gf of 3 years wants to have sex less and less
i don't know what to do, i'm a very horny guy, if i lived alone i'd jack off atleast 2 times a day, she on the other hand only wants to have sex like once a week.
i cant stand it, i usually just jack off in front of her to porn, i can see she's a bit sad about this, but i'd rather see her like this than remain blue balled my whole life.
what can be done? does any user have any advice?
dubs. Also, she's on the pill.
also today's my birthday, we didn't fuck on my birthday
The pill can kill a womans sex drive but also maybe you aren't putting in enough effort to put her in the mood, women are emotional creatures so you have to be in tune with that.
You mean each time i want to cum i have to put on a show for her?
satanic quads
Yes exactly women love this shit, they do not want just "sex"
but that's exhausting. Fuck, I hate this, why cant she just take the dick without complaining. Whenever we fuck it's 80 percent missionary with me thrusting. tihs is stupid, women are stupid.
what if i punished her by not having sex back? i'd give some bullshit excuse that im not in the mood etc.
You're stupid OP, but I have a solution for you. Break up with her and go for prostitutes instead. They'll put a lot of effort to please you for the money and you'll be happy.
you have no idea. She never puts in any effort, she just lays on her back. She cant give a blowjob for longer than 5 minutes and then her jaw starts hurting. Not even handjobs because she gets tired. the most she does is she rides for a couple of minutes, eats my ass or wiggles her ass on my dick doggy for a tiny bit. why should i put in effort engaging sex when i'm the only one participating in it
If you love her you can handle this
If she isn't cheating on you she is about to be
Hit up random gay men on grindr they are always down to fuck/suck and the best part is they are happy doing it
You do what you want Devil
>leting yourself be cucked by your own gf
Maybe you don't work together op?
"Punishing" her would be totally useless because of the fact that she has a low sex drive as you said. I would suggest that you talk about this shit with her that you want your sex life more thrilling etc and that you are a body person who expresses their "love" etc through physical contact. If she does not want to understand the fact that aex and exploring in this area is a huge factor in you life you should suggest a break up and move on
Next time you go out to dinner buy a motel to fuck in after. It could be that sex has gotten mundane for her and if you really care about your relationship you should try and spice it up instead of w/e. Maybe try some light bdsm. Just don’t go full cuck.
Leave.
So yousay she has no interest in sex at all or just with you? I think she is a person who must get in the "mood" maybe the romantic type with dinner and candles or some bullshit
Post pic of gf op
Welcome to my nightmare. My gf only wants to fuck seldom and then wonders why I'm tired or annoyed just hanging around her all day. Imo I would find a fuck buddy if you dont wanna give up what you got cause it's not gonna improve, good luck cause bitches can tell when you want pussy even when you already have a relationship. I wish I knew of a better method than tinder.
Yep. Sadly enough. I have to eat out pussy and asshole to get her in the mood while all it takes for me is a hard dick. I honestly hate how men and women are incapable of aligning their sex drives to where it can go the route of movie or porn sex where you two just jump into it. Kinda tired of putting on a show like I'm a fucking clown everytime I want pussy.
Wont work. I tried and my gf can hold out way longer than me, I can do it and it sometimes works but in the long run I'm so sex starved that when she finally does get horny I cant fight her off cause I've gone weeks being horny.
Every relationship I've been in goes like that when you first meet her she is ripping my pants off to suck you off before you can even get in the door of the house but a few years down the track and you have to beg to get anything women are selfish and trap you with their pussy at first and then cut you off once you are hooked they all do it and then get upset when you find someone who does want to fuck you so whatever you do don't marry her user I made that mistake
Nigga are you me? This is my exact problem as of late. Part of me wants to go full asshole and tell her exactly how garbage her sex game is, but that's a fight I honestly dont feel like putting up with.
I know that feel
She does, we always mess around in bed, humping through clothes, licking eachother and kissing, but once i start taking off her pants she stops me and starts yelling if i persist.
Well, we talked about threesomes before, but i wouldn't really want a sideheo because I love this girl. It just drives me crazy. Actually some kind of antidepressant might help, it would reduce my sex drive aswel
Never tried this but I think my outcome would be the same
Durrr I want my thing but I don’t want to put in any effort. There’s always more sex in the beginning of a relationship, it almost always fades over time. Stop acting like a child and get a prostitute
I'm starting to wake up to this, problem is my gf is expecting me to marry her but honestly I dunno if I can with her weak ass sex game. Part of is holding out that she'll get more horny when we both are living together and not our parents house, but something tells me that's a pipe dream.
