>be me 30 with 7/10 wonderful gf >do drugs wonderful girlfriend doesn't >trying to motivate and help her to stay off the booze (we have the occasional drink but she's not drinking at work anymore). >seeing stoners and people around her doing downright harmful stuff >clearly not interested in drugs >hard to explain difference between the occasional acid trip by the ocean >don't feel I'm in a position where I just need to cut it out, and she hasn't asked me to either >she's healing from trauma >mentally sound and her soul is.. She's a beautiful person >don't want to drag her from drink to drugs >don't want to be bad partner or influence >however want to share a beautiful, mind-opening trip with her >perhaps even work on the trauma
How would you go about it? I feel like such a dick. Mainly because she's been struggling with addiction and considers all kinds of drugs detrimental. I only wants what's best for her
>wants the best for >also wants to give her drugs >wants to give her drugs when she struggles with addiction >wants to give her drugs even after she's been traumautized
thanks for the laugh user. I was feeling kinda down but this made me feel better.
Caleb Watson
>I am such a good and thoughtful person who cares about my damaged girlfriend and her boundaries >how to get gf into drugs?
Benjamin Russell
you should really get intp psychedelics and research on them, I have a feeeling you would be surprised
Jeremiah Price
how is it hard to explain the difference between cockroach drugs and occasional acid trip?
acid is literally the opposite of depressants and opioids
Ethan Howard
not him but I've done psychadelics and someone pressuring you into them isn't helpful at all
Brayden Gomez
>be druggie hippie faggot >have drunk gf >want to give my gf drugs
So deep and brooding user, you fucking moron. Why dont you try and help her without drugs, maybe lick her asshole or something. Oh wait sorry, that doesnt have LSD on it, so it won't make you listen to Pink Floyd in a WHOLE NEW WAY OMG
Just accept that not everyone wants to trip. Is it that hard? I get it if you wanted to maybe make her switch to a less potentially dangerous substance but youre doing it for your own benefit and thats it. You dont want whats best for her so dont even bother acting like you give a shit in the first place. I usually completely shit on women but this post is particularly pathetic. Protip, stop being a juvenile about drugs and trying to force specific situations. If you take anything out of an acid experience, its that you should allow most things to just happen naturally. If it doesnt plan out the way you want, oh well. Youll get another time.
Parker Garcia
>addiction >psychedelics
nigga read more
Jeremiah Gonzalez
I would love to see a person struggling with psychedelic addiction, fam If anything, the psychological effects and therapeutical qualities are unmatched. I recovered from a decade of MDD and benzo addiction, thanks to meditation and psychedelics
Why would you care if your girlfriend does drugs. This is the most retarded shit I have ever heard in my life.
Connor Sullivan
Don't listen to these knobheads OP, I know what you mean. It's a weird sort of coinflict, isn't it? I'm in a similar spot, though my own consumption (especially weed) is probably a bit more harmful than yours, why I'm reducing right now.
I don't want my gf to become a drug fiend. But I feel my own consumption has tainted the idea for her in some sense, and I find that very sad considering the wonders of psilocybin or acid. I think she could have a marvelous time, but I haven't figured out a way about the conversation yet either.
Brody Murphy
she will freak the fuck out even on a low dose. god fucking damn most girls do not like doing drugs leave her alone faggot.
Bentley Cox
Yeah, but OP is trying shove acid down her throat for his own purposes rather than, i dunno, get her some help for her fucking drinking problem? There is no certainty that acid will help her get out of binge drinking. She very obviously needs support towards getting away from alchahol, first. Youre begging for a bad trip in this circumstance. Or, he could just stop calling her his GF and fuck her like the little dopamine rat she is. Just say fuck it and start stuffing her with all types of shit until she gets horny. Doesnt matter to me, not my GF.
Wyatt Anderson
not the him you responded to, but I think it could at least be useful if you explained to someone how psychedelics aren't like most drugs. Most people have a warped perception on these things where they just categorise every psychoactive substance in the same drugs-category
Caleb Hall
>another hippie drug addict enters the chat
Christopher Gutierrez
if op is really trying to help her drink problem, he'd low dose her on shrooms 2g is enough to make you not want to drink and smoke for a good 6 months from experience. giving her acid is a very dumb idea.
Caleb Parker
I take it OP is just gonna ignore me entirely so im saging for future refernce. Youre still a complete juvenile, hope you at least read that part. Your GF will probably die of liver disease and youll be at her funeral still wondering what that one trip wouldve been like.
Nathaniel Ramirez
ITT whiteknighting out of sheer ignorance
Austin Hall
I understand that, I'm kinda autistic so I forgot other people don't know the same things
Robert Cruz
This is fucking dangerous advice. While it can help, it is not at all consistent and very much reliant on a proper guidance through the session, or at the very least, conversation or therapy as a closing process to the trip, to make sense of it etc.
