>have gf of 7 years whom I have a 2 year child with >used to complain that I I didn't eat pussy enough even though she sucked my dick a lot >said fuck it and learned to eat pussy >turns out I like it and are getting good at it >startes eating her pussy each night >she sucks me for a second but then we fuck >try to be romantic and silly so i can get a real blowjob again >she doesn't want to blow me now >she says if I dont cum within 5 mins she will stop
Never used to be this way, she used eat my cock like they werent making it anymore. Whenever she would be into it I could cum buckets in minutes.
Now she puts pressure on the situation, and then, why even do it? I want her to like it again, not do it and not like it. Otherwise ill never cum.
Advice? Btw im we are basically in our 30's, if that helpsm
You have a child, I think the answer is pretty obvious
Joseph Nguyen
Yeah I do but it just kinda turns into an argument...then I feel silly for having a boner.
Earlier today I was rubbing on her ans said " hey I have this strange growth that I need you to check out ", cause we joke like that.
Then she says shes not in the mood, so I said " bummer ". And she says " I dont have to fucking suck your dick everytime you want me to ".
And I was like what the fuck..
Asher Price
She likes to get fucked in the ass though...
Blake Campbell
Why did people come here to resolve relationship issues instead of talking to their significant other? Is it down syndrome?
Samuel Taylor
Cut back on eating her out. Stop giving in to her, she's just seeing what she can get away with.
Also means she's a bitch. Start looking for a replacement. Get ready to set her up when you decide to pull the trigger. About an ounce of heroin and a injection kit in her car within her purse ought to do the trick. She'll get probation. On days she goes into probation, slip her the tiniest amount, enough she doesn't feel it but busts the UA. When she gets locked up, move for divorce/full custody of the kids.. Then move your new ass in. About a year later, if she gives you any shit, look dead cold in her eyes and make clear you've destroyed one bitch, another won't mean shit to you.. She'll lick your asshole clean after she swallows after every BJ.
Kevin Reyes
Secure your assets and start cheating since she already is
Brayden Nguyen
Definitely
Angel Morgan
Have you tried taking to get about it? Expressing your frustration? Asking why she's stopped? How she feels about it? If eating pussy is something you enjoy doing then don't tie it to blowjobs in the discussion.
Connor Parker
>psuedointellect virgin evaluation
OP why the hell are you asking for relationship advice here
Angel Evans
start getting in shape bro, unless you already are. If you let yourself go and dont seem in demand she will feel like she can do whatever the fuck she wants.
Alexander Jenkins
This is stupid. Be just as petty as she is.
Tyler Gutierrez
Have another child
Asher Cruz
> 7 year relationship > have a kid together
No, you're right. They should totally end their relationship because she's not blowing him. That's the reasonable, adult move here.
Adrian Flores
this
Gavin King
I love the double standard bitches have these days, she's probably no looker, but expects OP to be one (it he's not already)
Henry Diaz
I will never fucking understand why guys obsess about getting blowjobs. I'm a guy. I'm straight. Blowjobs are second rate, like eight tiers below full on sex. What the fuck is the big deal about BJ's?
Adam Bailey
he came to virgin central for advice on females, what to expect
Blake Martin
Women do this when either:
>They are sucking another guy's dick outside of the relationship Or >They are sucking multiple guys' dicks outside of the relationship
She says she tired all the time. And that sucking dick is a real chore.
Owen Butler
Report each other for paedophilia because you're both obviously fucking children.
Landon Parker
What is your personal list of tiers?
Austin Morgan
but if he gets in shape and looking good he can flip the script and start fucking other chicks and everything. Youd be surprised what a woman will let you do when she sees you grow a pair.
Cooper Stewart
This is a bait thread no guy is this stupid
Adam Allen
She is actually the fat one, I love chubbies. I actually have a six pack.
Owen Cook
She says she tired all the time. And that sucking dick is a real chore.
This
Asher Barnes
Mine won't even do that on most days. Instead she just tells me to put a condom on so we can fuck. I've even tried flavored condoms. She only likes the cherry and most days she doesn't even want to do that.
Anthony Mitchell
Fair point Yea Forumsro
Aaron Powell
>arguing about hypothetical strangers in a situation you have never experienced yourself
this gonna be good
Nolan Garcia
Also a foot long dick
Owen Jenkins
I dont know how big it is but she can get both her little hands around it.
Jayden Wood
> Has nothing better to do than watch people arguing about hypothetical strangers in a situation they have never experienced themselves
We're all a bit retarded really
Parker King
>Bjs are 8 tiers below sex >I’m straight Does not compute
Ryder Thompson
It's not like I actually hammered out a list, I was being hyperbolic. I'm just saying, blow jobs are like for fuckinging pre-teens who are too timid to go all-out. I'm 34. I've been in plenty relationships and plenty more casual flings. I've never once had a blow-job that was so mind blowing that it made me see the light on what other guys love and obsess on them over. They've NEVER been as good as vag or anal sex, so I don't get why other guys like the OP who's clearly getting laid wants to get blown so bad.
Joseph Long
I've experienced the kind of woman that doesnt want to put effort in because she makes good money, has great tits and really loved her ass. She felt entitled I fucked around and we talked that shit out. I eventually walked away because she wanted me to live in a shit town in pa.
Logan Cooper
op is pic realated? lets spitroast her sometime
Kayden Walker
Then push for a real answer, unless that's good enough for you. Find a compromise if it's that important.
