I want to fucking die. Why would I expect anything else? After talking and dating for 4 weeks I get hit with this...

post nut clarity. she fapped

I hope that whatever is going on in your life to make you so angry resolves itself and you have a great life sir

Yeah fuck this thot you can find better don’t think other wise there’s 7 billion people in this world just use this a stepping stone in your love life

You probably weren't the only bloke she was testing out, so to speak.
It's likely that she simply decided to go with someone else; that's why she still wants to be "friends", she's relegating you to be her fallback.

>women
>guilt

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No one gives a fuck about your failed relationships. You deserve exactly what you got.

reddit is down

Should have fucked her silly before being a little bitch and now you lost your chance. You hear a lot growing about how guys are scum but in reality women are more scum than guys

This.

She was fucking multiple guys, testing everyone, then picks the best. Give her a week or so, and if she starts dating someone, just move on - be a man, she hasn't gotten to you - go flirt with another cute girl, put some pics on facebook of you with another hot girl, etc.. So she see's it. And ignore her shitstorm after you do, it will drive her mad.

Then you win.

Damn that must suck. She just straight up tried to be attracted to you but couldn't. Maybe develop some hobbies and be less faggy

No one deserves this.

OP, just find a really fucked up case that you treat well and literally abuse her if she behaves badly repeatedly. Shape her into a wife.

>be a man, she hasn't gotten to you
>put some pics on facebook of you with another hot girl, etc.. So she see's it

Stop being such a loser for women. Women are all whores. If this whore doesnt want you find another stop being a manchild
>why she do this
Because shes a woman

Different things dude.
1) Don't feel bad about it
2) But I didn't say making her go mental isn't fun to watch tho.

Advice from a 14 year old boy.

what this man said, the longer you are wasting time on this dumb bitch the more time you are wasting that could be spent on an actually good quality not dumb whore.

go fuck her girl friends

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Im not a POS incel so I don't understand this

>No one deserves this
>literally abuse her if she behaves badly
I sure do value your (wrong) opinion

Lots of samefagging in here tonight.

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She was flirting with some other dude in another chat window and he gave her lady boners.

Just go on dating apps user don't expect a full term relationship but you will get the chance to fuck her out of your thoughts it works everytime.
May I ask how old you are I'm 40 next month so my chances of finding love are fucking dire.
But if you are young you will have plenty of opportunities to find love in the mean time lower your standards and hook up with slappers on, pof, badoo, tinder.
Godspeed faggot

"Don't worry, he knows" sucks for you kike

She gave you like three different reasons, all of which are vague. At any rate, “I don’t want a relationship right now” = “I don’t want a relationship with you.” This could be for any reason: you don’t have similar interests, she didn’t like some aspect of your personality, etc. The “why” doesn’t matter, because she’ll never tell you. This is her way of “letting you down easy.” Honestly, your energy is better spent elsewhere. Spend some time on yourself and then get back into dating. It’s easier said than done, I know, but don’t beat yourself up over it.

youve been used my dude
sorry

Jesus dude - learn the game.

Tell her " I agree, I feel the same way, you're not really my type". Let her stew on that. If she gets cunty drop her. If he she agrees play it cool make a few more casual mentions about her hot friends that she should hook you up with or how attractive her mom is. That one gets them. In short, you end it, not her.

Try again, faggot.

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Sorry, no GUY deserves this.

God > man > woman/child

I'm 24 and we met through Bumble.

I've got bumble and tinder but never had much luck. I got 1 decent relationship out of tinder and then this month-long w/e from bumble.

It sounds like she was doing all the work. It looks like you weren’t doing anything to show you wanted this relationship to stay alive.
Guess you gotta start again with another chick. Lol

That's not true at all lol. It was surprisingly even.

Most whiteknight post I've seen all week.

IDGAF what the reason is, I just want to know it. If she found someone else, ok. If she's not attracted, ok. If she just doesn't like me, ok. But I hate the friend zone bullshit because we all know it's a cover for something.

