How do you convince someone to have sex with you?

Protip: Dont
Step 1: find a girl at a bar or club- a place girls would obviously be looking for a hookup.
Step 2: Learn to take a hint- font pursue anyone who doesn't like you from the start. You cant convince them.
Step 3: be friendly and flirty, dont be pushy. If they reciprocate, go with the flow. Dont push it. Have fun.
Step 4: invite them back to your place at the end of the night. Dont be pushy. If they say yes, great. If not, try again another time & place & girl.

What if she doesn't do it and instead presses charges?

How do you even manage to talk to people at bars or clubs? They're usually so loud. If you can't attract them by looks alone, I don't know how bars or clubs would work.

How would she press charges if you didn't do anything to her?

No chloroform?

Asking someone to undo her blouse button could easily be construed as sexual harassment if she's not interested.

You don't. You make them want to and the proceed to try and convince you to have sex with them. I got laid a lot in my early teens, and it was mostly because I was so bad and reading girls' signals they'd obsess over getting attention from me. You have to first either have qualities that girl wants or otherwise be charming, but you'd be surprised how not treating an attractive woman as being attractive or sexually interesting will get their attention.

good question. I'm trying to think of a way to get my niece.

Making someone want to sounds awfully similar to convincing. So how do you do that?
I wouldn't even try with an attractive woman, since I know she has many better options. And treating an unattractive woman like she's unattractive doesn't sound like a very good approach.

>Take away my daughter's Trust Fund.

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Step 1) be attractive

Step 2) talk for a bit or maybe skip this step for a couple lines

Step 3) initiate sexual cues

Step 4) profit as u let nature do it’s work

Be attractive and straightforward

imagine you're selling a car.

Everyone has a car, everyone has a car they'd like to upgrade to, and the people without a car need to solve their car problem yesterday.

Sweet. So, why should they want your car?

Now let's drop the metaphor -
You need to realize they need you as much as you need them, so the power dynamic isn't as bad as you think.

You need to have them convince you that you should spend your money on them. What makes them special.

Second, you should get your car ready for sale. Clean it up. Get it in shape. Run it around the track a few times so it's not sloppy. Make it a car you'd be proud to drive.

Also, get your job sorted out.

If you have cash, look good, and present yourself halfway decently you're up on like 80% of the guys out there. If you top it off with taking some dance classes or some bonus BS that will give her shit to brag to her girlfriends about you're in.

The chicks will be throwing themselves at you. At that point you get to pick one.

The tl;dr is become the chad you hate. It takes work, but what kind of woman wants a boy who can't get his shit together. Not one you'd want to date, that's who.

Be drunk and aesthetic and just converse enough to develop familarity. Then make a move. Helps if she's been at all breaching the physical contact barrier

Let's assume I've made it past the first two steps (big assumption, but we can't resolve everything in one post). What are these sexual cues of which you speak? How do you initiate them?

>Let's assume I've made it past the first two steps (big assumption, but we can't resolve everything in one post). What are these sexual cues of which you speak? How do you initiate them?

read 'the game' , then use that to make a reading list of all the materials he references. that will teach you how to start a conversation, what questions to ask/not ask and how to escalated it without creeping her out.

it'll take work, but hell, your nights are free so you've got the time.

You can say you want to see how she looks with one more undone. If she says no then abort and try a different girl

adequate cash flow

>Tell them that size doesn't matter and take the cash.

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a gun op

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This is a pretty good metaphor. I've gone 33 years without a car, so I need to get one pronto...
Job is one area where I'm doing pretty well, but I'm also not really into expensive things. I don't know how to use my money to my advantage without just buying a bunch of useless bling that I don't want.

Do women actually initiate anything at the physical level? I thought men had to do all that. I don't know that being drunk would help thought. I'm drunk right now, and I'm sure as fuck not getting laid tonight.

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Wow.

DAMN nice quints, just show a chick that

So interesting to see my advice from yesterday quoted to someone.

sex is disgusting if you think about it

I looked into the PUA stuff a fair bit about a decade ago. I read a bit of 'the game', as well as pick up books by various other people. Is that book the one that stands out from all the PUAs writing about their secret techniques that work great as long as you're attractive?

I've got a six figure salary and net worth over half a million. How much more do I need?

Different approaches work with different women. With some you need to be dominant. With others (fewer of this type) they want to be in control. Some want to be "in love." Others to keep; their distance. The key is to find a woman who is receptive to your natural inclinations and style. You can only find out by engaging. Just ask keep asking her about herself and see how she responds.

