My best friend has been dating an abusive idiot for around 10 years now and he's getting worse...

Oh yeah I let my girl meet other guys at the bar all the time. I Whore her out because I'm a cuck.

Bitches have to do their shit on their own. That includes bitches like you.

Otherwise when things go wrong, they blame everyone around them.

You have to realize that only you can be in control of your own destiny.

>threatened to beat him
>threatened

Which means he didn't, he's probably a total bitch.

I'm from New York, the state where guns are barely legal. Idk what kind of yeehaw land you hail from but if the dude ever threatened you, I don't see why you wouldn't put him out of his misery. Honestly it just sounds you're a bitch. Perhaps you deserve this situation.

Yeah don't hang out with other dude's girls and they won't murder you. Been this way since the caveman days. Orbiters lose teeth.

>be me
>be silent industrialite
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>best friend
>girl
>girl is going to the pub with other guys without her boyfriend

Normal people don't do this unless the bf has other plans and can't make it and they're ALL mutual friends.
You're a pussy
Girl is a thot
bf is Alpha and should beat all of you then dump the roastie gf
this board is full of limp-dicked incels anyway and idk why i responded

Look OP I'm gonna be real with you: She's staying with him because if he's that aggressive then he definitely is hammering her pussy just the way she likes nearly every night. If it's been a decade then she's not going to leave him, probably is never going to leave him. If she's really that okay with her boyfriend chasing people out of her life or simply that weak willed then there's nothing you can do to save her. Sometimes you just gotta let people deal with their shit. Maybe you bailing will be the wake up call she needs when she realizes her last non-toxic person is gone. Maybe she'll never come around and always be about that guy. Either way it's not your job to stick around that kind of crazy, just bail and tell her to give you a call when you don't have to worry about some psycho trying to start shit.

Or don't. Whatever nonsense situation she decides on isn't something any of us in this thread will have to deal with, maybe you should choose not to deal with it either since you can just walk away. It's only your problem though, so do whatever you want.

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>OP beats up friends boyfriend
>Boyfriend makes himself out to be the victim
>Weak minded girl dotes on abusive boyfriend for getting attacked by user
>Probably will be the only time she will ever call the cops for assault
>OP ends up in shitty situation
>Girl still dating abusive dude
Do you know why police won't ever do anything about domestic violence calls similar to OP's friends situation? Like besides the fact that cops are dicks?

It's because the girl always go back to the guy, always. All kicking is ass will do is make him a victim in the girls eyes.

>I know the future

No you don't previous user has more experience than you and his advice is correct. You are an over emotional youngster

100% conversation had with three district attorneys

agree with you. but holy shit you op..

what would you do if he actually killer her? your best friend.

kill him? just stand up to the dude and if you feel like your life is in danger then just kill the dude.

Look OP some guys are like , , and and some girls are honestly just into that sort of thing. It's retarded but that's just how it is, you can't fix stupid. If her boyfriend is the type to get aggressive when his chick is hanging out with friends and she's the type to not stand up for her friends then not a lot can be done. This isn't the kind of drama adults deal with, this is some high school bullshit. He is realistically never going to stop being aggressive about dudes being around his girl and she's realistically never going to stand up for herself. I get she's your friend and wanting to help your friends is a good thing, but in this instance there's really not a lot you can do. Honestly you should just cut your losses and find some new friends. Friends who bring that kind of drama into your life aren't friends worth having around really

Assuming this isn't bait, cut all contact with her and move on with your life. They're all right and this retard is most likely going to kill her at some point, and there's nothing you can really do about it short of fucking up your own life. Women like this are hopeless and do nothing but defend the scumbag, even lash out against anyone who tries to help. It's just not worth it. Blame the father if she even has one, half of the time they don't or have shitty ones.

The truth is that she likes dudes who are this way. She will choose guys like this for the rest of her life. And while your friendship with her may be genuine, she also intentionally uses her male friends to upset him

My wifes sisters boyfriend came to our house one night, drug his girlfriend to his car by the hair, railed me with an edging shovel. I clocked him in the chin and let the dogs out. He ran back to his car, drove off, came back to get his girlfriend again lesson learned had a trained loaded gun and he sped off. He was drunk the entire time. Afterwards he stole half the items from our house and cleaned out his girlfriends house with a truck he stole from another one of her friends, and pawned everything for meth. In court the girlfriend tried to defend him by saying "he did not know what he was doing he was drunk" the judge laughed gave him two counts of DUI and aggravated assault. With his girlfriend refusing to press charges the court allowed him to plea bargain down to "domestic assault" because "its the only way we ever get these guys"

He left her a single mother and everytime I see the bitch she acts like I ruined her life.

