Gf of 5 years keeps dropping talking about swinging and how unnatural monogamy is, has even joked that we will definitely end up swinging one day.
I'm not into cuckolding and neither is she, so no cuck shit going on and we have a pretty decent sex life.
Any anons got experience swinging/swapping that isn't cuck related?
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Its not cucked if you meet other pairs and switch partners for a fuck
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Ruin her pussy and asshole, then get rid of her, find someone that is monogamous
>Monogamy is unnatureal
We aren't monkeys, retard
Gonna have to agree with
The first and most important thing you need to do is to set boundaries and adhere to them no matter what. Set expectations and don't violate the rules you've set forth.
To get you into it, I would suggest finding a couple you guys are comfortable with, and just fucking in the same room (possibly same beds). See how you feel afterwards. Then go for the soft/hard swap depending on how you guys feel about the first encounter. Take it slow, there is no need to rush things. Swinging can either make your relationship crazy fun. Or it can sink it faster than you can say "Niggers".
Source: I was a swinger for 5 years with my wife. We just work too much for our schedules to match up to meet another couple.
been into this for 10 years, have made a job out of organizing parties since september 2012.
Just don't be so obsessed with this cuck shit.
Sometimes she'll have more fun than you, and other time you'll have, it doesn't have to be 100% even each time and you don't have to count "ok she had a MMF so she owes me a FFM"
If you go into this with an open mind and juges each situations on its own merits based on what you are confortable with, and what she's confortable with then it can be a lot of fun.
But you need to stop caring that much about label.
ugly ass BETA retard
My gf has a guy friend that I share her with, he doesn`t humiliate me or anything. We just have threesomes sometimes and sometimes they fuck when i`m out of town.
>so no cuck shit going on
Bahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahaha
Ahahahahahahahahahahahahaha
That's how they ALL start, user. I've had it happen to me twice, and have lost count of how many times it's happened to my mates and some of their friends.
Even if you're a 10/10 stud, your girl will still eventually find a guy she's more attracted to (personality or looks wise) in the moment. And when she does, she'll become a bitch in heat for him because their infrequent trysts will make her lust for him in a way that she can't with you anymore (LTRs kill lust and passion). Her "want" will turn into her "need." She'll then become his permanent fuckslut regardless of what you say. At this point she'll either cuck you against your will, break up with you, or persuade you to allow the relationship to "evolve to the next logical step" by making you her willing cuck.
It sounds like she's made up her mind about open relationships, and it's 99% likely she already has a specific guy in mind (if she hasn't fucked or sucked him by now). Your gf won't change her mind, so I suggest you get out before you're legally committed to her (kids, marriage, mortgage, etc.).
OR
you should honestly considering being open minded to being a cuckold later on down the line. I'm not just ragging on you. Cuckold relationships are scary to guys who don't want it, but it can bring a very fulfilling and long-term sexual experience if you allow it to. You just need to start mentally preparing for it now. It'll be really difficult at first, but like learning to like new foods, it is possible.
they always have to use a condom and no nutting inside even though she is on birthcontrol
Knock her up rn to guarantee your first seed.
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Sorry man this is degenerate behavior. I hope you dont get sucked too deep down the cuck lifestyle.
Leave her after youve had your fun.
>My gf has a guy friend that I share her with
Share her with one of your friends. Girls and Guys can't be friends. Your situation may be unique. But in most cases this is red light fucking behavior.
Sorta in the same sit. user, gf of 6 years just wants to swing or do mfm or mfmm stuff.
Shes into someone else but doesn't want to break up because you either have money or are providing a place for her to live. Guarantee she already has someone she wants to fuck in mind.
>so no cuck shit going
>sometimes they fuck when i`m out of town
Kek! You're a fucking retard
thats what I thought too at first, but it actually worked out so far. I hardly have to see the guy so it hasn't changed things a whole lot. plus my gf gives really good head when she is getting fucked
>my gf gives really good head when she is getting fucked
She gives better head when getting fucked by another dude?
>b-b-but Yea Forums, I'm no cuck, I swear!
Ha look at this cuck
or when she is fingering herself or whatever too but then her hands are busy. when she gets fucked she has both hands and can jerk me and massage my prostate.
also it seems like she wants to suck me more when she is in that state of mind. she is just really horny and isnt even thinking about me, its just a dick she wants to suck
Stop being a pussy and just fuck
ya shes fucking someone else and trying to convince you to swing so she can justify her shitty impluses
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i dont think you read my situation. but im not getting cucked bro.
Don't. That lifestyle killed my 10-year marriage. I'm better off without the bitch but it was a lot of needless heartbreak. She wants an excuse to cheat on you. She wants to trade up.
