I don’t know what to do

Seems like a classic case of getting too greedy, I did it and regret it to this day.

Had this amazing girlfriend probably a good 3 points higher than me but was really boring in bed.

Started noticing girls taking more interest with me (mainly because sluts like the idea of fucking a guy who is dating someone gives them a power trip over the other girl) on a whim fucked some fat bitch and broke up with her shortly after hoping to live the bachelor life.

Now I see her dating a doctor and traveling all over the world with him while i'm here on my 7th dry weekend in a row rubbing one out to her old nudes.

Don't be like me user, you have no clue how far you can fall.

this

I threw away the love of my life for similar reasons, 10 years later I still regret my decision

Most of our parents are annoyed with each other but still love each other

You’re probably right. But she’s the only one I’ve ever had sex with. And that’s fine, she’s beautiful. But it feels so tempting to try other women.

It’s also not just the pussy dude. Like, the arguing and miscommunication gets to me. Sometimes I think she has very slight autism which really pains me to say.

Its like I’ll say something and she interprets it completely differently almost everytime.

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I'm completely BLASTED out of my god damn fucking MIND MIND MIND MIND MIND MIND MIND MIND MIND MIND MIND MIND MIND MIND MIND MIND MIND MIND MIND MIND MIND

Talk to her about that my man, don’t be afraid to confront her about it. If you want things to truly work make the effort

Bros, it isn't worth it. Trust me. Whatever you may think. Please listen. I'll never get her back. You have the chance to keep her, I wish I was in your position again, but life doesnt work that way. Dont do it

Yeah I mean you can always cheat behind her back. I did that, but it has its own costs

OP stop being a faggot
listen to he is right
if you wanna explore sex then explore it with her
dont throw away a lifetime for a night

Married 7 years man I get the itch but ive fucked that up in past relationships. Just get real fucking freaky and try spice it up as best you can. Pussy is pussy.

Oh thank god. Well, it sounds like you should probably get really drunk and just chop everybody up with a big knife. I mean, that's the only logical solution to whatever it was that you posted\ that I didn't read.

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If I talked to her about that I feel like she would know for certain to break up with me. She has stated her suspicion that I might want to be free before. She said that all she wants is for me to be happy.

So if I told her that then it might make up her mind. But the thing is. I want both. And being 22 and coming to the realization that I could hook up with tons of different girls is inciting. My young sexual urges are winning the battle it seems.

Also, Staying with her wouldn’t be bad and I care for her a lot. But I can see myself loving somebody else as well.

Also op. I feel like exploring other women and learning to hookup and go on multiple dates helps you grow.

I’m 22 I guess I’m just worried if I’m making a mistake. Is only having one pussy for the rest of this life really worth it?

Regardless if pussy is pussy

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Well listen man, if you have concerns about asking the person you truly love rational questions about the way she talks to you and you have this fear she’ll leave then your just trapping yourself in a shit relationship. You have to talk to her about the way she treats you or you might just loose her over your annoyance.

>I also see myself regretting the fact that I didn't fuck other women after selling out the happiest life an user could imagine
ok OP is definetly a faggot
why haven't you talked to her about this? Obviously not as direct as with us, your closest soulmates, but you should tell her that you think she's too much of a brainlet to entertain an atheist like yourself. As a couple, you will be able to work it out, you two are stronger and better together than separate. And if not, then things going to hell is a good thing.

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My experience. I had 1 long term gf the sex was absolute filth. However I just grew bored of her and we argued a bit. So I broke it off with her. Was the right move. Only because I met my next gf very soon after with which is discovered what love was really like. Due to a whole cluster fuck of situations after 3 years the relationship turned toxic. She broke it off with me. I slept around a bit. This didn't make up for the fact I was 'heart broken'

I am now in a new relationship and it's going even better. We don't have our disagreements. We share them so they don't build up. It's making each other aware of certain ways we act and so we can move on and work on them. So disagreements can be good.

