Hey Yea Forums, any stories of you realizing a good friend of yours turned out to not be such a good friend?
Hey Yea Forums, any stories of you realizing a good friend of yours turned out to not be such a good friend?
yeah, for once in many years im actually being serious on Yea Forums. i've had several of those friends.
1. my own older brother who was like 5 years my senior. he had NO friends and i'd often ditch friends just to hang out with his pathetic ass. i lost many a friend because of this, but i also did it because my mom wanted it so. we used to hang out a lot, going to clubs and shit going on vacation even twice had a good time. i seriously thought we'd be the best of friends for life, until he met his wife and dropped me like a hot potato.
real pathetic shit.
years later:
2. a best friend, who always (ironically) said i was a brother to him. we had tons of fun until well.... you guessed it! he met his wife. and dropped me like a hot potato.
bout a few months ago i decided to look him up, called him up (tried to) until he messaged me going like he really didn't wanna talk to me and blablabla, as if i had raped his dog or some shit. it was ridiculous.
biggest irony? when i had gfs (ive had a ton) id never stop hanging out with either that friend, or my brother. i always made time for them like once every 2 weeks. and the second friend even had the audacity to complain how i had less time for him when i was with one gf.
Yeah I had a stepbrother. At first he made my life miserable and ended up killing my dog, but we eventually became friends over 7 years or so.
One day my father became deathly ill and i discovered that he had poisoned him. Thankfully I was able to find an antidote.
He ended up murdering our father with a knife, and was shot by the police. The house we grew up in burned to the ground shortly afterwards.
I've had friends dog the boys for a girl then have a complete mental breakdown after she was done playing him
Yeah, back in like grade school. I was 12 at the time and my one friend was on the same school bus as me. The other kids didn't seem to like me and my friend would talk shit about me on all the bus rides. Telling them every personal thing they know about me just so that there was more reason to make fun of me. This happened for two years in a row and we haven't spoken for several years. Now I've actually seen him again and I just avoid him as much as possible. He however seemed to forget about the whole thing.
Best part about this is that this happened with two of my friends with me. Both I've known since childhood btw. The second one came in just starting middle school and became an absolute douche. Making fun of me and also telling others what he knew about me and actually wanted to fight me once. Didn't speak to him for years until we saw each other again in highschool. That was when he was struggling in a class I was doing really well in. That was when he remembered that we were friends once and started complimenting me infront of others and reminisced about the good times we had. I of course knew it was complete bullshit because I knew he was gonna ask me for help in this class. So I ignored him.
Damn, its supposed to be bros b4 hoes...
Well they got what was coming to them, I guess.
2 situations with identical outcomes, with you being the only common factor in both.
I'm guessing you're actually the problem and are so unaware if it that nobody else sees a point in trying to explain it to you
I can't even tell if this is real or not...
You guys are pussies. Get some real problems then complain you ungrateful assholes
Once had to shoot my own friend...
girl i was really good friends (about 6 years of close friendship) with and i started to fuck around as friends, lasted about 6months before she drops me as hard as if i cheated on her. Find out a month later she dropped me for another of our friends. She wanted to remain friends, said she still really cared about me.
I cared about her, gave it ago. Realized she's toxic af and she just kept me around too stroke her ego. needless to say i dropped all parties involved
Stories of your friend betraying you, not the other way around. God you're fucking stupid.
He betrayed dumb shit
Me*
>be me. Share a house with alpha friend.
> he’s always getting pussy. Me, not so much
>alpha friend has big thick cock and I have a little ween
> meet 9/10 girl who is interested in me. I know she’s a slut because some guys at my job gang banged her . But whatever .
> first real hottie that has ever shown interest in me.
> start seeing her all the time. Amazing sex
> continue seeing her. Eventually after couple of years move on with her. Another year and decide to marry.
> alpha friend says “ think twice about marrying her user. You know she’s a slit, right”.
> I disregard and marry her anyway
> after 5 years of marriage come home early from work. See alpha friend pulling out of my driveway way.