Based.
And based on experience. She’s already fucking someone else at worst, at best, she has someone in mind.
Get a quality fuck in, with the uncommunicated expectation that it’ll be the last. Then ask her straight up: “why do you want to fuck other dudes?”
Get her answer, then leave/kick her out.
Yes we are
>sometimes they fuck when i`m out of town
How are you not getting cucked?
Having MMF isn't cucking, but your wife getting fucked by another man and you being okay with this is getting cucked
I've kind of got experience. I have trouble keeping it in my pants. I always have and always will. My sex drive tends to be higher than most women are capable of dealing with so whenever I get into a relationship I make sure to let them know ahead of time that if they can't meet my needs I will go roaming. If they have a problem with that we should probably just break up.
Of course, I also give them permission to screw around if I'm not enough for them. I've been married to my wife for almost 20 years now. She's got a fairly normal sex drive so we only have sex a couple times a week (as the kids will allow for) so if it weren't for the ability to have fuck buddies on the side I probably would have gone insane from sexual frustration.
its like 90% mmf. its only like one or two weekends when she just fucks him. That was the whole reason she wanted to in the first place really cause she was getting too horny and could focus on school and shit.
>its only like one or two weekends when she just fucks him
KEK!
If your wife can't go without fucking another guy when you're away, even one or two weekends, she's a slut and you're getting cucked, my friend
idk if you know what cucked means. gf said im not a cuck, she is just shared between up
Spot the kissless incels.
Best advice right there. Start slow and slowly work your way up if you both like it. Take a break from swinging if you didn't like it 100% and just quit if either of you disliked it.
You can't do that if you want to continue the relationship.
Swinging is a Jewish Trick.
So you say thats your op pics?
i still disagree
This
Stop letting another man fuck her or your marriage will be over in a few years
It started out with a few MMF's, now she's fucking him when you're away. So where do you think this will go?
She might already have fucked other guys behind your back that you don't know of
Ew look at that nasty bitches panties
All right, I'll bite. How exactly is swinging a Jewish trick? Sure it can ruin a relationship but I don't know what Jews have to do with it.
Well, you're fault if it turns out she cheated on you with a few dosen men in a few years
But you'd probably like it, so whatever
>swinging
>not cuck related
Pick one
> in college
> gf and I like to fuck
> my bff and his gf also like to fuck
> one night at a party we all found a room together
> started having sex as two couples (no swinging/sharing) in the same bed
> it was really hot
> did this a couple more times
> gf mentions that she liked it, and that the other girl did too
> mention this to my friend
> he confirms, says we're "almost like swingers"
> I broach the subject, he's down with a swap
> casually suggest it to my gf
> she acts coy, but I'm pretty sure she's already thought of it
> another party, another bed, but this time his gf is giving me the eye
> getting close to her, my gf and bff are also getting close
> end up having sex with each other's gfs
> it was awesome
That was like five/six years ago. I'm still with the same gf and so his he. We are all really close friends and do a lot of things together, we've taken a lot of trips together etc. We don't always swap but it is something we do from time to time and it is awesome.
Letting another man fuck your woman is cucked beyond belief
Check those dubs and tell me I'm wrong. I dare you.
Have a sub of GF who I have now warmed up to idea of being fucked by someone. Before had a mini breakdown/cry mid-fuck at even the thought saying she's too loyal to me for that.
Now is willing to have at least one go at a mmf but just once in her words. Too bad I'm not in downtown Toronto anymore sure I've been able to get another black cock for her pawg body.
Also open to a ffm but I'd rather get a friend of her's into it than just a random to make her show her slut side she hides from everyone.
That's what I've been telling him the entire time, but this idiot doesn't want to believe he is a cuck
I cheat on my gf cause sex is mediocre at best, wont leave her soon cause shes amazing on everything else
I tease her about open relationships just to make her mad knowing she is dead against it
Just food for thought OP, your gf knows whats up
Dub dubs confirms nasty panties and all you niggers are talking about is cucking.
That was some low quality bait, I'm genuinely surprised so many people fell for it
If trips, OP is a gay cuck boy.
If she's dropping hints now then she's already fucked other guys.
Too bad Mississauga is so boring out here to get random hookups do feel she'd be taken advantage of if she got with someone else.
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Not if you get to fuck his woman. That is just wife swapping and more common than you think
Historically humans have never been a monogamous species. You can fuck other people and maintain a relationship without it ending the world
Nope degenerate slave of Jewish propaganda.
Poor bait.
You didn't deserve the quints you nearly got
Get a better gf.
She's already cucking you.