1) fuck thots
2) feel no empathy or obligation to reason with a beligerant person, "fear for your life" shoot them in the back, ask questions later

The only justice in the world is what you give to yourself. No one else "deserves" anything they can't organize themselves

Have pride in yourself as a person OP. Be not shit, and not shit people will find you. You will forget all about those "poor hapless saps in bad situations they think are not their own fault"

This story went exactly as I thought it was going to. OP sounds young so hopefully he'll take all of this stuff to heart and leave her friend to her own devices. She made her bed, she's a big girl, she can lay down in it.

>implying cops aren't people too
>forgetting cops hate wifebeaters and niggers as much as the rest of us
ya'll are just as bad as the niggers on the streets, except they at least kill each other. All you do is bitch on the internet under a basic form of anonymity. retards.

Fuck these guys user. If you care about your friend, voice your reasons with her. If she refuses to listen, talk to a police officer, and give them his info and stuff. If you talk to the cops about a dangerous person, and that dangerous person threatens you and you hurt them, they won't be surprised. Make sure the cops know how much you care about your friend and how worried you are about her and stress how dangerous he is.

Then go out, and be ready to protect yourself.

This sounds just like some girl I know. She’s doesn’t see herself marrying him but is too chicken to end it. He’s a drug dealer btw. Does that sound familiar?

Spoken like a true kiddie. The cops aren't going to do jack fucking shit until a crime is committed. Why do you think people like this keep doing what they do? Because the princess that's being "abused" never pressed charges and only defends the piece of shit over and over. There's no point in getting involved if its' not family.

>Tell OP not to assault some guy preemptively because it will not go how he thinks it will
>UR RETARDED XD
Alright then genius, let's say that OP does go to the police and tries to file a report on someone who hasn't committed a crime and the only crime he could be slapped with (threatening someone) is complete hearsay. What's OP supposed to do then? Strap on his boots and go confront the guy, just make sure the other guy hits first? Then what? Even if this all goes swimmingly and the police do end up arresting the boyfriend for something do you seriously think the girl who doesn't see much wrong with her current situation is going to want anything to do with OP? Or not try to push assault charges on him herself for beating up her boyfriend, even if it did it lawfully?

Life ain't a fucking movie you stupid nigger. The girl loves the abusive dude and that's the problem, it's not going to end with OP riding off into the sunset after kicking some ass. It's going to devolve into a messy end to a friendship and when the guy gets out of jail the girl is going to go right back to him. He could sidestep all of this by just walking away, but please tell me more about how he should just punch his way to a good fix to the situation

Either he's the bitch or you and all your faggot friends are. You either handle your business or you don't. Sounds like you don't.

Really shitty situation here op, I feel for you. The unfortunate thing about an abusive relationship is you can't help someone unless they genuinely want it. Some people will even say they do, but are fine with how things are. There's nothing you can do for these people, besides giving them space, and letting them come to a conclusion on their own. Whether that be staying with their SO or leaving. It's her choice to make.

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I have a female friend that's just a friend, we've known each other since elementary school and we're more like siblings than anything else. You know how we both have avoided shit like this? Bros before Hoes. We both keep our partners in check if we end up with a new one that's kind of sketched out and put our foot down if they try to push "Well I just don't feel comfortable, it's them or me.". That's not a situation either of us find ourselves in a lot because we don't let it get to that point, you know why? Because we're actually friends and friends stick up for each other. She's told dudes before that if they're that insecure she really isn't looking for another pussy to take care of and I've told chicks that if they're really that insecure that I don't need someone I have to reassure all the time. It's a true and genuine friendship, we don't let other people make decisions about the company we keep for us because we're adults and enjoy the friendships we've made up to this point.

If she's not willing to stick up for your friendship then that says a lot about her character. If you've been creepy on her like checking her out or tried to put the moves on her then I could see where the guy is coming from and maybe why she can't do much to stick up for you. If he's just like that though and she's okay with it then honestly it sounds like she values her relationship with him more than her friendship with you. Maybe that's harsh but I know that my friend wouldn't tolerate that kind of shit, I wouldn't tolerate that kind of shit, we'd both tell that person to kick rocks and go to the bar anyway.

If she ain't a bro, then she ain't a bro and this isn't you're fucking problem. Bros before hoes OP. She's either your bro or she's a hoe. Gotta be one or the other, can't be both.

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if she's seriously in danger and going to be killed by him eventually and you want to prevent it, the only thing you can do is hang out with her more, antagonizing him until he does commit a crime then try to convince your friend to get some therapy. you'll probably get your ass beat or worse, so try to plan for that. abusers thrive off of isolating their victim. it all comes down to how much would you do for your friend

Everything this poster said is right.
>best friend is a girl

Why are you hanging out with girls you aren't fucking OP

You sound like a pussy.

cuz u r curious bout being a cuck like us

tldr go to reddit with ur essays cringy faggot

This all the way. As a cop do you know how many times, I've seen this tale play out. Some codependant cunt is getting her ass beat, some random passerby or friend steps in, they tussle win or lose, and the girlfriend calls me to arrest the guy who just assaulted her boyfriend. Dont be a sad cunt, be a sick cunt, and abandon her, it's not worth the legal fees. This guy has probably out lasted all her friends for a reason.