Damn, I'll have to admit, that is one sexy post number. Sometimes I impress myself.

the girl has to be attracted to you dumbass.

Just like our fathers and our fathers fathers did... alcohol. Ask her out to a club and ply her with booze all night. If she won't go out for a drink with you, she probably wouldn't fuck you anyway.

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Getting laid three times a year would be infinitely more sex than I'm currently getting...

Be attractive to them
Have money
Have power

Get a job and lift weights. You can barely overcome your attractiveness limitations.

Then it's charisma to get through the door, laced with humor, report, and social engineering

How so? It's just natural. Bodies do a lot of weird things, and some of them happen to feel good.

How do you tell if she's receptive? For all I know, there have been women in my life that might have been open to the possibility of sex, but I'm too terrible at reading signals to notice.

>posting the same shit for ten years
Good job

What do people do at "club"s? Is it just dancing, or do you do other things. I'm a terrible dancer, so I avoid it where possible.

it is disgusting because it smells and you replied

Try many thing with many women. Over time you will know.

That's plenty, dial back the autism champ. I don't even make 100 a year and get my pick of the litter. And im No Chad. If you have a decent job, a place, and aren't autistic getting a woman isnt hard. You guysbuild the pussy up on the pedastool way too much and that shit makes vaginas slam shut. Just be cool, cast a large net, and be patient. And YOU will get a woman.

Nice Quints user!
>Do women actually initiate anything at the physical level?
Absolutely. Almost every weeknd I get an offer to go home with someone. I find the best approach is to just be confident but don't show much interest. At my age most girls are done with fuck boys and want something more substantial. If you are hitting on them strong they are likely thinking you hit on all women. I'm very average in every way but I can tell you that girls fuck me because they 1. Feel safe around me. 2. Find my confidence (lack of desperation) attractive and 3. See me as someone they could be with long term. Not that I'm looking for long term, but who's gonna tell them that :)

How many thing must you try with how many women? I'm over a decade late to the game, so I don't have as much time to fuck up as most people do.

Go on tinder and lower your standards.

Bring down a large mammal and feed you, her, and trade surplus meat for social capital with your peers

The correct answer is 'as many as it takes'. Im sorry but a lot of you in this thread have a disturbingly low amount of confidence. Literally anyonecan get laid... If...you... Just... Try........

Married 11 years. We still easily have sex 3 times a week. Could do more if we want (and sometimes do). Sex feels amazing, maybe better than anything else. If your partner isn't enjoying it then I could see why they wouldn't want to do it. My wife cums 100% of the time and loves sex. Maybe you need to take care of her more.

This guy gets it

I've never been diagnosed with autism, but I've never been specifically tested for it either. People here seem to default to autism as the reason for all failures. I don't really know if I come across as autistic to women, or how to find out.

Have you tried making her cum. You know so it's not a chore, and she actually enjoys it. Why would you stay with a woman that doesnt have regular sex with you. Because, you know she is having sex, well you can guess the rest.

>if she does it tell her "good job"
Have you ever talked to a real woman? If I told my girlfriend "good job" for taking down a button she'd laugh at me and ask if I thought she was a dog or something. I'd probably be ribbed for days lol. Good job lmao.

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ask your sister nicely

In my field, there are many men that have good salaries and are social virgin stumps... You gotta get out there man, expect to fail, adapt, and try again. Its a game of numbers.

not the same guy but. did you try asking a hooker? because he might be asking hookers

I have no idea how to be confident when it comes to women. I've gone my entire life without a single success. Not even a date or a kiss. It seems like a real chicken and egg problem. I don't think I'm a good enough actor to pretend to be confident.

god my cat is always bugging me when i am fapping too

have you tried paying for sex?

Alcohol

What makes you think I have standards? I've been rejected by plenty of fatties because I have no idea what I'm doing.

Prove to them your value as a mate and worth as a human.

GG ez

TAke them out, pretend to be interested in them. Make them think you're opening up about some trauma (make it up) from the past. Gain trust. Fuck. Block Number. Repeat.

Yeah clubs are mostly for dancing. They are usually where the younger sluts hang out. If you want someone totally superficial then a club is best. You better be good looking and/or have money though. Most girls there are looking to pick up, but there is going to typically be better competition. Better quality men than say at a bar.

Bars are good for older (late 20's and up) but not everyone at a bar is looking to hook up, but the competition will be lesser.

And most cities have cougar bars where you can almost walk in and pick any (much older) woman you want. Warning, many are married and you might have to fight a husband in the morning.

$$$

Beg them and cry.

