Alright Yea Forums here's the scenario.
>be at bar
>notice 8/10 bartender
>she looks bored
>devise a strategy to make her talk to you
>want her to talk to you more than anyone else at bar
What strat do you come up with? My best method is to keep her talking about herself cuz girls love that, right?
Any better ideas?
Leave her alone....she's working.
Want her attention? Order lots of drinks and tip generously.
this,
OP youre literally the 1036829th person try this bullshit, shes not into you
order 5 shots, down em and leave...
Sorry, I only date black Christian girls.
Just talk. It might start out awkward as hell but eventually you'll come across some common ground and have a good time. Don't focus on trying to get laid just be a good dude.
I'm not trying to get laid. She's a new bartender and I want the other guys at the bar to be jealous.
I always tip at least 40%.
simp
This is good advice user.
I won't take advice from a nigger fucker.
Tipping large works good, but that only benefits me the next time I stop in. How do I steal her attention from others right now?
Yeah, just be a good customer. She's at work. She wants nothing to do with you while at work.
Don't be a dick, tip her well, be polite.
She'll notice that. If she talks to you, just engage with her about whatever she's talking about.
That's a quick way to be the annoying weirdo at the bar
Spill your drink and complain about the refill. Then throw up on the bar and splash that shit with your hands
Well with the other bartenders here, they know I'm polite and that I tip well, and offer good convo (on occasion) but that all takes time to build up. How do I hook this new girl tonight, before she gets to know me.
I'm willing to try anything. What result will I get from this?
I'm confident I can vomit on command.
In regards to tipping.
Walk in and tell her you just want a quick beer.
Pay with a 20 and tell her to keep the change.
Drink slowly. When you're finished tell her you changed your mind and open a tab. You've already established that you are a generous tipper and also given a little sense of mystery as to what your plans were and why you changed your mind. She'll try to pry it out of you. Make her work for it.
You don't.
You build it over time like you just described.
I worked as a bartender for a bit, with two ladies. Trust me, just do what you've been doing, and she'll talk about you to her co-workers.
Not bad advice. Requires conference and relative aloofness to pull off though
if it is not busy, buy one drink pay for it and put a $20 on the bar.
tell her that it is either for more drinks or for her tip if she keeps you chatting. it's her choice.
if she pours you more drinks, leave her the $20 when you walk out.
I am filled with confidence and determination by both of your answers.
I thank you both.
If you get a date/smash in the future, update us
If a girl just talks about herself you leave no impression. You walk away being uninteresting.
But now we move on to a female barmaid, server, waitress etc. They want a tip. The best way to get a tip is to smooze up to the idiot who's willing to give them money.
be the annoying weirdo at the bar that tips well and is kind. at the very least you'll be something for her to talk about with her friends good or bad, rather than just another dull night where she gets hit on 20 times.
That's a good point. So what would be your method of grabbing their attention?
Also don't just be a one time patron. Time breeds familiarity.
Found the annoying weirdo at the bar.
Imagine being at work, and this stranger won't shut their awkward fucking mouth, or leave you alone for your entire shift. Even if he tips well, you don't want to be around him. But you can't leave, because you're at work.
Tell her Alex is on fire changed your life forever.
Get her interested in you? Do you do anything interesting? Hobbys? Activities? Studies?
Ask her. Acknowledge her answer. Offer your answer to same question.
Simple example:
"do you have any Hobbys?"
*response*
"oh that's cool, I like to *insert interesting hobby*"
Note if you are passionate about something, anything can be interesting.
This
well if that's how you feel about it, then you're a shit bartender and my money would be better spent elsewhere. a good bartender can make conversation with anyone. especially in smaller bars, so getting pissed off and not doing that is a good way to loose business.
Wow Karyn, do you want to speak to her manager?
Okay bye.
I still get paid.
And I never come back and find a bar with better service that gets repeat business it's a win-win. Ain't the free market great?
Nose pierce and hair frost: slut.
Nothing clever needed except this. Don't order any alcohol until she let's it slip that she drinks too. I know how it sounds, but some of them think they have this code where they see themselves as similar to drug dealers, selling but not using. It's fucked. Beyond that, just look good. And, no. Don't over tip. Buy the expensive booze, but don't give her the money. Make her come to you.
>TIPS!
>(dumbass)
8/10? Beauty truly is subjective.
There a couple of good tips in this thread, but the best is: leave her alone, she's working. If she opens up a conversation with you after you've ordered that's different game.
Yup.
Because I still have a job, and I don't have to deal with you.
Life's Grand.
Ok well what if she gave me a free beer? I tipped enough to compensate for the free beer. Was that a cuck tier move?
No, but sitting at a bar with a phone in front of your nose browsing and posting on Yea Forums is.
What the fuck are you doing my dude?