Just sounds likes she's a dirty whore and you're a gullible cuck
>neither is she
haha bro your in for a surprise
If you're not being humiliated or shes not doing it behind your back and theirs an agreement that the sex can happen on both sides of the relationship then its simply swinging. This propaganda of "if you let someone fuck your wife then you're a cuck" is just incels mad that they cant get to fuck anyone even though these other guys are letting their girls fuck other guys.
Butthurt incels are trying to trick guys into being jealous and breaking down the confidence they've had over them
I bet they raw dog it every now and then. He’s probably filling her up when you’re out of town.
Ok OP, do YOU actually have any desire to be a swinger?
Been there, OP. I told her to get out of my house and severed all ties with her when she told me she wanted to "go poly" with me. She tried crawling back some months later when she realized just how retarded she is.
just find another couple you both like and do some wife swapping, or if you are in to it a bisexual foursome with a bi couple
just be careful and pick another couple that are clean and discrete, dont get mixed up with criminal types & junkies
Ex an i used to swing.
Our rule was we both had to be in the same room with what ever happened.
Ended up in a few threesomes both mmf and mff and full swapped a couple times. Only once did it turn into a straight up 4some.
Was fun for sure. If your curious about it too i say go for it.
Just be sure you and her are on the same page with what you want out if it.
Dude she’s totally cucking you! If she was “too horny” why didn’t she fuck you more!? And I guarantee they’re not using condoms. She just says they are to make you feel better.
Funny enough I had a 4some with my wife. Her female bi friend and her friends boyfriend last night. It was one big fuck feast. I thought her doing it with another guy wod bug me but my mind was to focused on pleasure for my wife and drilling the other girl. I will say that you need a strong relationship with your SO and good trust before doing anything like that. We all going smashed while playing games to break the ice. I will say that was one of the best nights of sex I have ever had. I can tell my wife enjoyed it but that is probably because she got to have her first lesbian experience.
Doubles checked.
It’s so goddamn transparent when someone asks their partner about poly.
Just be straight forward and accept the consequences afterwards, instead of trying to cancer the relationship.
LMAO the mental gymnastics in this thread
>my girl said she uses condoms so it's okay
>no no no I WANT her to fuck other guys
kys
She just wants bigger cocks touching her vagina you know
It’s quite simple: cuck is negative and bull is positive.
If your gf is fucked while you watch you get -1 point for cuckolding. But if you bang his gf at this moment, you get +1 for bull. -1+1=0 so you aren’t a cuck.
>Cuck behavior.
At what point does one even begin to process this? The second you have to question your boundaries, you’re in a toxic relationship. If you’re not interested in the idea of sharing your significant other, SO shouldn’t be either. That’s respect and if she’s willing to overlook that. She’s willing to keep testing you as she gets what she wants. Get the fuck out of here. I’d drop her on her ass instantly.
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Prediction, you will break up with her here soon. Sorry bruh, she’s got another
fuck off cuck.
Really.. Dont feel like replying cause all cucks scream cuck like a pussy.. They dont know how much fun swinging is and how good it can be for a relationship..
Im happy to be a swinger. And let those unexperienced pussys scream because they spend there lives in the basement with their computer and dont know how to have real sex.
I have fucked arround 10 different girls and proud my wife fucked 10 guys.. Best one is a 23 y/o. Im 41 :) ;)
Truth.. Amen.
Haha. Poor you.. Having to live with this thoughts... Screaming cuck but actually being a cuck himself.. Youll find out once.
>how unnatural monogamy is,
naturalistic fallacy
not saying it's wrong to be non monogamous, but for a man it's the ultimate cuckoldry. you think you will ever get to fuck the amounts of men your gf will? no you won't and that's a fact
you will provide for her with love, money and shelter while she gets her fun by fucking other men. for me thats modern day cuckoldry
just the fact she thinks it's ok to tell you she should get fucked by other guy is enough. Dump her before you end up humiliating yourself even more.
>Any anons got experience swinging/swapping that isn't cuck related?
dude you need to get on Feeld/3rder etc. apps. There are communities just for threesomes/xsomes. That's a great way into this stuff. Two women I work with are on Feeld and seem super happy with it.
After you get into a routine of having Xsomes on the reg, check out your local swingers community, where I live they literally have a Meetup.com group.
>o get you into it, I would suggest finding a couple you guys are comfortable with, and just fucking in the same room (possibly same beds).
>If you go into this with an open mind and juges each situations on its own merits based on what you are confortable with, and what she's confortable with then it can be a lot of fun.
>Our rule was we both had to be in the same room with what ever happened.
these are all good advice