Real question: do guys like obsessive girls? I'm not controlling, but i get very obsessed fairly easily...

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It's a double edged sword. Obsession, mutual or otherwise can feel great in the moment, but when doubt arises for any reason then jealousy is quick to follow.

Anyone who I've been with that became obsessed also cheated. Claiming that "it didn't count because I thought about YOU the entire time." (It still counts, it ALWAYS counts). I even get WHY it happens, I mean I get obsessed with someone and when I can't put in the same effort as she does, it's difficult to reciprocate that obsession, and I really do GET why she'd look for someone else to have that type of connection with.

I wish I could be wealthy, it would take my biggest hurdle towards an obsessive relationship right out of the picture (absence due to work-hours, and absence of attention due to work fatigue).

I could never cheat just because I lose all attraction to anyone else, I get that obsessed. I get an unhealthy level of obsession LMFAO. Cheating is the one thing I can't handle, obsession has lead me to stay in very abusive relationships where I make excuses as to why I need to stay, but the second they're unfaithful i become disgusted with them. My ego can't handle the object of my obsession being attracted to anyone else

I used to be like that, but after being with the same partner for a few years I've just accepted that her love isn't going to be 150% like mine. You're going to be hurt with most any partner but when you come to terms with the amount of love and mental devotion that a normal person can give you, you'll be fine.

Do you think it's possible I'll meet someone who can reciprocate though? Because it's so emotionally tiring trying to repress that part of myself. Logically though that would probably be such a toxic relationship but it's what I really crave

There’s a fine line where once you cross it it just gets annoying as fuck.

I caught myself being obsessive once and made it stop. This girl I was crushed on was telling me about a guy who liked her too much, and called it "oneitis". I later realized it might have been a subtle hint about myself.

I can't stop myself without turning it into repulsion. When it comes to a romantic interest I can either be obsessed with you or completely hate you

Good for you, and I hope it ultimately turns out well. My last obsessed GF dropped me after sending topless pics to me (at work) and not getting a quick response. I felt bad at first, but time away has brought me back around to general apathy. That said, I was rather obsessed with her and still can't look at anyone else, sexually. Work-friends are all "isn't ___ hot!?" and I'm like "Yup! Uh sure." She's still on my mind though, and occasionally the game dog character Isabelle who's style matches the ex gf (except not a dog, obviously). Funny story, I guess is that I went to Yea Forums right after to take my mind off of her and saw that doggo wearing the same looking clothing and the hair(?) in the same style and well, that's some awful bullshit there.

My mental illness bullshit leads me to be able to end the obsession quickly after I leave someone, which is convenient as I'm not sitting here missing anyone really, but it still sucks. I hope you feel better!!

once I zing again it'll be fine. though there was a years-long stretch at one point. then someone said "i love you" (in a friendly way, but my brain didn't know better) and I was head-over-heels with her for about 2 years.

I think that's pretty cute tbh. But as long as you don't get overly obsessive and start doing some stupid shit... I think I myself would be okay with that.

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I understand that. I guess in another way, you could say I was gently friendzoned. But, its important to control those emotions, because if you sperg out, word will spread. Then you'll never get any ass from her whole world of friends, and everyone will think you're off-limits. Often a girl won't date a guy who is known for bad break-ups. They want a normal guy who can handle break-ups, not a prison sentence.

Obsessive women can kill themselves
Fucking CUNTS
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FUCK THAT CUNT SHE WANNA COME OVER ALL THE TIME
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Anyone who says this isn’t a huge turn off obviously has never had a gf who was obsessed with them.

Clingy women are the fucking worst.

Can't have friends, hobbies, or personal time when you have this adult baby in your house who needs constant coddling and validation. Any time these types of individuals even enter the room you have to acknowledge their presence like the fucking pope just walked by. If you don't give them the attention they want then you will be called everything from "cold and emotionless" to the classic emotionally manipulating "you don't really love me."

No, I don't love you bitch. Because you're an irritating cunt with low self-esteem and no fucking hobbies. Get a life.

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