> go inside. Wife is laying naked on the living room floor. She hears door but can’t see it’s me. Calls out “ decides you want another round before user gets home?”
> I walk into living room and wife is naked on the floor. Legs spread and dripping cum
> turns out he started fucking her as soon as I met her
Bro...
yeah: when ever a "friend" of mine contacts me it comes with a catch: "user, lets go drink some beers, oh and while we're at it, can you return this shit for me..". he's a teacher and when ever someone ask stuff that he knows he answers eagerly. when he corrects people he likes to make them feel stupid. when he doesn't know the answer to questions, then he just ignores you until you drop your question.
i would like to tell him what an asshole he is, but it would complicate things with other friends, who like him.
this way i never have time when he calls / miss calls...
Why tho?
Shit
Broke into my house. I shot him in the legs and called the cops. What an asshole...
Had a good friend for many years but then 1 day his gf's friend was a total bitch and started telling them lies about how i insult them behind their backs and shit. Then my friend got pissed and i had to explain that i didnt do any of that but ofc the gf was on the bitch's side so he ofc choose pussy over me. What a complete fucking loser....
Also lost another friend in that mess, he simply stopped talking to me without ever saying why, i still dont know to this day.
not op but tbh 2 is a really small sample size to make this conclusion
what op could do tho, is probably be more direct when he feels like a friend is neglecting him too much, can't expect things to change for the better when you're not communicating
>be 13
>start dating girl in my class
>start getting closer with her little sister, sometimes I hang out with her more than my gf
>break up at end of school year partially because of this, but stay friends
>next year, start dating younger sister
>older sister is pissed at first but gets over it
>we start to become very close friends again
>she helps me when I'm having problems with her sister, I help talk her through her own relationship problems/breakups
>this goes on until 2nd year of college
>me and younger sister still together
>I start planning to propose
>buy ring
>tell older sister, she encourages me to ask at her parents' place next time we meet up
>I go, ready to start the next phase of my life
>I wait for a quiet moment and do the down on my knee thing
>older sister interrupts
>tells everyone in her family that we've been fucking behind her little sister's back for years
>try to deny, doesn't work
>little sister/once-future fiance tells me to never speak to her again
>her brothers threaten to beat the shit out of me if they ever see me again
>everyone starts spreading rumors around my home town that I have a tiny dick (I don't, really) and have an incest/pedophilia fetish (I don't) and tried to get them to fuck each other in front of me
so that's how my first long term relationship ended and how I lost all of my highschool friend group. Feels bad even 10 years later.
I had/have a friend who would shit talk me to girls I would introduce him to. I would literally pass girls off to him with intentions of helping him get laid, but then he would both make me look bad and get them to avoid me. I still can't understand the reasoning for it -- as the point was to get him laid.
HOL uP
Is that
A mother fucking Jojo reference¿
Jonathan Joestar?!
Jesus that's painful.
I had a girlfriend who got with two of my close friends within two weeks. I guess that's all three of them screwing me over.
Also best friend started hooking up with my younger sister as soon as I left for uni.
Set my best friend up with my cousin. They date for 7 years before getting married and having 2 kids. Come to find out he has been cheating on her for 3 years and has another kid. I beat his ass twice but my cousin won't leave him and now it's awkward at family gatherings.
thousand storys, i could tell, but i hold them back for someone else ;^)
best tip i can give:if you "feel" that someones is betraying you, they probably are. dotn clinge to your retarded feelings, you can get addicted to people aswell as other stuff. sex, hugging, talking, you name it. a real friend will always defend you and not talk about you behind your back, or pull you into shitty situations. = means, no drugs, no excessive alcohol abuse, etc etc.
be careful who you chose to wander around with, try to learn up on bodylanguage, that gives away almost EVERYTHING. you can manipulate speech, but bodylanguage is a whole nother league.
Dude do NOT get on a boat on February 7th 1889 trust me man