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I'm not a virgin. Lost it at 18

What a shitty person.

>23
I have a few good reasons:
>bitches be crazy and stuck up these days, thinkin their pussy is made of gold
>all it takes is one false allegation to ruin your life
>bitches be nasty af, God knows how many STDs live in their coochie
>I hate hook-up culture (fucking degenerates)
>What can a woman do for me that I can't do already other than make a baby? (I hate kids anyways so reproduction is moot to me)
>If I get horny, I can just jerk off like I've been doing since middle school
>Being a virgin in this sex obsessed society makes you unique
>Having sex doesn't make you cool. Animals have sex all the time. Are they cool?

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You sure aren’t cool you giant giganigger faggot.

Watch out guys. Chad has entered the thread.

psychologytoday.com/us/blog/all-about-sex/201106/are-there-really-40-year-old-virgins

I think turtles are cool

I think moths are cool

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I think dogs are cool

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>Age
20
>Reasons
My family is traditional in the sense that they will find girls for me to talk to, and if I really get along with one we get married. Not quite an arranged marriage, but it certainly isn't dating either.

in 5th grade, when people were just started to pair up, and girls looked at me with unabashed derision, I knew I'd be alone forever. 25 years later, nothing has changed. I will die alone in a tomb of my own making.

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I weigh 280 lbs and have had sex with over thirty women and two men.

19 years old, there are several reasons. Was doing online school throughout high school, so I missed any chances I might've had meeting a girl in school. I have terrible social anxiety, which is something I'm working on with a professional, hope it gets better some day. I'm really introverted, don't like parties or bars, don't like drugs or drinking. My looks are above average, I have good hygiene and am well put together, I just don't really have any way of putting myself out there and finding someone I might like. All hope may be lost, I may end up like this forever, but I'm gonna keep trying to improve, maybe someday I'll find a girl who I click with, but I doubt it.

18 here. After the sixth rejection, I realized I have no personality or redeeming physical traits. I just never got comfortable with girls in general and can't maintain much more than an awkward friendship. Shit hurts man

36 years old.

Have tardive dyskinesia from drugs I was forced to take as a kid; got strung out on ritalin, "irritability" and "insomnia" lead to the neuroleptic mellaril, then to AD's which lead to behavioral problems, which lead to risperdal an then haldol.

Been living my life a drooling freak on SSI with my parents my whole life, drinking and drugging myself to death involuntarily. Suffering constantly. At this point I have no libido anyway and just want someone to share a bed with, could be a dude at this point and I wouldn't care much.

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Points for trying? I made it 16 before a cousin visited one summer. She kept following me around, talking about dick, and how we should wrestle.

What's your secret?

19
Girls never worked out. I always felt super pressured. Like I'm the man I have to make the moves. And being socially inept for half of high school didn't help. But I've figured out that I like guys way better so now I'm gay. And pretty much the only reason I'm still a virgin is cause I'm too worried about STDs to hook up with someone on grindr

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tfw even the most gingerly description of my life kills every virgin thread I've posted in.

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I'm sorry to hear that user. I hope something works out for you in the future, I'm rooting for you man.

Jerking off to porn isn't making you unique faggot it makes you a faggot.

I want herion and one way or another I'm going to kms in the not too distant future

>19
>don’t know how to talk to girls
>never been and spoke with one irl
>always get cheated on online
>now i just give up because i know it’ll never work

>Age
22
>Reasons
i am a quick shooter, so i have low self esteem

That's rough man. I'd like to tell you to not kill yourself, but I can't put myself in your shoes or know exactly what pain you're going through. I'm sorry user, I wish you luck and peace.

how pathetic am I lol sorry for writing so much
tl;dr: 23years old, fat, small dick

I'm fat since I was little, I blame it on my parents, but since I'm 23 years old now I can't blame them anymore

I hate myself because of my fat disgusting body, I have literally no friends outside work; the only friends I had got a girlfriend or moved away and I haven't seen them since then

now, I lost a good chunk of weight over the last 5 months, from 150kg to 110kg
people telling me how I changed and how good I look... women kinda flirting (I guess?) and asking me why I don't have a girlfriend, guys at my work thinking I go out partying every weekend and talking to me like I'm some cool dude...

Since I lost weight I got a lot more social and confident, but it doesn't matter, because I have no friends. I got 10 days off work but I'm just in room browsing Yea Forums and listening to music, because I don't know what else to do

... so why am I a virgin? I don't get to know any girls, because all I do is sit in my room.
There are a handful of beautiful girls at my work flirty with me, but most of them have a boyfriend, and the funniest part about me is, I don't even want to meet girls, because after losing weight I realized:
my dick is actually small, losing weight didn't help at all.
its about 8-10 cm... I am a fat 23 year old virgin with a small dick, thats what keeps me from meeting girls. Its not like I am too shy, I can literally just talk to random girls, I don't even care about that, I just can't imagine a girl not laughing at my tiny dick or being grossed out by me, a big fat loser...

how can I love someone if I don't even love myself?

