I proposed to my gf. She said no. What should I do now? Should I just pack my belongings and leave...

I proposed to my gf. She said no. What should I do now? Should I just pack my belongings and leave? What's the procedure?

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Did she say why? How long have you been seeing her?

She said it's because I don't make enough money, and something about not being "mature", but when I asked what that meant she didn't explain.

I've been seeing her for 2 years. She said that she is not ready to make such a commitment yet. Honestly, I didn't even ask her to elaborate I just went out and now I'm sitting at a bar drinking beer and wondering what I should do. The worst thing is that I'm not even that sad, maybe I'm in shock or just dont give a fuck.

Oh big oof bud, what do you do, how old are you?

I dont k ow why that faggot answered for me. He's not OP. I am.

>Should I just pack my belongings and leave?
Yes you should.
There isn't any point staying with her because she doesn't feel the same way about you as you do about her.

I think it might be too soon for that, But it’s on the cards for OP for sure, this is a talk it out kinda thing. Looking to the internet loser pile won’t help you make a rational decision.

Two years isn’t very long, IMO, and if she wants you to support her, I can maybe understand her saying that.

Fucking hell. 2 years down the drain.

In a polite manner:
>begone thot

But how can I support her after she made such a decision. It feels like the trust and live is completely gone and I would really be a loser if I stayed. Dont you think?

She said no.
She didn't say not yet or change these certain things and then we will see.

She said no.

Learn from this and go find the girl who will say yes. Because your GF's no will always be there.

Don't live your life like that.

fucking hell. this place is just filled with bots now.

I can’t tell you how your GF feels or will react dude, I’m sorry. If she doesn’t feel like you’re ready, I dunno, I couldn’t tell you what makes you ready for marriage either, though I certainly think two years is too soon.

You’ll just need to talk. You can only put it off for so long now, It’ll fucking hurt, no matter what she says but you can’t do nothing.

Your two years were certainly not wasted, you’ve grown and learned. This may be another learning point. She loves you if you’ve been together for such a length of time though.

Leave. It's over

Urgh i dropped my phone just before typed out loads of advice for u. Fuck.

>leave
The planet, yes

Good for you, now you get revenge rich.

If she doesn't love you and only wants your shit then she's a parasite. Does she put out good sex frequently (at least once every week or 2)? If not, she's cheating on you and you dodged a bullet. Fuck her, grab your shit and leave she may want you to stay bc she's not ready or she won't care which in that case she's an enemy who may one day need to be killed.

Disable any carbon monoxide alarms on your way out... the rest is an accident

I'd say leave. You're young, there's other fish in the sea. And besides, your happiness comes first. No one tells men this, but fuck her being happy, even if you love her, if you don't feel happy with how she is or how things are then leave.

So many men think it's the other way around, that you need to sacrifice your own enjoyment so that she'll be happy, or just fear the idea of going back to masturbating when they have a warm onahole at home, don't become this man.

Leave her, she's probably a whore if you've been together long and she said no

Dump her nudes

bone m
dont own m

Don't leave. Invite her black boyfriend to move in, then start eating his creampies out of her ass

talk to her OP.
Found out why and go from there, the worst thing you can do is do or say something that you can't come back from.

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get the fuck out .... like yesterday

B-but OP is a faggot tho

dump the bitch
the sooner the better

If you try out for the baseball team and dont make it, do you still show up for practice?
>fuck no, move on

yup you should move out. When she asks why just tell her you have no time to waste on greedy self righteous bitches who will probably cheat on you with the first nigger who earns more money than you.
Let her know she is a golddigging niggercock seeking whore.

kek thats clever

Did you tell her it was just a prank? If not then you fucked up. The only way to save it is to propose to her mom as well and pretend you're mentally unstable.

wtf are you babbling about?

Im with Mine for over 7 years and don't think about a proposal in the near future . I Wonder why there are so many divorced couples im ameriland

there are many divorced couples everywhere.
The answer is Tinder. Bitches fake their photos, get exaggerated attention and conclude they "can do better". Guys on the other hand get sick of spoiled attention whores and that's how it goes.

This.

She’a not the one, and if that’s what you’re looking for, you’ll find it elsewhere. Think about what she’s do 10 or 15 years down the road if you were married.

That sucks, but you’ll get through it.

Does she haveve a job or are you the only one working?

My advice is to leave my dude. But make sure you have her elaborate before you do, mostly just so you can see if there is anything you can learn.

2 years of dating is enough to propose in my opinion. Most girls who can actually see themselves marrying youin the future, but aren't ready for the commitment, will at least say yes and become your fiance and try to work out just not setting a wedding date until they're ready for said commitment.


The fact she gave a flat "no" after 2 years is a decent red flag for me. While it doesn't definitively mean that she can't see herself marrying you, it does point to that imo.

yep.
leave.
you wanted a LIFE with her. She wan't a meal ticket. No bueno.

Leave

Lock her in your shed until she admits that it was all a joke.

Well, porn, going to bar, Yea Forums for advice... are these things she would do? Maybe she's looking for a more compatible version of whatever she thinks "maturity" is. Anyway, it's typically ok to not leave immediately unless you're in a bad situation or get angry putting her in a bad situation.

If you were together for less than 2 years than you need to wait until your all grown up before you date a woman

eventually you will have to go each seperate way, but before you get there be sure to set up hidden cams and record her, so you have fap material for those lonely days to come.

If this isn't bait, it's time to pack your shit up and leave. The fact you even had to ask gives what she said validity.

If y'all are enjoying the relationship (it's healthy, good sex, good conversation, etc.), then ending it is stupid. She doesn't have to marry you to be your girl.

In fact, you don't ever have to get married. WTF does it even mean? People cheat and get divorced all the time, so it's not like you're locking her down. There are some tax and legal benefits, but do you need those in your life right now?

A relationship is not a transaction. You don't put in years and "earn" a marriage. As long as y'all have a healthy relationship, stick with it. If she gets abusive or some shit, drop her. Until then, enjoy your time together.

Take it literally. You need to get older and grow up. Don't get married before you're in your 30's otherwise you'll get stuck paying alimony to some rapidly aging bitch you wouldn't fuck if she paid you.

Once you get into your 40's you should be banging women 10 years younger. You don't want to be stuck with a woman your own age.

Just bang her like a fuck buddy.
She just thinks your great to party with.