Femanon here, just got my heart broken for the first time, how to get over it asap? No drugs...

Femanon here, just got my heart broken for the first time, how to get over it asap? No drugs, also really not in a mood for posting timestamp...

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try posting a timestamped taint
Or accusing your ex of cheating on your and sharing his dick with minors.

Haha, wouldn't do that, I just feel empty and disappointed

Only time will heal you.

Take control.
Stop being a giant faggot.
Do something fun till you cheer the fuck up.
Now show me your taint.

It's really just the same as smaller emotional crises, but more intense.

So, just like what you'd do if you got a bad test result, or failed a sport event or got rejected or something.

You need to:
-Find distractions so you can take breaks between mourning
-Spend time with family to remind yourself people still love and care about you
and
-Allow yourself to be sad, angry, etc. Let the emotions out.
-And pamper yourself. This is an icky time, so it's a good time to spoil yourself a little.

What do you usually do when you need to emotionally recharge? Many draw, some like to listen to music. Some even like to read.

You can also try meditation.

Outside I keep my emotions under control, I don't show them, it's not like I'm irl acting like a whining fag, but I can do it here.
yeah I guess that's the only option

you know the rules. i've had many of my gfs leave me and i'm a master of getting over things. but you have to follow the rules to unlock my help

why did you need to tell us you're a femanon?
either attention whore or genuinely stupid

regardless, post tits+timestamp

It depends on how it has ended. But don't be in a hurry, sometimes being alone for a bit is way better than a shitty relationship. Try to care about your own things for a while, you'll get a bit better day by day. Advice first, now would you be so kind and show us your titties?

it's not outside, it's inside. take control of your emotions inside. You're self aware are you not? If you're aware you are sad, do happy things, if you feel you're going to make things worse, fucking don't.
People act like they have no ability to control their emotions.
Bull, they do, but it takes will power and actually being smart about things rather than just trying to flick them and off like a switch.

Music helps me a lot, will try. But I have kinda busy month right now, don't know if I'm gonna find time for book or other hobbies

have a meaningless summer fling, it'll help a lot. if you're alone during the whole summer, you'll just become depressed.

Ehm. It's not about finishing the book. It's about doing tasks that either allows your thoughts to wander and go through what's troubling you, or that helps you emotionally recharge and ground yourself.

You don't have to spend a LOT of time on it, but generally, if you're in emotional turmoil, spending 1 hour reading can save 3 hours of lying in bed and being unable to fall asleep.

Oh.
OH
That's actually something I would say. And you are right. For all these years I keep my shit together and have emotions under control, why should this be any different.
Thank you, I just realized I'm overreacting and really acting like a whiny fag... Wow I just needed to hear that u guess

just don't be stupid about stuff and you'll get through it.

now show me your taint for fun.

don't repress stuff, just don't be stupid about it

and by don't be stupid i mean don't make things worse. Don't take on responsibility that isn't yours. Don't bother with blame. And make sure to look after yourself.

Also show me your taint cause seriously. bored af.

The way I got over my gf when I broke up with her was to delete EVERYTHING you cant have a single TRACE of them around. It will just make it worse. from there..... Just listen to Neck Deep and try to forget.

You'll truly never get over it. Remember a relationship takes two normally. Work on mistakes you've made. Forgive but don't forget. Never let someone have control over your power.

Yeah, people come and go, I have my own life and thankfully he was in my life for only like half a year. It just surprised me how he - who was telling me how he could never lie to me - actually lied. Haha and I thought I finally found someone really nice

Hahaha yeah, gotta delete as much as I can, and I love neck deep so that wouldn't be a problem

Tits or GTFO

Expecting people not to lie is an unrealistic expectation. It sucks that is how it works, but it's not your fault for hoping for more. Just don't dwell on it.

Now time for the taint

It was just naive from me to think that but at least it was an important experience. I'm actually 21, I have plenty of time, just felt pretty down after that tbh

Everything is an experience.

good, now that you've cheered up, it's that time

Oh god no