's even worth it anymore. I still love her and I unironically would die for her. I'm really sad and unmotivated to do anything apart from sleeping, eating and shitting. I came on Yea Forums to give me an advice, so you know I'm really desperate.
Jose Smith
>17 yo not even funny >>>/global/rules/2
Blake Allen
I'm 21 now
Ian Robinson
Retard
Noah Wilson
Long distance is tough stuff. It requires lots of commitment and personal responsibility if you want to make it work. Coming from someone who was in a long distance, the best advice i can give is that you need some kind of long term vision of a life together. It can be in a couple of months or years, but you need to have a plan for being physically together. If both of you can't talk properly about a future together or can't decide, then there's really no point holding on. It doesn't need to be a specific plan, like what company you're gonna work at or when you'll get married, but at least some general direction that you can both feel you're heading and working towards.
Thanks user. The thing is we both made so that our goals match at some point. Non of us wanted to stay in their countries so we decided to make plans and go live in another country, since her and my occupation doesnt need "headquarters". I guess at some point our goals shifted, maybe I was at fault because of what I put her through. Thanks again for spending time to read all this
Josiah Clark
Sounds like it might be over and that may be for the best. Shes playing with you by occasionally popping up and that's shitty when she knows how you feel. It's tough but don't worry, remember there are other girls to meet and love. Don't become a hermit, don't stay inside and get fat. Go to the gym, find hobbies and even work where you can meet people and their friends through them. If you do that you'll probably meet the next girl you'll fall in love with within a year or two and all this will become a somewhat distant memory.
You love her now but it'll fade if you let it. Chin up lad.
Ryder Perez
Ask her to explain exactly what you do to stress her out. Tell her not to worry about hurting your feelings because you don’t expect to know everything about interacting with girls at your age. It sounds to me like you’re actually acting like a bit of a virgin and you’re smothering her. It’s not normal to get mad when your boo doesn’t text you goodnight every single night. It could be taken as possessive, controlling behavior. ...because it is. It’s normal for young people to do some creepy shit. Ask for her help correcting any stress-inducing behaviors you have.
She’s already proven she’s the type of girl to try and test you. She wasn’t saying she was seeing another guy to make you admit your own sins. She was doing it because she wanted to see how you react. If you would have gotten as mad as she did, she would have been happy and it would have showed her that you care about her like a boyfriend should care about his girlfriend. Like she cared about you. Based on the information I’ve been given, I would bet quite a bit of money that this is the type of girl who wants you to declare your undying love for her. Commit and commit hard.
Ask her exactly what makes you too much, and say you want to know because you still love her and you don’t want to stress her out. She’s insecure as fuck too. She tested you because she would rather do that than take the risk of telling you how she feels and being shot down or learning you don’t feel as strongly. The fact that you cheated only makes it easier for her to believe. So tell her you’ll keep flirting with her until she wants to be your girlfriend again and tell her you won’t fuck it up this time. Promise to tell her IMMEDIATELY if you have any kind of intimate physical contact with women.
It might seem beta as fuck but she’s nearly as insecure as you are, so being open and up front with your feelings, and telling her exactly what you want, will seem downright brave and manly to her.
Ian Parker
Thanks man. I'm planning on going and playing some paintball this week with some friends. If I had them here more frequently I wouldnt feel as bad
Nolan Bell
A weird similarity here. My LDR ended. yet I still flew to see her. only a month ago. I went on the 24th of april for 5 days to just south of where she is. borders are an issue. so I couldn't fly directly there. She came down to see me in the hotel I was staying in. Booked her and her dad a room. And spent a day together. It was all a surprise and her family only found out about me making my way in february. They didn't have much time or money to organise this properly while keeping it hidden from her. But it went well. Now I'm in the fall out.... we spoke for 2 weeks mainly text... some voice message. and 1 phone call. she stopped talking on whatsapp and blocked me again. She needs to focus on studies... I need to work on me. It's complicated. She first added me on FB in 2017. were together til late june 2018. then no contact for 10 months... I hope things work for the both of us user. Stay strong!
Jeremiah Fisher
>She is insecure You are absolutely correct! She is a whole lot insecure about her image and the way she looks. I remember we played a game and some tard commented on her small breast. The comment was funny to me and didnt expect her to take it that seriously.
>She is testing you Many instances where she did. In fact the reason I cheated on her was due to wanting to "redeem" myself. A few days before I went on the voyage she told me that she went with another man, which made me flip out. I only found out this was also a lie when I told her about that incident.
>Promise to tell her IMMEDIATELY if you have any kind of intimate physical contact with women. She has also said that many many times.
You seem to know a lot about those personalities. Thank you dude.
Ryder Rivera
Really similar experiences. She also needs time for her studies so I try to make my texts appear just once in a while. Hopefully when she's done we can once again see each other, although I'm not sure... I was always told LDR were extremely hard to maintain. I knew it, but didnt expect it this way.
I hope you too will make it friend. Godspeed
Ian Rivera
Just a question to the people that use omegel. Say you are getting off to a girl and you are telling them to do something. Why do you randomly disconnect?