So choose your decision wisely. You may not get lucky like I did after the 1st breakup.

Maybe you could ask if the two of you could try an open relationship for a bit. I mean it seems logical enough for a trial seeing that both of you are your own first sexual partners. Just until you get it our of your system. But otherwise no stay with her you will regret leaving. Dont lose her.

My experience. I had 1 long term gf the sex was absolute filth. However I just grew bored of her and we argued a bit. So I broke it off with her. Was the right move. Only because I met my next gf very soon after with which is discovered what love was really like. Due to a whole cluster fuck of situations after 3 years the relationship turned toxic. She broke it off with me. I slept around a bit. This didn't make up for the fact I was 'heart broken'

I am now in a new relationship and it's going even better. We do have our disagreements. We share them so they don't build up. It's making each other aware of certain ways we act and so we can move on and work on them. So disagreements can be good.

So choose your decision wisely. You may not get lucky like I did after the 1st breakup.

no it doesn't help you grow, thats a bullshit "lifestyle" that's been marketed to you.

Dont be such a pussy and get some side. Even better, have your girl bring in a girl.

It depends on who you are. Is that your lifestyle to be a bachelor? By the sounds of it, that's not the case since you took eachothers virginity. I got out of a similar case and it was a nightmare financially, stuck with debts and shit she won't pay for, a suicide attempt by her. The difference is I used to fuck a lot of bitches and it's something I know is part of my lifestyle whereas what I'm trying to tell you is that you may not be successful picking up women and you'll find yourself alone. When you're in a relationship women display signals towards you that they don't around single men but don't get the messages twisted, they don't want to fuck you so don't leave your girlfriend because the signals stop.

Get used to fitting the stereotype of "the boyfriend". That's why people love you. Hey we need more beer, so-and-so's boyfriend is gonna go grab it for us! Yay so and sos boyfriend!

>you two are stronger and better together than separate

You aren’t wrong. I’ve helped her grow a tremendous amount. It’s almost like I’m her boyfriend and mentor. I love helping her.

I’m just nervous of the outcome of the conversation.

Also I don’t know what I am but it’s not an atheist kek.

You guys take sex too serious, it's really not worth shitting all over your life situation just to get your dick wet.

>She isn’t the smartest person and she has flaws like every human. Sometimes it’s really hard to talk with her. I don’t want to say she’s stupid but she doesn’t have much depth.
She is a woman, get some friends to talk deep shit with

>Idk user...I keep having thoughts of banging other women. This relationship is good, the family is good, the sex is good, but I’m in my 20s and I want to fuck.
That is no reason to sleep around, stop watching porn if you do.

>Do I really want to throw that away?
No you fucking dipshit

Being nervous about it is okay, you can tell her that also. It's of course a risk to mention it at all, but I'm sure that what you two have going is worth taking risks.

Happy for you user. We share our disagreements in my relationship too. I just feel like this one is too much however. That’s why I’m having trouble.

Stop being stupid.

Go someplace to be by yourself. Someplace you feel at ease and relaxed. Spend some time thete, just doin your thing.
Now here's the test; after a good long while, get ready to go back and see her. If uou feel dread, then end it. If you feel OK about it, or happy, then don't.

Alternitively, go to that relaxing soace and just think to yourself "does the good outweigh the bad?" Then decide for yourself.

No one can make this decision for you and no amount of "well in my experience" type of advice will help. You need to come tonwhatever conclusion yourself.

>Stop watching porn if you do

Honestly you might be right. I have so many nude pictures and watch porn regularly. Maybe it’s effecting my outlook and causing me to look at these other women with lust.

Honestly the temptation is so strong it hurts sometimes

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tbh. I had some thoughts like these long-long time ago. Now she's dead and I feel that she was the one and only love of my life. Now I'll be alone for the rest of my life.
If you feel, that she's the true one, be faithful. If you don't feel that, than move on.

Honestly appreciate all the good advice.

