I don't want to be with my gf anymore. Already broke up once and we ended up getting back together. Don't have the heart do it again. What do?
I don't want to be with my gf anymore. Already broke up once and we ended up getting back together...
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Grow a pair of balls and tell that bitch how it is. The longer you procrastinate dumping her the harder it will become
Why would you get back with someone you already broke up with. That's just not big pp moves, my dude.
Get off Yea Forums and just do it, faggot
She's not a bitch. She's very nice and I care about her a lot. I just don't think we're right for each other.
God fucking damn! Can you be a bigger fag?
Easier enough for all of you to call me a fag when your dogs aren't even prepared to go near you crusty cock. I can appreciate that none of you would know how to talk to girls other than your relatives. I'm after advice on how to do a terrible thing in a nice way. I'm hoping she just gets fed up of me and leaves me.
Hey mate i have a brilliant idea, what you can do is go to any train station wait for a child to apear and once the train is close just push him to the tracks, now you have a really good reason to leave, then take all the money you have and buy a plane to russia go to the forests and start a life there, in the 30-40 years you have to wait in order for your crime to be forgotten by the law she will surely get a boyfriend, and now you only have to find a way to reintegrate to society once again.
Or you can break up with her, im not good at this things so i dunno.
Also is your pic related?
I'm in the same boat. I never even wanted it to turn into what it is now. And every time I break up with her she makes me feel bad for her and we end up back together soon enough. I quit telling her I love her like a year ago. And she stays with me. I ignore her all day and night hopping she'll get bored and find someone new. It's hard to put her through it agai . But I'm not attracted to her anymore and I cant see myself being with her any longer. Its fucked but it's better than being lonely for a while. Idk maybe we are fags
Alright mister white knight
If you want to do it like that, just act like a tool and ignore her. Make her hate you and she'll leave you soon enough. But than she will remember you as a totaal jerk and all her friends will too
Or you can just grow some balls and just break up like a normal guy would. Breaking someones heart isn't a crime. You're just postponing the annoying conversation. If she knew you wanted to get rid if her, she'd also prefer if you just did it and cut all the bullshit
Finally some good fucking advice.
>every time I break up with her she makes me feel bad for her
Well here's your fucking problem, she's manipulating you.
Y'all are rediculous. You spend so much time chasing cars on this site and when you catch one it's all "I'm not emotionally ready for this." Guess what dumbasses. Breaking up with someone isnt a terrible thing to do. Getting back with them when you know you aren't right is dumb and if you do stand by your decision or make a new one. Don't rely on the other person to make your mistake for you. That is really shitty behavior
Check'd dubs. I try and be Yea Forums funny too sometimes. You needed more grammar errors
There is no nice way bub.
A lot of people have been where you are. I'd wager most. Let me tell you the secret wisdom we all come to and save you time:
You are not responsible for her feelings. In any way shape or form. And if you do wanna be all selfless and not hurt her, then understand you're hurting her more by staying when you don't want to than by leeaving and letting her get on with herself.
It's the conflict you're scared of. The 5 minute conversation. That's what's stopping you. That's all. Meditate on these things.
It ain't 5 min of conversation that's scary, it's the lifetime of wondering if you did the right thing.
just become a mailman and kill yourself at age 30. Nobody would want to marry a mailman
Dude this morning your breakfast choice caused a butterfly effect thats gonna fuck your asshole in the future.
There's no order shits supposed to go in. Life happens as it happens.
And if you're feeling this way now, you wont get better. Leave her. Right decision or not something else cool will happen as a result.
Two choices:
1. fuck her sister/cousin/best friend
2. tell her that you really thought it was worth trying it again last time, but you feel that you don't feel the same way anymore and that you want to be honest with her because you respect her.
don't have sex with her again after breaking up as it will cloud your mind and the cycle will repeat.
tell her no contact for some months at least, wish her good luck
If you delay, it will only waste both of your time and cause more hurt, and she'll feel betrayed for you wasting another 6 months or a year or however long it is.
then say that to her, those exact words, minus the first part.
speak honestly to her.
trust your instincts, in all parts of life. your brain is there for a reason, why are you ignoring it.
do you want to be with her forever, marry her, have children with her, live together always. do you want to look into her eyes when you are both 80 and still be glad to see her face.
now also look from the other side:
will you miss her when she's gone, in five years, will you wish you had spent every day with her, will you always wish you had children with her, will there be an unfillable hole in your life without her. can you live without her?
then:
does she bring out the best in you, do you trust her, is she loyal, does she feel like your other half, would you trust her with your children, to raise them well, does she respect you, do you respect her?
you can read about all this kind of stuff on 10,000 different websites, do some reading and do some thinking.
but most of all, trust your instincts, because they usually know better.
why did you break up the first time, have those reasons been resolved since or are they exactly the same.
God damn it luis just end it
op's a faggot who abandoned his thread after 5 minutes