Women need to be told what to do. Friendzone usually means "i'd fuck you" or "i wont fuck you but I expect you to still find a way to make me want to fuck you".

And so you get dumped by a thot. Funny how that works out

>ok dude so

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Op I don't understand, you met her through bumble, and now shes asking you to hang out and shes saying she cant see you as more than friends? wut?

so what was the sex like?

..if you were 4 weeks in and there was no sex, well i think i found the problem

After multiple dates, yes.

You will never meet anyone for a long term relationship on apps user.
Women crave attention and become reliant on different men saying how good they look and asking for sex just a ego boost.
I've used them since I was 30 so 10 years in and never found anyone decent other than nsa and the occasional couple of weeks flings.
My advice is to don't be so soft on them and try not to feel for them to quickly as you will get hurt 90% of the time.
Don't look for love... Love will find you in the most uncommon places if you see a woman while out shopping or doing what ever you do say hi or join a gym if you can afford it.
I've got a date tonight with the town bike but no expectations from it just a fuck.
Off to work in next ten mins good luck faggot and don't let this shit get you down as it did me.

u fuckn nigger.
Go on youtube and look "Time Ho" from Patrice O' neal, and watch more of his shit.

That's all I can say, I just hope you soak in the info

Don’t listen to anybody but me.

Women are retarded and don’t know what they want. Say “Whatever, I’m coming over anyway.” And then try to fuck her. Jesus you’re amateur.

>But I hate the friend zone bullshit
Then cut off all contact with her and move on with your life. That's not so bloody difficult, is it?

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OP, you're a faggot.

I've fucked 3 women off bumble this month without trying... and u have s gf. Quit being a boring cuck, lose the fedora, and forget about pokemon

Either she saw how small your dick was, or she already found someone more alpha than you.

Yep, that seems to be what I've experienced

If you’re a man and you haven’t listened to the teachings of Patrice O’Neal you’re not really a man yet.

Wtf r u on about

Don't worry, OP. Rejection feels bad, but there are a bunch of warm holes to have relations with out there. What you need to do is let yourself feel this rejection. Embrace it. Maybe cry a little. Maybe piss yourself and shit your pants.

But then you fucking get back up on that horse, user. You get your dick back out there and lure in some more honeys. Don't stop until you've found what you're looking for.

Fucking tell OP

That's just how these heifers work man, it's sorta like when ur swinging on some monkey bars u kno..u don't let go of one until u have a FIRM grasp on the other bar....she's onto the next bar buddy, fin urself an older woman...young bitches hate being cat called and then at a certain age when they're not getting cat called they miss it and wonder why they don't get attention the way they used to.
Srsly man, what do u have to lose besides some cum if it works out well 4 ya

listen, OP. This here is my real and genuine advice.

you seem relatively young, and so you haven't learned the lesson billions of men older than you have learned.
95% of women on this planet have absolutely no sense of sympathy or empathy. They are entirely concerned with themselves only. They will hurt you again and again and again and again and AGAIN. It doesn't stop. It won't. That's why you have to make a choice. Like down and take it again, and again, and again- orrr
You can take charge. You have been brainwashed by women and institutions/agendas led by women to think that all fault is through men. They have manipulated you. I'm seriously telling this as a friend, I don't want to berate you or call you dumb, I genuinely mean it when I say you have been conditioned to serve THEM. And this is how they do you. They do you dirty, OP.

text this girl back saying "That's fine, I've come to the realization that you aren't really my type and I prefer we stay friends. Thanks for the fun though." then stop talking to her. I guarantee you she will text you again tomorrow wanting to be flirty.

i'm sorry if it seems sexist or presumptious, but reality isn't PC. Reality will hit you hard OP. Just indulge me, do yourself a favor and text her that. When you see that what I've predicted comes true, hopefully you think incels are a little less psychotic and women are entirely full of themselves most of the time.

Based.