I will probably visit a prostitute soon and get over with this virginity bullshit, just for the sake of experiencing sex once before I die...

Also, I went from 110kg back to 120kg the last few weeks, I lost any hope to be honest, being alone is the worst, especially when everyone around you thinks you are not

same man
in all honesty either pop one off quick before hand or start going multi round. it also pays to eat her out like a starving ethiopian

>Age?
28
>Reasons?
Just ugly. Only reason.
>Have you already accepted the fact that you'll die virgin?
Yes.

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you aren't ugly. you just need some confidence.

get buff

This, good luck user

Age 25

Reasons:
I'm a fat, lazy, half-bald, antisocial fuck with a micro penis and no self esteem. I don't kbow how to talk to people.

Accepted? Most days, yes.

24
I don't like people.
Not the best looking either.
Accepted? Yeah, I don't particularly care tbh

22
Good Looking
6'2
No Dad
Single Mom had it all but drugs ruined her life
I never learned too talk to woman
Could've had many relationships in HS but just wanted to get in trouble instead.
So much Regret.

For all the winey folks. It's all on your head. Do t matter if you're ugly, an early popper, got a small dick, or happen to be a fuckin leprechaun. Rule 34 exists in real life too.

Now, how about some more tits OP?

i would've believed that maybe 10 years ago. i don't lack confidence.
tried that one, that made me scary and even less approachable.

lost mine at 21. could have lost it at like 18-19 but just didn't care enough, just sort of happened to me. still don't have regular sex.

in all honesty Yea Forumsros, sex doesn't "fix" you or make you feel any less lonelier than you might have before. on some level i thought it might since losing the v-card is always portrayed that way, but you still end up with the same problems and the same feelings you always had about yourself.

it is different in romantic relationships tho. it becomes an important thing you do with your partner. but even still, it's just one activity that still feels the same.

General trust issues, don't allow myself to human outside of work.
It's safer this way, no one to let me down or depend on me.
I'll die alone but we all die alone anyway.

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free virgin

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23, can think of three times a girls seemed into me but turned them away. I was the fool with a mythos of him. What the girls were interested in was what others thought I was and if they got close I would be found for the failure I am. My parents would rip me apart in front of them while laughing about it and then rip them apart as my mistake and never letting me forget it. Now I am just a dog, I must always be happy for what is given. I must never take or I am wrong.
I am scared, I have met a wizard before and he was just a sweaty, twitchy weirdo who was bitter about women. He had a great job before technology made him obsolete but still couldn't even get himself a woman to temporarily leech off him. And a man who had hobbies of interest, and smarts, but he could not find a girl. He felt women owed him after a point. He scared me. He smelt like the sickly sweat scent of early rot.
Alcohol preserves me. No woman can replace this feeling. I know now when my ex-heroin addict ex-boss once told me "You'd make a good drug addict" what he meant when we talked. Find your cost of freedom boys.

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-0fy

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My dude, I'm focused on more important things. I feel vindicated when I see desperate single moms and fucktard who shouldn't of breed in the first place.

This is not bad. I mean your face. I don't know how tall are you or what does your body like, but I think the problem is in your head. Seriously what the fuck man, you look like an average male.

giving up actually helped me a lot. i didn't force it nor did i think about flirting when talking to girls.
met a girl, she was straight forward and took the lead. well its not really effective if you are looking for a hookup or a gf fast, but the mindset doesn't push you into being a person you cannot be.

True. Sex itself is nothing for your soul. It feels good and everything, but if you really want to feel intimacy, that's more. That's when you sleep together and she wakes you up with a bj, you make breakfast, wash her back in the shower, etc. Not the coitus alone.

