Why the fuck my dick can get totally erect when I'm about to have sex? it already happened 4 times IN A ROLL

why the fuck my dick can get totally erect when I'm about to have sex? it already happened 4 times IN A ROLL.
when I'm about to jerkoff my dick says "all right let's do it mate" but when I'm about to have sex he just says "maybe next time mate?"

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Totally different situation to what your dick and your mind are accustomed to.

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Are you taking any meds?

When i was on Sertralin my dick became a noodle everytime i tried to fuck, and i still have a super hard time (get it) to come during sex, i always fap the last bit and ask the chick to swallow.

Most likely psychological

I don't take any med, at all

Stop watching porn. If you need help get your doc to give you cialis or viagra (cialis is better), you'll rebuild the association of sex and arousal.
Also, try not to worry about it, take it slow with the foreplay and it'll give you time to want it, your brain is too used to the instant gratification of porn so you've fucked the association of sex and arousal.

This happens to me with pretty much any new chick. The step to getting to intimacy with someone new is difficult. I don't have a solution. Basically if they are super fucking hot, I start to super beta. It is psychological. I do take beta blockers these days and it tends to help. Try that.

I'll try that user.

youre probably just uncomfortable, maybe wait until youre comfortable with the person to fuck

I can relate to OP. Totally not porn. He is worried about performance. He is thinking more about performance than actually doing the act. With me I start focusing on all kinds of stuff other than the sex. You can't get hard when you aren't thinking about the sexual parts and more about self awareness and intimacy. Connecting parts of your past to your current situation. Your mind starts spinning off in the wrong direction. If the other person is cool about it though, it will eventually work out.

It's psychological and it will pass with more experience. Are you insecure about your body/dicksize or generally shy? And when you get started with a girl you become self aware? That's the biggest cock block there is and you just have to push through it somehow for the first couple of times. A good strategy is to put your mind into a scenario that REALLY turns you on. For example: are you into incest porn? Fantasize the girl in front of you is your cousin/sister. No idea what your exact fetishes are, only you know, just put your mind in a state that makes you horny as hell. After a couple of times this trick won't be necessary anymore since you have routine and the self-awareness goes away.

Source: myself. First fuck at age 26, and I was super insecure because of that since I knew the girl (24) had plenty of experience and I had none. This trick helped my through the first few times and after that I never had any problems anymore, even with other girls.

It can be porn though. If it is with someone you are comfortable with, then it is the porn. Lay off for 3 days, you will find porn will kill your libido, which seems obvious, but sometimes you can be dumb and think it is something else other than you just masturbating 5 times as the cause. lol.

why the fuck my dick can get totally erect when I'm about to have sex? it already happened 4 times IN A ROLL. when I'm about to jerkoff my dick says "all right let's do it mate" but when I'm about to have sex he just says "maybe next time mate?"

why the fuck my dick can get totally erect when I'm about to have sex? it already happened 4 times IN A ROLL. when I'm about to jerkoff my dick says "all right let's do it mate" but when I'm about to have sex he just says "maybe next time mate?

why the fuck my dick can get totally erect when I'm about to have sex? it already happened 4 times IN A ROLL. when I'm about to jerkoff my dick says "all right let's do it mate" but when I'm about to have sex he just says "maybe next time mate

I just arrive in my work, I'll reply latter, and ty anons

why the fuck my dick can get totally erect when I'm about to have sex? it already happened 4 times IN A ROLL. when I'm about to jerkoff my dick says "all right let's do it mate" but when I'm about to have sex he just says "maybe next time mate?"

There is a medical condition i studied called pornography associated erectil dysfunction. Look for medical advise

How much water do you drink? Most people are at least slightly dehydrated, and dehydration makes it impossible for your dick to get hard-your body doesn’t have enough water to keep you alive AND give you a stiffy.
Get a gallon or two of distilled water and drink a big cupful or two about 20 minutes before you think you’re going to be doing the deed. You’ll be surprised at how much easier it is.

>IN A ROLL.
stop fucking bread maybe?

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Im starting to realize I might have this. Fantasies are so much better than real life though to me. Or I have never got to fuck a woman I really wanted to fuck. There is another problem. I really don't like it when women talk. It is a huge turn off to get to know most women. I suppose this is true for everyone though. Only the select few that don't drive you insane get to the next stage of hey lets see each other again.

>dehydration makes it impossible for your dick to get hard-your body doesn’t have enough water to keep you alive AND give you a stiffy.

Did you miss the part where he can get an erection while masturbating? Or did you simply chose to ignore it, in order to impart your wisdom on the rest of us?

so warm, so moist.. so inviting..

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probably performance anxiety; it happens bro

Still needs to stay away from porn. My sex life is 1000% better now that I refrain

Hydration does change over time, user, but thanks for playing.

Yeah, I agree with this to an extent. I have witnessed this myself. Refraining does help you a lot. We really don't know this guys situation though. He never really said if this was someone new, or like someone he has been with for years?

My dick never gets rock hard. Not sure why. If i press on veins my dick gets super hard but for some reason my dick cant keep blood in it. Same hardness for sex or jacking off. Dont think its mental

It depends on your age. At a certain point and age, try a cock ring, or viagra. Stick something up your ass that vibrates and stimulate your prostate. If you are rock hard then, after that sort of stimulation, then you are just not stimulated enough most of the time. I mean you get bored over time and look for new and inventive ways to get off. It always helps to have a fucking hot wife though that all your friends wish they could fuck, and she is a whore in the bed to boot.