Hey guys i was wondering, is it wrong if i hook up with an escort while i have a girlfriend??
Alright a little background, ive been with my gf 7+ years, although lately we havent had much sex, and i feel she doesnt want me sexually, i mean i know she loves me but shes not sexually hungry and i mean at all... im open to all opinions =P (shes the lady im planning on having sum)
You're fucking dumb yo, if a bitch loves you she'll want to fuck all the time, she's either cheating on you or you're not attractive to her. So break up with her and fuck escorts because if she finds out trust me EVERYONE you know will find out
If you're gonna fuck up a long term relationship like that, you gotta find someone better to do it with.
Might want to try and work on your relationship instead. Otherwise, if you're not happy with her then just leave.
Fucking an escort is like fucking a sex robot with AIDS why don’t you break up with your gf and find a normal girl that reciprocates your feelings
Its not that im unhappy, i just want some release but she really isnt trying that hard (OP btw)
Welp that might be true tho...
I mean is it really that bad??? I dont wanna leave my gf but at the same time i just wanna fuck all the time...
(Just to leave noted, i havent been with an escort before im just pondering the idea...)
I have had girlfriends the passed 7 years I always just cheat on them go out with friends and use a fake name and snapchat and say you dont have any other social media because work doesnt allow you too then fuck as much as you like and never get caught
You'll get much better ecstasy wooing someone and not paying for it
Then again I'm a massive piece of shit, it may just be worth leaving your girl if she doesnt want to fuck you atleast a few times a week there is something wrong
(Nor have i cheated on her before) [still OP]
Learn to foreplay and sexually tease your longterm gf. Her desire for sex won't be a problem anymore.
Agreed
absolutely talk with your girlfriend about it if you havent yet because if you try to hide shit like that it will bite you in the ass later
Sounds fair enough...
It's not wrong if it's just sex.
It's only cheating if emotions are involved.
Well thats what i was thinking, but i also know its wrong... =/
Or are you just messing with me?? Lol
I wouldn't do it for several reasons. First and foremost you should talk to your girlfriend about how you're feeling and how she's feeling. Second of all, paying for sex is about as low as you can get.
Dude, deadass she’s gonna start talking to other people and making excuses that don’t add up. Don’t fall for it, just tell her “listen, you haven’t really been trying I’m this relationship and if you want out let me know. I need sex and a woman who will act like she’s MY woman, if you don’t want to do these things then gtfo leech”
Don't listen to this fag. If you are in a relationship with someone sticking your dick in someone else is cheating regardless of emotion.
We've already talked, she knows im sort of lacking sex, and she told she was gonna work on it, but i still havent seen much effort on her part... and i know i CANT make her do it so my way of seeing it is that hiring someone solely for sex wasnt such a bad option... i appreciate your say in this also =P
Im pretty sure the consensus is clear in this thread, but im just gonna reiterate it anyway. Im sure you realize you can't keep a stable relationship forever while fucking around behind her back, so either work it out with her or leave her before things get worse.
I'm prolly gonna cheat on my gf and this is what I tell myself
I just wanna thank the people that even bothered to reply, you guys are making me see this differently and im grateful.
Which route you going? Staying loyal, fucking an escort, or a thot from a bar?
Lmao i think im staying loyal, but this is such a complicated situation... i mean im no saint im a horny mofo, but i dont wanna fuck what i have with my gf...
I imagine it being hard to bring up to her, but you could always just tell her you're not feeling that she loves you without mentioning sex. If she doesn't work on it after that, she clearly moved on and so should you, but in an honesy way.
Dude, hoes are a dime a dozen, don’t let this chick fuck with your head. But if you want to stay with her just be straight up like “I need sex, you don’t provide it, so either you give it up or I’ll get it somewhere else”
Thank you very much for the advice
I'm in the same position and the user from >I literally blew up every number I have on my phone and this temptation is fucking unreal
I wish it were that easy lol, but yeah thats basically the convo i need to have with her... youre right man
Do it. Don't listen to those incels. Nobody will ever know, but be careful, it's addictive.
Well you see, that sounds tempting af lol but my morals dont let me... fuck... im not even religious!
I'm convinced it's impossible to be a high test Male and remain loyal. Even JFK couldn't fkn resist
It's not called moral, it's called fear. Just do it one time and it will demystify it. Cheat evertime you can, never give a shit. You know there's a problem with your gf, and bro, you aren't the problem, she is. They always do that after 3 years.
should probably work on your relationship instead
Don't do anything stupid, try and work things out instead of getting an STD from fucking a feral thot
Tough called there bud especially if you have already talked to her about it. From experience, I still say you shouldn't go outside the relationship for sexual release. It's got to be an underlying issue with her as to why she's not feeling it. I would just try to talk to her some more. One more try can't hurt. After that I guess you do you.
I have thought of that "as to why shes not feeling it"... one of the really minor reasons why i havent done this
Rape her. Seriously. What I mean is stop talking and begging like a s*yboy. She'll fight and then she'll let you do it.
It's not cheating if the man does it. Just don't let her find out.
Listen here faggot I just went through the same thing, and she ended up breaking up with me after 7+yrs even though I put up with her lack of sexual appetite. Dont let it hit you when you dont expect it annon.
Kek yeah im pretty sure im not a soyboy user but wtv