> be me > be 22 > have really hot abusive girlfriend for 2.5 years > tell her 3 weeks ago im gonna break up with her if she keeps being a bitch > last chance > since then shes been super nice, we've been having incredibly good sex as always > nothing weird going on, ask her if shes on now that she isn't being a bitch > point out the dumb shit she does and she recognizes it and moves on, is nice about it > wtf is going on
is she trapping me into some sort of bullshit or does she actually want to change for me?
listen to patrice o'neal on youtube on the topic of women, he may be a fat dead black mother fucker but he understands shit like your post more than anyone I've ever listened to. He's also hilarious.
Lincoln Baker
2 options: either she actually cares about you and everything turns out fine OR she is a complete fucking psychopath that currently plots how to utterly destroy you, be it financially, physically or emotionally, or a combination of all.
You know her better than any of us, so you do the risk-assesment, just do not have shared finances in the near future, do not allow her to make excuses for staying away often / long hours, keep your smartphone and pepperspray in close vicinity.
If she shows odd behavior all of a sudden, dump her and move on. It's better to be safe than sorry around lunatics.
Ryan Watson
look in to her eyes, are they honest? if not ask he if something is bothering her... but if she got those dishonest eyes and tells everything is fine, then you know she bullshitin
Kevin Nguyen
fortunately we don't live together and share no finances or anything of the sort. She lives quite far, we see each other once a week or so. I am always really careful and skeptical but in all honesty she seems harmless. Her abusive traits are not that of someone that would plot something to fuck my life up but rather of someone that doesn't know how to control her temper and goes to insults and emotional abuse when she's upset, other than that she's never actually hurt me other than emotionally and apologizes not long after she does it.
I don't think she's smart enough to plan something elaborate to hurt me. But i'm super glad i never moved in with her. thank you for your reply user.
Hudson Brooks
she's shit testing him, women constantly try to poke at, belittle and tare down your manhood and or masculinity. If you let them do it then you've already lost.
Lincoln Murphy
She definitely seems honest
after almost breaking up with her I have acquired the ability to look at the relationship as if I weren't in it, so I'm able to spot her bullshit a lot quicker now and I call her out on it.
example, last night we were texting and she was noticing i was going offline cause i was reading something in another app while i chatted with her, and she was like "why are you going offline" " fucking pisses me off that you go offline, do everything possible to stay online talk to me" and i told her to give me my fucking space and be respectful of me wanting to do something else while i talk to her.
she understood, backed down and calmed down and said im right and that shes sorry.
Caleb Hernandez
Well, if you are glad that you never lived together then you might wanna re-evaluate your reasons to be in a relationship with her. 2-3 years gives you plenty of time to think if you would be willing to spend your life with her or not
Jeremiah Stewart
I most definitely do not want to spend my life with her. She talks about it a lot but I just ignore it.
Henry Rogers
Sometimes you just need to be alpha and put women in there place. She gets it that you are a man and not a cuck.
Lincoln Hill
good, keep that shit in check or she'll walk all over you. All she has is pussy to offer. You have a job, car etc... She needs to know you're indifferent and wouldn't care if she left cause you can just get another pussy. Stay that way and she'll never leave, shit she'll probably even lose some weight and suck your dick more.
Elijah Wright
yeah man, it's taken a while to man up and tell her to cut her bullshit, but maybe I was just unaware, letting her step over me without realizing i had total control over it given that im not as attached as she is and I find it really easy to talk to women tbh.
I mean she doesn't just have a pussy to offer but I still don't even give a fuck if she has other shit to offer, i dont wanna spend my life with someone like her anyway, she's too immature even if shes my age.
the only really useful thing she has to offer though is that her cousin is a very successful programmer and he might get me an online job like his.
Brody Phillips
So what is your end game. U prolly deserve to be treated like shit. Beta bitch
thanks user, it's been a rough ride but I feel like im in control now and I wouldnt hesitate to break it off if she goes off the rails again
Adrian Torres
I don't know if you should go straight to "break it off" cause it could backfire on you.
Connor Gutierrez
Man, cut the crap. You are wasting your time on someone who clearly doesn't make you happy. Just break up with her and find someone else or learn to be single and try to get laid once in a while with Tinder or whatever
Jack Hall
i feel like it will backfire but im honoring my words, already gave her a last chance
recently as i said she's be behaving fine. yesterday we fucked like we never had, idk man, im happy, im just a lot more aware now than 2 months ago.
