Be me

no dude, trust me. the chance that this is that 1 in a million romance is almost none. and if she's already dropping the "maybe we shouldn't be together", then she's looking for a way out.

you'll be much better off

if we don't stay together that fucks up the whole plan of moving and continuing my education :"(

if you're not a dummy, you'll come up with a new plan. im not trolling, trying to be mean for no reason. I'm speaking from a lot of experience. it works out

so... she's thicc and has self-esteem issues. no surprise here. this isn't necessarily a bad thing. make her too comfortable and she won't have any incentive to improve herself. I would not change anything - in other words, keep looking at other girls when you beat off. everytime she mentions that you look at other women, tell her you love HER and you want to look at HER instead...

now, when you are out together and a sexy girl passes by, get up close to your girlfriend, hug kiss and ask her if she likes how that other girl looks then and ask her if she is going to look like that for you one day? include her on your admiration of other girls. always keep it light and romantic, and get her to commit to work towards it, then encourage her to eat better go to the gym etc. reward her when you see her making progress, positive reinforcement works when done properly.

one day you'll wake up next to the girl of your dreams, with that sexy body you always wanted, your dick will be rock hard just from the sight of her... she will love you from the bottom of your heart for staying with her and making her a better woman, and you'll have no worries about her ever leaving you...

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I hope this is a troll because this is actually fucking retarded

lul

You’re a retard he’s spot on

I can firsthand understand some of this from her viewpoint.
I'm definitely on the thicker side and my boyfriend who I feel is way out of my league only looks at very skinny girl porn. He invited me to his discord server once and I happened on the nsfw channel, so I saw a lot of what he reposted there. It definitely kind of made me feel insecure... but he shows he cares about me and really likes me in so many other ways that I try to not let it get to me.
Try that. If you really wanna see it work out with you and this girl, then try different ways to show you appreciate her. After you do something together, after she plays some game with you, after she tells you about her day, anything.
If the issue is that she feels really insecure, making sure she knows that you care about her deeply and that you really are attracted to her might help, even if it means kind of going more overboard than you normally would with the compliments.

i appreciate the input :) thanks

Supporting your gf in her personal goals to lose weight or become a better person is WAY different than forcing her towards something because she feels lesser than these other women. Making her feel like you're forced to jerk it to other women cuz she's just not hot enough right now. Ugh.

no u r

"bought the 9 dvd PUA box set"-- the post

Personally, I know I can lose weight by meal prepping, I just need to get back on it after working again so I can actually buy my own food. I talked to my boyfriend and I told him that maybe when I start meal prepping again, if he wants to start eating better too, I could help him. He doesn't eat very well lol, even though he's not fat. I think that starting that conversation helped me in a way cuz I know that when I do start meal prepping, he wants to help support me by joining me.
It might be a touchy subject to bring up with her at all but going about it honestly and saying something like, "I am super attracted to you, as you are. if you want to lose weight or eat better, I wanna help you because I wanna support what you do." might help. not word-for-word that but you know what I mean?

Tell that to my long term girlfriend, who I left for a thinner girl two years ago and has now kept up a strict diet/exercise regime to stay a perfect bmi to get me back (she succeeded). You get them wrapped from the start dude, they’re women, they’re closer to dogs than to man.

boy howdy, you sure do get women, don't you?

I haven’t been single in ten years, across six girlfriends, three mistresses, and occasionally dated two at once in different cities. I stuck to the same harem, pick up culture isn’t my style I’m more of an emotional leech.

I get that’s pretty monstrous, I’m trying to go monogamous with this girl because she’s wants me to start managing her money and pumping her full of kids.

As Mr Mangione would say, it feels so good.

>cant imagine my life without her
Tell her that. Make a good effort to make her feel special if you want to keep her