because you want one? no girl wants to be with a wanter. be a fucker. try to fuckem. or dont. either way girlfriends come when you least expect it, the whole point of "love" is it happens whether you like it or not. get to know as many girls as you can and fuck those who are willing. eventually one will stick. for a while. then fuck some more. another will come along. for a while. and so on. the point is you should long for pussy, love just happens. happy to help.
Why is it so difficult to get a girlfriend?
I'm doing that the whole time: trying to take distance from other people in public, preventing any communication and looking at other girls with despair.
I think has to do with the autistic, incel attitude
dude "trying" is your point of failure
Incels never get laid. Don't be one.
>be butch
>get a bitch
>botch the batch
>...
>profit!!
But eh, no matter what i try, it's inevitable for me to become a miserable, failure of society, ironicaly, in which society is pushing young men like me in to the depressive rabbit hole becuase of the whole feminist, sjw uprising.
No hope for 18yo me
Then what is your tactic?
Girls aren't gonna approach me, me not "trying" is only increasing that chance more than it's already needed.
You're either born a normie or an incel, nobody becomes one
>had no gf until i turned 21
>after that i literally had 3 girls interested in me at all times
>old ones left, new ones came but it was always multiple
>now i m in a relationship and still know two other girls who re into me and who i could get with
>but my girlfriend is a jackpot so i'm not gonna risk it
moral is that there are a lot of girls searching cos essentially every guy is an idiot, my female friends are searching, female friends of my girlfriend are dropping their bf's cos they re assholes - just be a guy that has stuff to offer; not money but brain and wits, be smart, and be a good talker, know when to hold them and flirt a little and know when to fold them to stay interesting, the right amount of contact to be leave good impression but not be a burden. and stop rushing if you're in for a long term thing.
Honestly, at this point, all i can say is that biology and science is retarded.