married anons, how/when did you know you wanted to marry your girl? im in about a year with this girl and really love her, but little shit she's started to do (dragging me into her friends drama, talking down to me and others) has started to drive me fucking crazy lately. i can see myself marrying her more than any girl i've ever dated, but still not sure. she looks like zoey deschanel, has huge tits and worships my cock, but is just kind of smug in a weird way that's really a turn off.
yeah i'm 34 and not getting any younger. i live in a big city and am already getting to the point where i get annoyed when like 28-32 year old friends want to go a fucking nightclub or some loud stupid waste of money shit.
> talking down to me That's the end, right there. If you don't leave her now, you will look back in 20 years when your life is fucked and you are with a harridan who never lets up with the abuse and you will remember this thread and wonder who the hell I was that I could have predicted the mess you will be in.
No marriage, the dick worshiping will end immediately. Fuck her for as long as you can, and when she gives you the inevitable marriage ultimatum, walk right out the door.
Lincoln Torres
running out of shit to bump with but i appreciate y'all. i know we're a bunch of fucking freaks but Yea Forums is no joke a great place to get advice.
this is like when michael jackson rented a supermarket and paid actors to be shoppers right?
Luke White
did you have this experience? just curious. i should probably also added that she makes a fuckton of money and this probably contributes to her talking down to me/others.
Yep that's the kiss of death right there. Separate all the sexy stuff you like about her and focus on whether you would dig her without the looks and cock worship. Reason why is because that shit will change over time. Sex drive goes down for you both, she might get fat or have changed looks, but the only thing that won't change is that personality and the way she treats you. Can you live with that alone?
Caleb James
Fuck her money. You will earn every penny you will see from her. In a bad way.
get a hobby, people do stuff during the day time too. you'll probably gotta try some different things, but im not even 30 and i avoid going to bars, let alone clubs. not my scene.
Gabriel Martinez
i have soul crushing 50+ hour week corporate job so nearly all socialization takes place at night or on weekends
2 years after dating her. Married her after 4 though. But then cheated 3 months in. So don’t take my advice
Kayden Davis
I started dating my wife when we were 16. I told her I'd marry her when we were 19.
Actually asked her when we were 26.
41 now.
I really like her. Of course good times and bad, but mostly good.
Cooper Gutierrez
Seriously. You have to spend 1000+ dollars on clothes and more money on cover charge and drinks. Unless you’re rich as fuck or a drug dealer it’s just plain stupid.
Just fuck hookers and don’t get married. At least you’re getting laid.
I knew I wanted to marry my wife after like 3 months of dating. We got married on our 1st dating anniversary. Now - nearly 20 years later, I think it was my best decision ever.
About your specific case... Well, look she surely doesn't look perfect, but then again you seem to have a collection of pics of some random woman just because she's a celebrity. So you're not a catch either.
Caleb Taylor
If she isnt your best friend then she isnt the one.
Austin Scott
yeah i really don't mind going to like a decent cocktail bar that's not blasting stupid ass much, but clubs are unbearable and a ridiculous waste of money.
You should marry her. Tomorrow. Seriously. No, really. You fucking dickhead loser
Colton White
Also, one more important thing. A good marriage doesn't work by finding a perfect woman, it begins when 2 people star accepting each other's fails. If you're going to waste time by searching for some imaginary perfect girl, you'll end up alone.
Don't listen to the idiots that talk about how expensive wives are and other stupid shit like that, women aren't a different species, once you start living together they will want your family to be financially stable as much as you do.
You need to write down a cost / benifits analysis statement on her: on oneside.. all the shit that is honestly terrible about her / the other all the good about her. The only one you are kidding is yourself if you fluff her up on either side and lie to yourself about her. From this you can tell if she is really the one, needs more work before you commit.. or wholy fuck what am I doing with my life I need to dump this cuntface.
People change when you move in together, those cute quirks like her eating all your snacks and not sharing... might make you snap. I dunno. She wont take it up the ass... can you imagine the rest of your life with no anal in her? Etc. Etc.
