Why are women so extraordinarily bad at handling their emotions or directing them at those responsible for it?

Why are women so extraordinarily bad at handling their emotions or directing them at those responsible for it?

>come home
>ask gf how her day was
>she's mad at me all evening
>try to find out why
>in bed she explains the cashier at the grocery store was rude to her

>wake up
>wish gf a good morning
>she's mad at me because she had a nightmare

>gf starts acting extremely envious of other women
>ask her why
>"wtf are you talking about, user?"
>turns out she watched a Twitch thot and was disgusted by all the beta orbiters (and probably jealous of her too)

>be me
>come home from work
>ask gf how her das was
>literal response was "user can you take out the trash? It's full"
>ask why she didn't take it out
>she gets mad because "she does everything else around the house and I should do my fair share"
>say that I'm doing my fair share by working 40 hours every week
>she starts crying and calls me a heartless bastard when I don't fall for the "muh feelings" bait

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You should just go gay

Oh her birthday:
>booked a weekend at a spa hotel
>took her out for dinner to a restaurant where they serve her favourite food
>bought her her favourite flowers

On my birthday:
>gf bought me a happy birthday card
>just wrote her name inside

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In all honesty, I wish I was in any way, shape or form attracted to men, because they are superior to women in basically any regard

If anime-like traps would exist, I would never be with a woman. They are so self-absorbed, it's unbelievable.

The sheer thought of unconditional love and care seems so foreign to them, it's frightening.

i think your gf is emotionally unstable user

And before you say "Well duh, she doesn't have any money. What do you expect?", here's a list of things she could have done:

>cook something for me. Anything would have been okay, as long as it was an honest attempt
>watch a movie with me that I like. We have Matrix, Leon, Pulp Fiction and so many others on DVD
>go to the shooting range with me
>wear a nice dress and shoes and go for a romantic walk with me
>literally ANYTHING that would have resulted as an answer to the question: "How could I make this day nice for him?"

I tend to describe her as emotionally egoistic. She is very self-absorbed, focussing mostly at her own emotions and rarely on those of others.

She is aware of this too and promises me to change, but so far her "progress" was negligible at best.

yeah i dont think people with these kinds of issues want to change, or if they want they dont have the power to

Bro, just move on, shes trash

I would put her in thr latter, rather than the former category.

It's a shame though. She's a wonderful person to be around otherwise, if only she would learn how to deal with her feelings better.

have you suggested a therapist, or does she get angry when you mention it

She did, because her parents abused her and tried to justify it by claiming she was crazy and they "had to".

I mentioned it a few times in somewhat recent times, and it seems somewhere inside she seems to open up to the idea that a therapist might be able to help her.

As always, the mills grind slowly, so perhaps in summer or autumn I can get her to visit a therapist

When I said "She did", I meant to write "She did get angry"

Had a gf like this. We did and she got diagnosed with borderline disorder about the same time I had enough and dumped her.

I honestly can't say if I'm going to break up with her or not.

On one hand, I love her. I genuinely love being around her when she feels fine. And I also feel sorry for the abuse she had to suffer in the past.

On the other hand, I'm made to suffer for deeds others have done. I feel like my life could be easier without her, and on some days she really drives me close to screaming at her (although I never did).

I guess I just live with the fact that I put in more effort than her, with the silent reminder "If I would act like her, she'd break up with me"

This is not someone you want to spend the rest of your life with user, do yourself a favor and leave this bitch

get a stable gf and break up with that psycho. Theyre not all like that, this seems like actual psychiatric problems.

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Honestly. If you get married, which I don't reccomend, not with her at least. You sign a prenup. I dont see a long and happy marriage if there's no improvement. You alreasy seem at your wits end, and do you think you can keep this attitide for 60+ years?

Seriously. Give it a long, hard think. Is your happiness with her short term and just appeals to your immediate needs, or can it do more.