>be me
>black user in white country
>be volcel until age of 24, partly for religious reasons, partly because women be thots
>know 1 (one) girl who is upstanding, moral, religious, and with a good character
>obsess over her for years, love her so much it renews my faith in God
>become friends with her
>love her to bits, want to marry her
>she doesn't want me
>she doesn't think I'm manly enough for her
>feel empty and tired
>install Tinder, get matches right away
>ask them to join me to a hotel
>they actually accept
>they actually fucking accept
>mfw all I wanted was love
>mfw all I wanted was a good woman to marry
>mfw I realize love is not written for me, and I'll break volceldom just to fuck some random thots the coming week
If only God would take me back home.
Be me
>I was marry a year to a woman I love till today
>she's hard Christian I'm not.
>She cheated on me 3 times
>for an entire year blamed on me that me not been Christian was hard for her.
>I confronted that bitch when I found out, >she starts making excuses, ends up blaming shit on me not been Christian and thats because I don't understand her. >Believe me fuck religion.
I only need someone to love that loves me back. If you don't want to fuck a thot don't do it, if you want it what holds you back? Just keep looking user don't give up. Someone somewhere is waiting for you.
Black incel? Wtf ma nigga. Chill and focus on school/career/travel.
>he cracked at the slightest pressure
It's your life m8, really think it over before you make a choice. Good decisions rarely come from bad times
Ouch bro.
Keep your head up theirs someone for all of us.
Forgive my bastard English that bitch is harassing me in my phone right now.
>If you don't want to fuck a thot don't do it, if you want it what holds you back
I think it's degenerate and immoral to have any kinds of sexual relations before marriage. I think marriage is something important for a healthy soul and a good society. I hate the fact that it is so difficult to find people who think the same way - I had many chances to fuck around, or do whatever, from the time I was a kid until now. I have never even kissed a girl, even as a teenager, because of these values. Now that I finally found someone who fits my profile, she turns me down, and I don't know what to do.
I'm good looking (being black might even be helpful in my country), I'm well educated, I'm popular and likable. Getting pussy is so fucking easy, but it is so lowly. I find I have lost myself.
I think this decision will haunt me for the rest of my life. I don't know what to do. It sucks to have immorality so easily accessible, while what is good and healthy is impossible to come by. Part of me has already given up, and my faith is broken.
You are causing problems for yourself. Just relax.
Im in the same boat user. But the longer you stave off the thots the more holy clout you get. Trust me the struggle is worth.
>he cracked at the slightest pressure
I don't think you're being fair, bro. I'm a man, I feel the natural desires of men. All my life, I have avoided acting on them, despite having girls trying to touch me or test me. I was patient all that time because I thought there was something clean and pure in the future, around the next corner, or just out of view - but all I see is more of the same filth. It isn't about a slight pressure, it's the weight of a heavy mountain.
Perhaps you should stop trying to suppress your true nature
Do you act on the evil impulses you have?
If you do act on them, you become just like everyone else. Fickle.
It's just so tiring, bro
Reconsider why you think fucking people is evil.
You ever seen an episode of Jerry Springer, Maury or Jeremy Kyle? Like 90% of bs that happens there is a direct result of people fucking people they then regret fucking
Plenty of black guys suffer from inceldom too. It's actually mostly an ethnic issue though, blacks and whites do the best in the dating game.
I always avoided watching those shows and most TV, but you can just use condoms to avoid 99% of that shit. Also that is a very self-selected group of morons.
As a UK fag, Jeremy Kyles got some variety. Point still stands though. Why would you be ok with screwing someone you arent serious with. They could later turn out to be a complete psycho dipshit with 15 STDs
It is evil because God has forbidden it according to all religions, because it spreads disgusting diseases in society, because it commodifies love and sex, because it causes a society that has no care for lineage and family, because it causes broken families, because it causes love and pain between people that are unfit to love each other - they should instead be married, with the intention of living together for life. There are a dozen reasons why casual sex is evil, blackanon is right
Sorry you had to find out like that man. Finding out treating women with love and respect makes their pussys dry as sandpaper is a hard pill to swallow.
Because it's fun to fuck. I generally stick to educated people, get tested regularly, and always use condoms, the risks are pretty low. I'm in a relationship now but I don't consider either behavior to be evil. The risks of crazy people are much higher in a relationship because you can't end relationships as easily as you can just ignore people you don't know.
I dunno man I've had great time with casual sex, still STD free.
volcel and incel are completely different things you stupid nigger.
Its just better to not get into it so that you or people who are less capable than you dont get bamboozled somehow.
Besides, imagine how great it would be losing it to the one person you care for most?
But we aren't talking about your personal, subjective experiences. The fact remains that society is made worse by this behavior in a thousand ways. For an example, it might be possible that you are personally able to use drugs and alcohol without becoming a worthless drag on society, but that doesn't mean that alcohol and drugs don't make society worse.
That's never something I particularly cared about.
You could say that about anything. People have varying tolerance to addictive things. Some people might think it would be better off if Yea Forums weren't allowed, and some people are probably better off not going on Yea Forums, but I'm glad that I live in a society where Yea Forums (and booze and sex and moldy cheese) are allowed.
I don't even think OP should go about fucking everyone he finds attractive, only re-consider why he, personally, finds it bad when he has the urge to do it anyway.
Why did he do it, guys
Hits way way way too close to home....
Check 'em
>girls don't like love
Your problem is you aren't building love. The "friend zone" is a real thing, you are watching these girls from afar and hoping they're secretly into you as well. You also create an idealized version of them in your mind because you don't actually have to date them. Make your intentions clear from the start and move on if she is not interested.