How do you know how far to try? I'm terrified of trying to hit on someone who isn't receptive, who then ruins my life by telling everyone what a creep I was for trying.
She's married, and I don't think she'd be interested.
If I tried asking a hooker, with my luck she'd probably say "no thanks", because she has better clients waiting.

You've got to stop caring about getting them. They know when you don't care and it can drive them nuts. Don't be dismissive or an asshole, just don't be desperate. You've gone this long without a win, what's another day really? That's the mentality you need.

Most guys will tell you that they seem to get all kinds of offers when they are already dating someone. It's because they aren't actively trying to find someone. They aren't desperate.

At bars I often find impenetrable groups and don't know how to engage with them, so I sit there isolated.
In clubs I don't know how to dance - do I take a course for club dancing or do I make a fool of myself the first 10 times?

wym convince
either we fuckin or im fuckin

What would someone need to do to convince you to have sex with them OP?

Methods ranked in proven scientific order:

1) Be extremely attractive
2) Be famous and/or hold widely recognized power
3) Be excessive wealthy

[….]

684) Have a nice personality
685) Have cancer and plead that you don't want to die a virgin

No, but I've considered it many times. Every time I come to the conclusion that I probably wouldn't even enjoy it. I want to have sex, but the important part is finding someone who actually wants to have sex with me.
Doesn't that make any subsequent sex count as rape?
Wow, that sounds as trivial as establishing a Mars colony, or world peace, or faster than light travel. Piece of cake.

Bro, dont creep on them. Just make conversation, grab a coffee? She says no thanks, or maybe later, then back off. Just casually give her the option if she isn't, exit stage right, and onto try with the next one.

Ok bro.... If you really think a hooker is too good for you, I can't help you. Im done. I just can't. Jesus dude.

So much this

i went to art school and ruined my life with debt and no way to pay it off but this works for me in a pinch, hello mam can i please ask where you got the top for your outfit? with a brief pause then i explain sorry i thought this top would look wonderful with the bottom i picked out for the model i am painting later for a study/workshop/general practice since you can never draw enough naked people or clothed. now this technique is not a one shoe fits all deal, you have to find your own interests and how to involve them into your own ice breakers. show interest in the person and you may find someone you like, tho if you are looking for a one night stand then use the golden complement and say "has anyone ever told you that you have perfect eyebrows?" they will laugh and think its weird at first and they might walk away then whatever its the same as if they were denying you or worse then play along with you for free drinks nah fuck that, eyebrows are on the face so its something that they know people are looking at, eyebrows are also something that is usually unique to person to person in a natural form and then crafted to their own likings, im rambling and have to sleep now, just find a setting and a time you feel is right and dont try to be too different from your usual self but show interest in the person you are talking to and show interest in what you are talking to them in conversation with sorry english is not my first language

Besides prostitution being illegal in most parts of the US at least I would also want to kiss and/or lick a woman both of which would be entirely irresponsible with a hooker.

How do you get them to go out with you? I've never even been on a date.
That's why I haven't really tried clubs much. I feel out of my element there. Everyone is more attractive and comfortable than I am.
See Has this worked for you? I'm not above trying for pity sex, but it seems unlikely to work.

You watch too much porn .

Man I wouldn't normally suggest this, but consider getting an escort. Spend some money buy a good one. Be honest and tell them what's up and they will make it special. Many will talk to you afterwards and it's not weird or creepy or whatever. Seriously though, once you've had sex it won't be a "block" anymore. It is way less important than it seems. You need to find that out. Wear a condom and spend some money. I wouldn't pay less than $500 and hour. You always get what you pay for.

I am desperate though. I'll be 40 before I know it, and most likely still without ever experiencing the most basic human act. I feel like I'm fairly good at hiding it though. Anyone who knows me fairly well thinks I'm asexual.
In fact, I have a hard time presenting myself as a potentially sexual being, let alone someone who craves sex constantly.
Be a human female and ask me to have sex.

Hmmm, those first couple hundred look pretty tough. The cancer option might be my best bet. I guess I could always pick up smoking.
I don't think a hooker is "too good" for me. Mostly I can't imagine enjoying it with a hooker. I'd just be thinking about how she isn't actually interested in me in the slightest, and is just counting down the minutes until she can leave.

>Once upon a time and a very good time it was there was a moocow coming down along the road and this moocow that was coming down along the road met a nicens little boy named baby tuckoo
Keep practicing that stream of consciousness, no punctuation style, and you too can be a famous author one day. Especially with the art background.

