Hey Yea Forums
? Who here is alone or has very few friend(s)?
How do you deal with it?
Day-to-day activities?
Struggles?
Age?
>>inb4 kys
Hey Yea Forums
? Who here is alone or has very few friend(s)?
How do you deal with it?
Day-to-day activities?
Struggles?
Age?
>>inb4 kys
>Yes
>Meh, I'm a college student, so many study. Or read. Go for walks hang out at the gym.
With out sounding compeltly autistic, I have a above average IQ, but I know my limits, so it's kinda hard finding meanful friendships. And I just moved to a new town 2 years ago.
>connecting with people is a deeply human need, so naturally desire to have meaningful relationships that are stimulating is a struggle.
>30
What are you studying in college and what profession do you want to be?
You're 30, so for how long have you been lonely?
I’m 23. Socializing is terrifying to me. Been going to therapy. Not really working. Posting online can help cope. Seek out advice forums and complain about your life. Even if you don’t put any advice into action it’s good to know someone cares enough to respond.
Same user, I have to much anxiety to make meaningful conversations,
Have you always been this way?
i used to be a friendless kissless virgin that got nervous at going into stores.
literally all i did to fix it was begin talking to people.
download chatting apps, go on omegle, join random discord servers, and most of all take little victories irl. say hello or good morning to one person every day, etc. make sure to practice seeming as friendly as possible. pay close attention to the conversations you have online, and learn what people like talking about and what they dont, how to read vibes, etc.
and, also, get the fuck off of Yea Forums. you drink in a lot of information subconsciously, even if you think you dont. so if all you see is a bunch of cucks complaining about having no friends, telling you you'll always be a virgin, etc, you will believe it too. and that's what you'll be.
It started in third grade when I changed schools. I know it sounds pathetic but I really think that the times I was embarrassed back then when trying to make friends at my new school triggered a lifelong pattern of social anxiety.
BTW going to bed now so no more replies from me. Good night.
Thanks for the advice user, I have tried to conversate in public and with people 1 on 1 but I still have difficulty, just have to keep at it
How long ago did things change for you?
G'night mate
It's unbelievable how much our childhood affects our future lives
only about a year ago. it was hard at first, of course, but it's an exponential thing. get the ball rolling and you'll pick up more and more confidence, learn more and more, etc.
literally it's all about taking the plunge.
Good to hear user! Keep at it
The first few tries are always the hardest
KEK
Booze, Vidya, music, go drinking with the few friends I have from time to time.
No, it doesn't get better.
Type of vidya
Looter shooters eg Warframe, Borderlands etc...
Try Gears, it's lots of fun, can get it for $5 on G2A
Thx, will check it out.
kek, my whole country is a joke
nah, what he did was based