Be me 21yro suppressed transgender didnt transition because I met a girl fell in love with her lot my virginity to her...

Be me 21yro suppressed transgender didnt transition because I met a girl fell in love with her lot my virginity to her loved her she got pregnant we thought it was mine done DNA test not mine regret not transitioning now all depressed and looking like a man

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Most people won't say this but if you still feel up to it then go ahead.

You'll another girl eventually, and if you didn't cut off yer cock for one female, then you pretty much confirmed you're willing to be male for the right female more so than being a cockless fag. Pull yourself together

No such thing as transitioning to being a female. If smoking hot pornstars become fucking ugly after cosmetic surgery then what makes you think a guy would be able to look like a woman? Be grateful you don't look like a freak that will most likely kill himself

Why not do what pretty much every other fucking person has to do at some point and learn to be comfortable with what you are?
Then find a way to be happy in that body.
You will never EVER be made happy by modifying your body. You'll always find something else wrong with it and be trying to change it (or lamenting that you can't).
Just get used to the body you're in, it's a lot easier and healthier.

Iam not sure I would iam to tall 6.1" when I was 18-19 I didn't have much hair on my body but now it grows every 3 days Which I hate but there's a big part of me that wish I never met that girl I wonder who I would be by now was on a waiting list for hrt the lot

You'd look like a disgusting freak

Yeah guess your right there I know I have a nice body I used to have a nice face to with nice long hair now I look like a guy and there's nothing I can do but the thought of being a cis guy makes me sad

That's your opinion

If your girl gets pregnant by another man, you shouldn't cut off your own dick, you should cut off his.

Why take it out on the other guy? He doesn't owe you anything. He didn't betray you. She did.

Am not taking it out on no one just annoying that I wasted time and effort to a women a loved to be hit with all this it's ruined my happyness my will to achieve in life is gone for part few months now iv been taking a lot of drugs to forget all of it and try to get on with life

Lol true

I'm guessing you're OP.
I was talking to they guy who suggested you should cut off the other man's dick. I guess people can't bring themselves to blame the person they're with so they redirect it to the third party? Dunno.

You are way better off this way. There will come a cure eventually.

Ok and yes iam op

Anno you think being trans is just a sexual thing but it's not for me so no cure

I get what you mean I blame her for it all she's the one that fucked the other guy and got pregnant so it is her fault no one else to blame but her sometimes I think it was my fault but I never cheated or anything I fucked her good tested her good everything but still get hit with this IV been taking drugs for the past 2 month now I just want to an hero or something she was my first love as well so that just adds to the pain

Not necessarily sexual. Just another mental illness to be cured eventually. I dont want you to give up hope.

Thanks I guess but still think your wrong unless your trans you won't know what it's like

Get off the drugs mate. They aren't going to help ultimately. Find something to focus on and give you purpose. Some people do charity, some fall in love again, some join the military, some throw themselves into a job they love, whatever, just find a positive and productive purpose and pursue it. Then while you're busy, start putting yourself and your life back together.
But get off the drugs.

>unless your trans you won't know what it's like
So here's the thing with THAT.
If you can't adequately explain it, you can't be sure that even other people in a group who claim a similar issue actually have the same experience as you.
If you CAN explain it, then people who aren't trans absolutely can know what it's like.
Think about it. people say they're trans, but except by communicating about respective experiences how do you know they have the same experience as you? And if you're able to communicate it that clearly, they dont NEED to have the same experience as you.

Thanks

Yes you are right my experience is totally different than someone else I wasn't generalising it I was just saying if youv never really had a thought of a trans person or ever had a gender dysphoria break down then you wouldn't know what it's like my experiences are totally different from another

And yes I could compare it to something else but I don't know you or your struggles so I can't

It's just a fact. Plastic surgery looks bad on anyone. Unless they were burn victims or serious skin diseases. But going under the knife to change your appearance will end up with you looking worse than before. Just look up the many celebs that had surgery. Not one who didnt end up looking like a freak. Jennifer aniston didn't do shit, courtney cox did and she looks like a natural disaster now

What a dumb 'nothing' answer

That's true but wasn't going to go under the knife u don't think a will go through with it I was when I was 18 iam 21 now I think I would just look out of place 3years a go I passed with out surgery was waiting on hrt and concealing then met the girl and feel in love and ruins my life

Hrt will still make you look weird. If you really want to be feminine just crossdress in the bedroom or something but don't make your life revolve around this shit.

I meant you can't even draw comparisons with people who say they have gender dysphoria etc as what they experience may have been totally and fundamentally different, though externally presenting similarly. The only way you know is by explaining your own experience in enough detail, and that level of detail makes it irrelevant whether you indeed have had the same experience or not (to understand, anyway).
The only things in human experience that you can truly say "you can't know" about, are things that we are forever utterly alone on.

keep your cock in place.
Theese faggots who change their sex are pathetic and suicadal.
Stop whining and be a fucking man.

get off the drugs man, youll feel better. only do drugs if stable and handling life well.

youre an idiot to think there will be a cure. it's a mental issue, they have to cope their entire lives. coping strategies and drugs (prescribed) are how you deal, but it never goes away.

agree no effort put in there ...

um you sure nailed down his problem, bud.