Here in the US, I'd get several years in federal pound me in the ass prison. I might just have to plan a vacation to some sane country where they don't imprison consenting adults for having sex in exchange for money. I know it would all be fake, but maybe if she's a good enough actress I'd be able to suspend my disbelief.

Pay for a good one. And look at it as a mutually beneficial relationship. Do you think the hairdresser WANTS to cut your hair or the waitress WANTS to serve you food? Do you still go out for food and get a haircut? Think of it as a service provided. Most of the good ones will treat you well and not clock watch.

That's pretty fucking rare, but I see your point.

Have you considered FetLife or tinder?

kill her husband with a rock?

Shit in their mouth

See pic.

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Leave Yea Forums at least for 1 year

Girls wants to get sex safely with a decent to very attractive healthy normal M A N.

Your mental health is extremely important.

Pornography destroy your mental health ( a gift from judens)

When your heart become pure like a child, your empathy grow and your mental health recover you won't need money, tricks, advices etc... Girls will love your true self they want pleasure but also want someone to trust.

Also you will care less about sex and more about their well-being and that will make you look way more attractive.

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I don't know, maybe I just have this old fashioned ideal in my head that sex should actually mean something, in the context of a relationship. It seems like something on a different plane than having food delivered. Ideally there are emotions involved, and both people are into each other.
I used to not worry too much about doing illegal things that I probably wouldn't get caught for. Then I got caught once, and it fucked up a few years of my life. I'm not risking that shit again. As stupid as it is, the law is the law.

No fap just means I'd wake up periodically with soiled underwear. How exactly does that help?
But the whole premise doesn't make sense. Assuming I no longer care about sex, I won't care about sex, so if I get sex it won't even matter.

Could someone comment on these two problems? How to get in contact with people at bars when there are clear groups and how to learn normal behavior at a club, esp. w.r.t. dancing.

be good looking and not retarded

GHB you raging fucktard!

Try it is FREE

The less you care about sex the more you will care to grow the more girls will notice your grow and lack of your desperation and the more they will try to hook up with you.

How good looking are we talking? There are tons of average looking guys who get laid. I don't think I'm retarded, but who am I to judge?
I don't even know what that acronym means.

I'd imagine that going longer without fapping would just make me want sex even more, and make me even more desperate. Fapping the only way I know to stay sane in the absence of sex.

>the law is the law

That's the kinda talk that dries up pussies quick.

Bro you are so wrong in your conclusion I don't know where to start.

Girls literally proposed marriage to me when I used to be an edgelord wizard lost over 100 pounds started my own business everything changed allow time to health man.

Try it and thank me later.

I'm sure I'd be much more attractive in prison. I'd probably even have sex, with Bubba. Somehow that doesn't sound so great.
What does that have to do with not fapping? I also started a business in my 20s, and used to be in pretty good shape. Still not a single woman was interested in me.

nah man, bring her a live small animal. bitches love bitches so I got that bitch a dog

Avoid pornography and masturbation the more days you manage to abstain the easier you will be able to "Convince" an attractive female to have sex with you.

It will be natural and more fulfilling.

You don't have to learn absolutely anything and best of all they will love your true self.

If you abstain for over 365 days your fucking entire life will change you will health and believe it or not GIRLS will chase YOU not the other way around that's why in the past girls were the ones looking for marriage because men weren't wanking faggots at least not as often like the present.

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Most of my approaches play out like this

>shes either really not interested and you can see that by her tone and body language. I just walk away because I know with my autism and lack of game, she will never hook up with me

>she friendly and starts talking to you in a nice and interesting tone (you can tell shes a bit into you but its going to take effort to hook up). Ive never hooked up with a girl like this because I lack game and our conversations are pretty normie and boring. She either gets bored and her friends carry her away or I get her snapchat or something.

>girls that make a lot of eye contact and seems interested in you specifically before you even approach them. This is of course the hardest one because you have to be attractive to her but this case is smooth sailing and its on what I rely on the most to get laid. Just approach her, compliment and make little rauchy jokes, then ask her to dance, grind on her and get her hot, then try to get her away from her friends (friends will cuck you and prevent her from going home with you) and ask her to come home with you. obviously by the point you ask her to come home you should be able to notice her energy (whether she will accept or take a bit of convincing). Either way with this third type of girl I fail to bring them home because 1.I take to long in going for the kill and she leaves 2.her friends cockblock me

tell me where I am wrong

Spend time with them

Ask them out

Take them back to your house

Ease them into it, "It's just a little kiss", "It's just a little touch"

Sex

Regret

The friend-zoned strategy.

Pathetic.

quints gets you cunts

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