Thats a shit test nigga

>was really enjoying her company, and she seemed to be enjoying mine. She consistently began conversations, invited me to hang out or go to dinner, laughed, and our conversations were way more than just a few words

You basically summed it up right there. She was the one initiating interactions and suggesting activities to pull the relationship in a more sexual direction. You went one step below rejecting her advances; you got comfy. You let her take control of defining what you two were. The reality is, most women want to be directed, not the other way around. From all those conversations you had with her, how many had you directly flirting with her? In a non-open to interpretation manner? Based solely off the way you're speaking, I'd venture to guess not often. Basically, you were her friend first, and you let her decide for you.

>IDGAF what the reason is
>But I want to know
If you really don't care, then why do you want to know?

>multiple dates

Bro thats where you fucked up. You're suppose to let her know you like her on the first date or maybe even before the first date. Sounds like you were too slow. I don't know if its saveable. Maybe if you try something like

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Learn from it user.
Just use a couple of women who want just sex until you find the right one but keep it descreet as women don't realy want a player in a serious relationship.

fuck off back to r/mgtow

Get fit, stop jacking your dick, eat healthy and get good rest. Your confidence will go up and getting girls will get easier. I literally just stand in one spot and give a friendly smile to girls as they walk past and get a few that give me a double-take and wave. Then I just walk up to them and start chatting. Being fit, funny and not ugly is life on easy mode, but I used to be a self-loathing faggot just like you. I changed my life though. You should too.

It was really 50/50 if not 75/25 my direction. She just contributed

Can't believe these morons type out walls of text for this bullshit. They must think they're really smart and well cultured with all their rich life experience.
Get a fucking hobby.

What I meant was if she gives me a legit reason, I'll accept it. Not a bs cover.

"I'm not attracted to you"

Ok cool sorry I can't change that

"I'm seeing someone else"

Rough, but sure. W/e

>4 weeks of dating
>"It'll take YEARS to find someone as good as her again!

Don't be such a fucking child OP.

Same user here. It might be saveable but just keep pushing and be more alpha not beta. Go meet with her. Tell her youll "talk about it when I get there" or we'll "talk about it in person" and then you have a shot

Ok down to earth chad, what's a good chat opening once they smile and wave at you?

Have you seen the abbreviations OP is using? He is a child.

>can I ask
Found your problem OP, you're a cuck who needs to ask permission to ask why instead of just asking

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>Past friends

Seems like she put you in the friendzone from the very beginning. Should've made your intentions known from the very beginning. I do this and when women tell me the "we can be friends" shit I tell them that I'm not looking to be their little gay friend. Women are cold hypergamistic self indulgent bitches

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Bitches are stupid, ignore them. Seek a more fulfilling life. If you happen upon someone that isn't a bitch one day, fine, but don't actively seek it out like some horny shit. Fap, come, and move on with your fucking life.

don't be a pussy don't kill yourself stop it you're being a fucking dumbass.

This.

Lel whiteknight telling someone to go to reddit

GTFO of here with your alpha male bs theories though. Reality is that doesn't work, and it only does if you want a dysfunctional relationship. I used to be 14 thinking alpha/beta meant something but then I realized no, most legitimate people like to be treated as equals.

>make sense now OP?

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Get a load of this faggot.

I can't read your texts so I can't say whether or not that analysis is accurate. That said though, if you were doing a majority of the work, you also may have been making things too easy for her. Human nature is to crave what you can't have. If we feel like getting something is easy, we lose interest.

Trust me, I've been trying to figure this out after being in your exact position dozens of times since middle school. I finally started making some more consistent progress two years ago, and it's still not totally foolproof. I get it op, it feels like what you really crave, that genuine affection you're searching for, feels like it should be coming from a 50-50 sort of relationship. I'd be lying if I said that I didn't want that too. But unfortunately, before you can reach that point, you need to learn how to play the game. And a lot of it relies less on the women you speak to and more on your own mentality.

Just giving advice faggot
Heres a little advice for you rope yourself

she was never into you. only something to pass the time. but, you were way to into her and she actually had the soul not to lead you on.

the fact you're so wrapped up with her in 4 weeks shows your extreme immaturity.