Also this seems to be a get thread.

This might be the winner right here.

Hey OP, just chill out. Dont worry so much. Just wait and see what happens. Watch and see how you react see how you behave. No use worrying about it. Just wait and see.

My anxiety/ADHD is real so chilling out is definitely something that is needed but not easily obtainable.

I feel like most my personal issues stem from me not being able to calm down and chill out.

Get some bitches on the side and fuck with condoms. Leave no marks. Experience other women while keeping the other one going.

So the conclusion here is I’m going to stop watching porn for awhile. Talk to her more about how I feel and then just give it some time.

I could easily make a mistake and regret everything otherwise.

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I don't know how old you are but porn can make some younger people think the sex they have is boring because they don't do anal.

I mentioned the filthy first relationship. We did everything. Double fisting, golden shower, tied up, her being my slave, Having groups on men cum all over her. Dogging with men and women. Open relationship as well so I could fuck who I wanted. The filthy sex did not prevent me of getting bored of her. As a person.

Someone mentioned having your own time. That's really fucking important DO NOT spend every waking moment together. Keep in contact with friends and chill out.

good plan bud. Wish you and your lady the best.

What the FUCK user are you me? Everything you have written is very similar to what I'm going through. Even when you say that she has no depth. I truly feel this and I honestly feel if I leave her it will still hurt a fuckton even though I grow more distant from her

read responses in this thread if you feel the same way.

I just have and some of the responses are completely autistic and others make alot of sense. It really is crazy how much I can relate to OP and the insight of this thread is giving me ideas on how to change the way I'm feeling.

Op I'm literally you and you're literally me wtf, very confusing times we're living in

Glad I’m not alone.

Stay strong. She loves you with her heart. Chances are that other women won't do. One night isn't worth a lifetime, as another user has very well said. Porn is frying our brains. TV is killing our minds. Modern art and music rape our eyes and ears. And sugar makes our bodies scream. What else is new? Discipline is virtue.

I'm glad I'm not either and just yesterday I was debating whether or not to cut the relationship, but in the back of my mind I know that no other woman would love me as much as she does.

Fuck all these niggers saying don't throw everything away. If you are unhappy with your relationship or feel that it's not right for you? man up and do something about it. Either talk to her about how you feel, and if that results in a breakup, so be it. If she's not a perfect match for you, there's probably someone out there better. If you don't like her lack of depth or incompatible communication skills, get yourself a hot black nerdy girl who can talk for hours on some really deep, introspective topics...who also lets you butt fuck her on the weekends. It's the best man, trust me. I would say don't throw it away if she was a good match, but it doesn't sound like she is, bro. if your relationship is trash, THROW IT AWAY, and fucking hell, don't let outside opinions ever influence your relationship. None of this has anything to do with anyone but you two,.

She does love me and I help her out so much. I care for her and her family. It sucks that a girl who cherishes me so much had to put up with my lustful bullshit.

The last thing I want on this earth is to hurt her. I don’t want to be the person that breaks her heart into pieces.

>lustful bullshit.
You are on your way to do the right thing.

Based

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Just fuck other women, make sure she never finds out.

>a hot black nerdy girl who can talk for hours on some really deep, introspective topics...who also lets you butt fuck her on the weekends.

that is my dream.

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OP, i am in your situation, except it's not 2 but 7 years in to the relationship.
Also i can't break up, because her life depends on mine. She has nobody but me. No job, no home, no family, which is my fault.

You have 3 options:
1.) Be faithful and focus on what you have. Are a few new sexual experiences really worth fucking up your life?
2.) Break up, fuck around, be depressive after you realize that in fact, it wasn't worth it. Medicate with drugs, booze and sex.
3.) Cheat on her, that's what i am doing. This will result in new sexual experiences, with the nice bonus of feeling the guilt of being an unfaithful piece of shit, constant paranoia and eventually the moment everything comes out. Medicate with drugs, booze and sex.