Also, shrooms make we want to smoke more. Everyone's different is all I'm saying. But you are right, many people find the idea of smoking repugnant after they have tried a psilocybin trip.
Isaiah Powell
good or bad trip, my desire to drink alcohol always completely vanishes after a trip. Sounds like OP's gf is the kind of whore who thinks her life is in shambles because of some shitty friend's drama or because she didn't get her way a few times. maybe women are too dumb for psychedelics, anyway.
Jason Rivera
All you have to do is talk to her truthfully. Then its up to her
Oliver Green
Does she have kids? Teacher? Job that prohibited her,m probably best not to lead her down that path op
Jackson Evans
Again, there is absolutely no 100% method when using psychs to cure addiction, even alchaholism. Its just a shot in the dark. I cant recall the exact percentage of the study but it was somewhere between 40% and 60% of people who took psychs and it cured an addiction for them, thats basically a coin toss. Who's to say she has the correct mindframe or genetics for it to work like that? If its a real issue, she should get professional help. Taking psychs risks making shit worse if you havent a fucking clue what youre doing, seeing as how shes never dosed and has obvious issues in her life currently. Acid is not a cure all to mental disease, full stop.
Anthony Sanchez
OP here to clarify for all of you perma virgins freaking the fuck out. She quit drinking but it's a part of who she was. I've turned her onto some good literature, we do positive activities together and it's all good. As someone mentioned "how to shove acid down her throat" was not what I was asking, but want to ease her into the thought of dealing with trauma with the help of psychedelics. I work at a rehab clinic, have good experience with CBT and it's not like I'm trying to drive someone I care about into the dirt and no, as someone else put it "no, I don't want to do this for ME" but because I genuinely care Thanks, man, I'll look into this. I usually get a heavy "muddy" trip from shrooms, but will consider a small dose
it's all about the experience, my one and only shrooms experience was amazing. i felt the warm glow of the sun rays and in a way felt truly loved like in no other way by a shy but unknown entity that i could see it's eyes for just a few hours, of course it's all delusions bought on by the substance but that's all it takes. it's always taken lightly but set and setting with a good trip sitter is key. and if she is reluctant then it's just a bad idea to cram a foreign substance into her at all.
Bentley White
I mean, typically you arent wrong. Women are designed to be weak minded sheep that fall in line. The thing is, that trick doesnt work for everyone. Its usually not a matter of taking psychadelics and immediately realizing you dont want enforce your bad habits anymore. You have to be content with stopping or else once the afterglow is gone, you go right back to it. I wont lie to you, it helps a lot. Ive been on both sides of the track after tripping; wanting to stay wholesome and sober but also relapsing just days after a trip.
I agree 100% on the last part. She needs to want it herself. All you can do is inform and guide and help, but she genuinely needs to want or or the likelihood of a bad trip is magnified extremely.
Juan Flores
Yes, this is it. We talk a lot, I've told her about the experiences and how it helps to let go of a lot. See memories through a different lens and move on from it. I'm just debating how to put it, because I definitely don't want to come off like coercing her or anything No kids, she works as a designer and I don't think that a weekend away in nature would just do her good
if she is dealing with trauma dont give her acid you pathetic dipshit, acid can damage her brain at her first time, if you want to get a psychodelic experience with your girl just give her weed, make sure she eats the weed instead of smoking it cause she can become addicted and its better to damage your brain than damage your brain and lungs
Landon Cox
She's probably a dumbass and made it all up to escape from herself, let her drink herself to death, hell even expedite it. Fuck the corpse, move on
Lucas Taylor
>i dont think a weekend in nature would do any good >but hey, lets fuckin feed her psychadelic drugs. See what happens lol Jesus. Get a grip.
Brandon Mitchell
>I do Because her line of work is stressful, surrounded by vapid assholes and the workload is pretty heavy. These were all factors that made her start to drink
>I only want what's best for her So break up with her. You know it's the right thing to do. She deserves better.
Alexander Garcia
Maybe start being a normal responsible fucking adult and quit doing drugs so you can be a contributive member of society. 30 years old and you're sitting on your couch tripping balls while other people your age are actually doing something with their lives
Elijah White
>kys dope fiend >get her addicted to drugs >from one addiction to another >trying to ruin her life >get her hooked on a new death drug
Jose Robinson
Already stated I've got a full-time rewarding and interesting job that helps me grow a lot while helping others, but thanks for nothing you flaming queer
Parker Fisher
Please, just don't
Connor Peterson
The two are not mutually exclusive. Drug users can have good jobs unless they are into heroin and meth, bud. But keep denying yourself all the existential life experiences for the shallow honor of “contributing” hahaha