I normally give them my "oh I'm intrigued" face, then mouth "hello". I walk up and ask them if I can give them my number, I don't ask them to text me or give me theirs, because you gotta put a little something in their power bucket. If they're heading somewhere I just tell them to text me, pretending to sound desperate but I'm actually confident so it comes off as funny, then I leave it at that. If they want to stay and talk then I talk about what they're up to that day, what I'm up to, what a beautiful day it, the same frivolous bullshit any guy and girl talk about, but sprinkling a little humor in there and giving her an idea of how fun and lolrandum I can be.

That ain't alpha/beta theory its confidence and like you said

>most people like to be treated as equals

I.e. deferring to her and asking permission to ask a question is cuck, low self esteem bs which is probably permeating all his interactions with her and looking desperate af

>being this naive

Wow what rock are you living under? holy-shit.exe

seems fake
probably fake
or she realized youre a huge fag
either way, she's a thot

"can i ask why?" wtf, you're such a pussy. if you had any hope with her, that sealed her pussy shut from you forever.

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KeK
Whatever you say Elliot Rodgers

Go put on some more eyeshadow

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>t. roastie

Sorry no one read your wall of text. Good effort though. Thanks for the (you)

1st: thats a shittest. she wants to see if you react confident, which you didnt by asking that question. cockblocked yourself there young padawan, learn from it.

2st: girls are insane biatches that know even less what they want than you do.

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Hahahahahaha holy fucking shit

so you're both teenagers

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>Abloo abloo woe is me I want to kill myself because I got dumped
Fuck you, nigger. I've never even held hands with a girl l, let alone dated one for a single day. You'll get over it. You'll find another girl, probably a better one, because you're able to get one in the first place. You have a future. Don't be a fucking whiny faggot about it just because of one girl letting you go. She was probably a thot anyway and it wasn't meant to be. Count your blessings and realize that you are lucky to even hwv girls give you the time of day.

Still be friends with her, help set her up, set up her with your best wishes, maybe karma will repay you somehow...youre a good person, you should expect it to. You should watch the world you have play out for what it is, and once its over look back and see if you were somehow made a difference. The REAL point is not to burn your bridges, you might need them someday...someday when karma doesnt work and there is only flaming wreckage, it wont be your fault it all fell to pieces. Facts.

I swear people make these threads just to harass me.

Oh yeah, that reminds me. I forgot to tell OP to have his own car, place and job. Most girls don't want a loser that lives with his parents.

Age doesn't matter, I had a chick 10 years older than me just cut me off and she's 38 or some shit. Life has a habit of being tough.

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women like attention to feel validated. go on any dating website and most women are on there "looking for friends" or dont want to fuck because they just want that quick good feel of someone idolizing them. once they got their fill they friendzone you. never be their freind, no man who is single should be making friends with women. you either fuck asap or dump her ass and go to the next one.

Me? Lol bruh ok, not to mention I've got a nice car, my own apartment, and a good white collar job that pays really well.

"Can i ask why"

>CAN

Hahaha should've just said bet and deleted the number

Then the only thing to work on is YOU. Like I said, get fit, eat well, get good sleep, and stop jacking your dick. If you're autistic or neurotic I'm not sure there's much anyone on here could tell you to change that.

>being this insecure

You're the one who brought it up my dude.

she jerked off in the shower and thought about it. maybe you should too

You were too pussy to make a move so she got bored and is currently in Chad's bed getting rammed. Be more bold next time faggot.

Between her telling you the evenings plan and her sending that text, someones cock got in her and you got friendzoned.

Instead of movie time with your loser ass, she's getting pumped full of chad cum.

Sucks to be you.

OP, everyone has a right to bail out of any relationship they are in without prior notice and without explanation.

Nobody ows you shit let alone relationship.

Fact that the "things are going well" means absolute fuck all for the very next day you may find yourself in absolute hell.

There are people that will suddenly come into your life and leave it the same way.

Try not to be too much attached. Be a man of value for yourself, not for anyone else.

Go with the flow and live your life.