Do you arrest all the wifebeaters you work with or nah Barney? Cause we both know cops are #1 on the list of professions that are domestic abusers.

Stay away from her.
You’re too much of a pussy to be a white night.
Stick with FarmVille

Lol maybe in your shit police state country. I'm English, all cops arent intolerant violent cunts , all hopped up on action movies and mountain dew. Great job speaking pejoratively about a universal profession, you stupid twat.

I believe you because you sure whine like a cop and think people owe you something for literally doing your job.

T. Naivety

Aww does baby boy have a problem with authority, did a big bad man with a badge once make you feel small. I didn't say anything about people owing me, so I think youre projecting so hard, you could show powerpoints on the wall of your bedroom in mums basement. The pay is good enough for me, and knowing I can do anything I want to little cunts like you with impunity. Last true dictatorship, you little poof.

lol you type like a fag

Lol, that's your best comeback, can you expand as to how, or are you really that unimaginative. Fortunately for you this is anonymous, so nobody knows what a hackneyed idiotic ideal spewing fool you are. You and I, however will always know that I gave you a sound verbal thrashing. Next time you pipe in with your stupidity, think twice, that I might be on the other end, waiting to run circles around your childish arguments, and make you my bitch. DCI out.

Squeel piggy

She's married bro. Domestic violence is alive and well.

You're the faggot.

Dont hang around another dudes woman. If he beats you up its his right.

>youre projecting so hard, you could show powerpoints on the wall of your bedroom in mums basement

hahaha nice! go go Copfag!

Lmao he thinks his badge can protect him

Guess who doesn't press charges?
Guess who is orbiting around 10 year married pussy and doesn't have his day.

Raging bull is a straight man in his right to be pissed.

There is no way you don't beat your wife. She still has orbiters too that all already fucked her? Looks like the guy is winning. Just all part of growing up.

shoot him 1st

He was laughing at what I said about you, you can't actually be this monumentally stupid. Also protect me from what? Mongoloids on the internet it would seem you're right.

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Ug. Come up with better pasta

She is very likely trying to get her BF jealous. Bitches pretend that they don't like it but they fucking cream their panties for that shit. She asks me to get drunk with her. She manipulates you into trying to defend her. She probably tells her boyfriend where she is and that you're trying to come on to her. He comes down and fucks you up. She sees that he really cares about her and will fight for her and then she fucks his brains out while you're bleeding and alone.

Your a faggot. Stop trying to fuck her when she doesnt want you.

Woman in relationship, should not go to pub, degenerates

Sauce?

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I found that to be really good advice.

You can go suck a cock.

You arrest guys holding a butter knife

Lol the whine is real. Do what I say or I'm leaving bawwwww.

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>Women should wear a hijab

Not QUITE the same thing but nice reach

Femanon here

OP this is something she's going to have to do herself. I am in a similar situation myself and looking in from outside it does seem like she's just a stupid idiot. But you gotta put yourself in her shoes...
If she wanted to leave, where would she go? If she's isolated all of her friends already, would anyone help her. They've been going out for about 10 years so I'm assuming they live together? So how would she do it on her own?

If you want to help her you've got to talk to her and if you're really this bothered about it you've got to offer her help bit just tell her to leave.

She's most likely terrified of the consequences if she did leave

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You don’t do anything, because it’s none of your fuckin business. You have no evidence she’s being abused, but what this girl’s bf might have a problem with is all of her soyboy beta bitch boy friends, like you. What kind of man are you, being scared of another man? You’re basically a woman with a dick. You exist as her friend to be there for her emotionally, to tell her she doesn’t look fat in whatever dress she’s wearing, and to vent to about her boyfriend. That is what is expected of betas like you and all her other soyboy friends. It used to be that women had “girlfriends” to fulfill this role in a woman’s life. But now with feminism and “me too”, women are becoming too masculine and driven by their own ambitions to nurture each other and the weak among you have taken over this role in your thinly veiled hopes that these women you “befriend” will come to love and admire you. They don’t, but I guess you’ve gotta have dreams. Now this all being said, it’s hard for a lot of non-beta men to accept their women having “male” friends who pander to them, despite the fact that they’re confident that these relationships will remain strictly platonic in nature. But every now and then, they have to assert themselves to dudes like you. You’re supposed to feel threatened. You’re supposed to be reminded that no matter what you say or do, you’re a lesser man. This should either motivate you to quit being a little bitch boy, or drive you to suicide eventually. Makes me no goddamn difference. But if you want some good advice, mind your fuckin business.

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Stop being her friend? She won't change, you can't change her and you can't fuck her. She thinks she somehow deserves the mistreatment and will continue to pursue it until there is some big event that ends the relationship.

Also what kind of faggot gets threatened and runs away? Clearly you're a pussy too.