Go gay, you’re already acting like a faggot
Talk to her. Trick her into thinking you see it as some place beautiful only she can take you.
Nah, I have better options than you, so much to the point i can complain about it.
Don’t get married until you’ve lived with her for at least 6 -12 months. Old fag advice
According to this thread, you don’t. I just started a thread about how sore my cock is because my wife keeps grinding the shut out of it. You enjoy your reality
Oh I will. Shes talking about marriage but I'm not retarded enough to not invest time to see if shes worth it. Hell there are days where I want nothing to do with her at all so I'll see how that plays out when living together.
OP here. Lived with her for a year now. Everything's great apart the sex.
Is it all ways the case that she is yelling? Just ask her what she expects from you, because, just find her switch my last girlfriend went wild at anytime if i bite her ears. All women hve a trigger
Nigga are you bragging on Yea Forums of all places? Of all places?
That’s natural, no matter how compatible you are there are going to wish you could punch her in the face and vice versa
Women dont know what they fuck they want. My girl said making out turns her on but eating her out does it much faster and shes just like "oh"
More of a rebuttal
Nothing much you can do about it. If her drive starts dropping off noticeably at this point in the relationship it isn't going to get better.
Fair enough
Never ever ask women. What i mean is that you have to find her trigger in bed just like a riddle ore a puzzle, you will know when you found the trigger, women are work, they are like "complex" riddles so even they themselves can not understand what they are thinking simpy because women do not psy attention to there soroundings etc.
YOU BETTER JOIN user
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Fuck off cuck
>finally get a gf and by extension pussy
>"fuck you user, its gonna be a bitch with hardly any sex drive leaving you wanting to go back to the singlehood shithole you came from cause atleast then you could stare and talk to ass for a 50/50 shot"
Why is life like this?
It doesn't always happen this way. Some women lose their sex drive once the honeymoon period ends, some don't.
My wife and I have been together 15 years and still average every other day with two preschoolers in the house.
cheat
She doesn't want any from you because she's fucking other dudes on the side because you can't satisfy her, OP. You've probably never got her off.
>maybe you don't work together
Defeatist attitude never helped anyone.
Relationships require some effort, if not in the area of sex than in other areas. Good communication and a desire to make things work can solve most problems in and out of the bedroom.
inb4: what if one person doesn't have the desire or drive to make it work? We're humans, we're not perfect, learning and relearning and compromise and a bunch of other things that others have said. Also /b is probably not the best place to ask, go (back) to reddit.
That's about my option in a cool minute.
This. Also you can't expect emotional creatures to logic against their emotions, you're far better off changing the emotional state to get to the logic you require.
I did it with my wife. It ended up making our sex life more frequent and stronger. That's if she doesn't break up with you when/if she finds out.
I did it with your wife too
did u get offered a tits out bj user?
Yeah I'm leaning towards it. Trying to pick up some tinder slut since all the bitches I know personally are either retarded, gross, or both.
Talk to her. Tell her you have needs just like any other human being and yours aren't being met. While you two care for each other this will undoubtedly cause a schism between your relationship and you'll eventually break up or one of you will cheat. Talk it through, don't argue or yell, find a middle ground you can both respect and if you can't, big red flag and you should probably consider moving on without her. you might need to consider accepting the idea that you two will no longer be together and look at it positively: you can go hook up with tons of other women for a while until you find the right one again.
OR, maybe wait 5 or 6 years. Dont rush into something that you have zero incentive to do in the first place, and is most likely to fuck you over in the end
be happy you're in a relationship at all you entitled faggot
I wish I could live in your world where having the title and not shit else is enough to keep me happy.
well it only goes downhill from here so get used to it bretard
honetly, try to reason with her.
If that doesnt work then you only have two options.
1- live in misery like a beta
2- improve yourself and dump her ass for an upgrade.
/thread
>she never eats my ass
Fucking kek
I think your exceptions of sex are too porn-esque
I say 12 months+ and up to 3 yrs.
People put on a false facade just like on a first date.
That shit wont last past 12 months though. Cant hide it forever.
OP just make out with her...
You need to learn to engage in foreplay to get her in the mood and the easiest way to do that is to make out like teens for a while. Do it for like 20 minutes, maybe feel her up, but don't try to turn it into sex. And if she starts to try to turn it into sex then stop and frustrate her and say that you won't have sex with her right then. She will be begging for it at some point. The you can give it to her.
Just fucking make out............
Married to ultra hottie who is the same...low sex drive, once a week, usually I initiate.
Solution: other women, pay if necessary. Massage parlors are great