Ryan Price
can you hold out and not orgasm and get a long bj/hj combo? Make your hearing leave bro.
Kevin Edwards
I understand your point, its just that after so long, then they suddenly stop, make one skeptical.
The blowjob feeling is more a male dominance thing, most times blowjobs feel tickly or awkward. I acrually prefer handjobs. It's just making me think she doesnt like my dick anymore for some reason.
Aaron Kelly
its about degrading her, one of the most degrading things is forcing your cock down a bitches throat and watching her gag on it. that’s just me though.
Luke Butler
find a new pussy to eat. just like take-out, it's not cheating if you pay for it even though you have something to eat at home.
Julian Adams
Suggest 69'ing?
Gavin Carter
When you have a kid men have to be careful because the woman can take everything. I cannot just demand a blowjob. No matter what porn tells you.
And also the more you talk about it with them the less special it is. You want them to want to do it and feel sexy while they so it.
Chase Evans
For me it does not compute why a straight guy who's clearly getting all the full-on sex he wants would bother whining about not getting blown. Or what the big fucking deal about BJ's are. I've never once had a BJ that was better than full-on sex. Even the idea of a BJ just isn't fucking sexy to me. So she's going to put my cock in her mouth...whoopdee-fucking-do. So what? Can I breed her through her mouth? Can I watch her tits bounce and grip her ass? Can I suck her tits while she blows me? Nope. Big fucking deal.
Jaxson Peterson
You've never had a good BJ then. I find them much better when they're good at it
Colton Reyes
lol cucked eating pussy is for beta males sodomy in general should be avoided for these reasons sorry brother, i hope you fix it
Jose Miller
She used to wake me up with my dick in her mouth and say stupid things like " you know you want to give me your load cum for me big guy " and Id blow all over the place in maybe 10 minutes.
No she just sighs and lazily jerks me off asking if im close. And that just ruins it.
Brody Scott
I don't know that being entertained by foolishness at four am is retarded. You could say the same thing about TV.
On second thought that's pretty valid.
Kevin Price
Yeah, if you're afraid to talk it through then you're in for a bad time. Grow up and talk about it instead of asking a bunch of basement dwelling incels what they would do.
Jack Davis
Damn fall from grace.
Jayden James
She's getting it from other guys user
Matthew Long
Ok, if it's about dominance, I can understand that, if that's your thing. For me, it just doesn't do anything for me, it doesn't make me feel dominant or anything other than I got my cock in a mouth and not a pussy.
Now OP, I can understand where you're coming from - she used to do a thing for you that was clearly for your benefit and not for hers. Now that you went and did something for her benefit, she's being selfish. It could be that in learning to eat pussy, you changed the power dynamic, and she doesn't see a need to be selfless anymore. It could be that now she feels dominant and likes it.
If it were me (and I liked/wanted BJ's) I would stop eating her pussy till she blew you, and then work something out where it's quid pro quo. You don't eat her unless she blows you. Or something. You're a couple. Fucking communicate.
James Collins
this is pretty decent advice OP
Daniel Ortiz
Her grandfather died a month ago, we go an inheritance, a big one, she never leaves the house and neither do I. If anything we take the baby to the psrk or go pokemon Go'ing together.
I dont play that shit but I do drive her around. Thats the only time she leaves the house.
Aiden Howard
I'm the guy that gave this advice: Are you seriously concerned about the state of the relationship that you think rocking the boat over blow jobs will make her leave you? If things are that bad, I would focus on what's important, and that is staying in your kid's life. Now, if you've been established as the father in the eyes of the law (you're on the birth certificate, for example), then in most states, she can't just *take* the child unless you let her. Fathers do have rights, as long as they know the law enough to assert them. What state are you in? Learn the law in regards to custody. Maybe start talking to lawyers, or if you can't afford a lawyer, talk to organizations that focus on assisting single dads with the law (yes, they exist). When my ex broke up with me, I had to drag her into court and fight to have my rights acknowledged and I won.That was in Texas. Arm yourself with knowledge of the law, maybe look into paperwork and procedures in how you can represent yourself if things go south. But never just assume she can just take the child and you can do nothing to stop her, because that's almost never true.
That's only if things are really that bad. If they're not, then be a fucking man, stand up to her, and work your shit out like an adult couple.
Cooper Garcia
Yeah, if they are living together with a kid then they very well could already be married under common law. OP should check that out.
James Bailey
I don't think 7 years is long enough for common law marriage, but yeah, OP needs to learn the law - the law is freely available to anyone online, you just have to look it up and learn it. Talk to father's rights advocates that actually know something about the law and can help you with custody questions, or (if you have equal access to that inheritance) pay a retainer on a lawyer. Just figure out your legal situation because it can only empower you so you're not living in fear of her just leaving and you being powerless to stop it.
Jace Reed
2 bjs for 1 is the best way, he’ll keep the power roll whilst she wont feel completely useless
Elijah Brooks
This did not turn out nearly as entertaining as i had hoped
Bentley Gutierrez
red flag big red flag. oral sex isnt the only cause of this
Cameron Cook
lol
Charles Bell
fuck off fag
Bentley Peterson
this flag couldnt get any more fucking red im afraid youre fucked
Hudson Jones
actually kekd at this OP what is your life?
Cameron Price
Cant quite agree on 8 tiers but I definitely agree, would honestly rather just eat pussy then fuck. Blowjobs are only really worth it if shes bleeding or its a first date or whatever and she aint gonna give it all up.