I never wanted to get married but I knocked her up and it seemed like the right thing to do. She was going to move out of state and I wanted to see my son every day. Being married sucks but being a dad kicks ass so it's a trade off
Robert Anderson
it's funny you say that because i moved in with my last serious gf and it was a fucking nightmare, she turned into a queen cuntface overnight. paid $7,000 to break the lease and get away from her and it was worth every fucking penny. but good point re: cost/benefit analysis.
good for you Yea Forumsro, plenty of dudes woudn't have done that. a friend of mine moved across the fucking world, usa to australia, because his wife was from there and wanted to move home after they had a kid. fast forward, they get divorced and he's fucked because australian divorce law apparently hugely advantages mothers. if he leaves the country he basically loses his son, and sucks because his parents are getting older and he can't come visit them.
Don't be a bitch. My fiance condescended to me once. I let it go. The second time I told her she could get the fuck out if she ever talked to me like that again.
You need a woman to respect you or she can eat shit and walk off to some faggot who will never treat her right. She needs to learn what her place is. As you need to learn yours. Respect and get respect back. That's it.
Give her a talking to. If she doesn't like it then show her how a fucking door knob works because she's clearly not worth shit and wouldn't figure it out anyway.
Hudson Martin
Well you apparently have a lot fucking images and gifs of some bitch you never met. Why the fuck wouldn't she find that kind of fucking weird? There's two sides to this story. I wonder how fucking beta you are around her in real life.
Do not let someone walk over you with some bullshit comment. You think her being gone will hurt? Imagine being on the hook for paying for a kid a bitch won't let you see. If she isn't worth it let her know what the problem is. She changes great. She doesn't she can get the fuck out.
One of the most accurate ways to see if a relationship will last is the way you guys talk to each other in a fight or arguement. If one person is talking down to the other person or always trying to tear the partner down, then that relationship will not last.
Noah Hill
>taylor swift thread
underage faggot detected kill yourself piece of shit
Michael Price
Life is shit and all you can do is find someone who makes you want to be alive.
you'd be a fool to marry anyone in the current state of society. 94% of marriages end in divorce especially if you're not a billionaire because some new guy will come around and charm tf out of your wife and she will definitely try to fuck him (I'm usually the new guy)
>no tats >no piercing other than ears >no experience with sex when I met her 39 years here. Didnt marry.. yet.. both her (23) and I are doing well just being together.
Aaron Rodriguez
>94% of marriages end in divorce
No they don't.
Joseph Sullivan
If you're having any doubts now. Don't do it she's not the one. And other Anons are right. They do all change after marriage and kids
Charles Robinson
Bruh that was my exact reaction when I learned he died. My gf was kinda pissed at me cause of lol
Landon Thompson
yea they do. it's around 54% within the first 10 years but skyrockets to 94% afterwards because of bigger, longer alimony payments and child support being raised by up to double what it would've initially costed
TS is one amazing lady. Love them legs in her. I think she may have the prettiest face in the world.
On the marriage thing. You know. Is she good to you? You want your seed? Does your dad like her? Got a job? Got her own stuff? Not boring in bed.
Does she like your friends is for fags. Because once life gets really going you dont get to play with friends. Dragging you into drama is worrisome. Talking down to you that could be you being a bitch. Then again she could be angry. You i bet have talked down to her before.
Last thing if it breaks your heart with the idea of her being gone then put a ring on it.
Taytay i love you and would leave the wf for you. She will understand and be supportive.
WTF dude you must be swallowing some big cocks and they caused brain damage. 50% of marriages end in divorce. That number is higher the more times you get married. For the love of common sense dont listen to this stupid fag.
Jacob Hall
Women do a lot of shit to make guys stay with them for the long term. However once the wedding is over and they got you locked down legally all those niceties go out the fucking window and they assert themselves in the relationship.
Oliver Rodriguez
No this is when Whole Foods paid Taylor Swift a shit load of money to take this picture