I'm in the exact same boat as you. If it makes you feel any better I went back to school at 27 and have an amazing job lined up for the summer and am feeling the best I have about life since high school so it's never too late to make changes

im still a virgin because my daughter is also pregnant right now (twins)

>Age?
20
>Reasons?
I was an immense shy kid and that personality trait followed me till high school. Had a small group of friends, but never really talked to anyone else and kept quite. Then I took drama in my Junior and Senior year in high school, and now I really love talking to new people. Problem being that I'm terrible with confrontation due to fear of rejection and being neglected. Apparently a girl I liked in high school actually liked me back too during that time, but she wouldn't say anything till 3 years later. Other than her I don't know if anyone has ever felt attracted towards me. I've met a lot of cute girls, but I don't know if I'm legitimately attracted to them or just "attracted" to them because they acknowledge my existence.
>Virginity
While I may have been concerned about my virginity when I was in high school, I have realized that sex isn't my endgame. I have a friend who is a self proclaimed slut and I probably could bone her seeing as she's done things with a couple of my friends and nearly all her friends. While she may have occasionally teased me, she has never gone any further than that. She's told me that she admires my decision on saving my virginity for someone I truly love with all my heart, and that she wish she had done something similar. At this point in my life I'm doing my damn hardest trying to find a girl that I can connect with. While not much progress has been made I have no intentions on giving up. A few of my friends said to wait for the right one, but I detest that mentality. I want to put myself out there more and learn. I still feel intimated when I talk to girls I'm interested in, but dammit I will continue to do as much as I can.

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18
>living with abusive father
>low fucking self esteem
>my whole life I've been hearing my parents fighting
>decide I don't want life like that
>stopped trying at the age of 15

I had a multiple occasions for a relationship but I always rejected people because I thought I'll be just like my father and didn't want anyone's life to be ruined by me

i have a gf
been together 4 years
she has a nice breasts, nice ass, 128 pounds probably a strong 6.5 or 7/10
im morbidly obese

were not fucking because i know my 400 pounds ass is unattractive and i dont want to put her through that.
I doubt my dick could even penetrate her , if at all. It'd have to be missionary and that be disgusting for her.
She hasnt said this. I get handjobs all the time, says she finds me attractive.
she doesnt have much of a sex drive, or i just dont get to see cus im fat.
i used to get her wet just being in the same room, gained alot of weight back that i had lost after i started dating her. Got fatter and fatter over the 4 years together.

doubt we'll ever fuck until i lose weight and become moderately attractive again.

feels badman

28 in one month

I am just retarded, or antisocial I guess. I can't speak with people or commnicate with them. When I am at a family gathering I am usually just sitting there in silence. My family members are talking about so many stupid things that I wouldn't be able to. I had one date in my life, it was full of akward silence too.

I accepted it without a problem. At this point I am not even looking for sex, I would appreciate it to have a gf who loves me. I was never loved in my love besides my mother lol. Going home everyday after wageslaving to my silent apartment is depressing.
Also when I see a cute young couple at my age together it always breaks my heart.

This thread is so fucking sad. Why don't you idiots seek psychological help?

>tfw you can't afford treatment

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i tried but they rejected me too, kept referring me out to people who weren't even a step up, just didn't want to have to talk to me.

i'm so fucking close to suicide at this moment. even money isn't enough to get even a therapist to fucking talk to me. that's straight 100% worthlessness to the species.

>Got rejected
>Got friendzoned.
>not specially atractive.
Fuckitall_igiveup.jpg
>Start traning because reasons.
>feel motivated.
>getting computer science degree
>why the fuck not, army reserve too.
> meet 19yo nerd girl
> was 15 years ago
married now.

you NEED to give up first.

What happens after this god knows but untill you give up you look like to them like worthless dogs begging for pussy.

You sound fucking stale to me holy shit

Just go out there and fuck someone it's not that hard

(OP)
No but i know ill ad you as the 6th person ill be taking away their virginity

>27
>I've been close but I either blow it or don't try
>Yes

post it

i just dropped in to say i get more ass than a toilet seat and i STILL have more fun thinking about hentai

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>age
Currently the big 2-0, birthday in a couple weeks
>reasons
I don't care if I get called a square/moralfag or whatever but I always believed that sex is something between a married couple, and I'm not in a position to find a wife and settle down. So for now I wait, end of story. Haven't dated anyone either because whats the point of it if I'm not looking for a permanent relationship? I'd rather be a monk living in a mountain temple than give up my morals for some supposed pleasures.

>rating people with numbers
fucking plebian

>Share your story.
I just have extremely low self esteem and confidence.
I consider myself the worst stupidest person of the world.
Even though I had successes in life, I'm educated, I have a computer science degree, I was good at my job, people and colleagues said good things about me, I'm not ugly or fat, women regularly tell me that I'm good looking, etc I still consider myself a failure.
I never think one good thing about myself.
>Age?
39
>Reasons?
Something wrong in my head, low confidence low self-esteem.
For a long long time, since I was in school, I considered asking a woman out for a coffee some sort of rape or sexual harassment.
I was always putting pussy on a pedestal, I thought women were these perfect creatures that are 100% pure.
I always consider myself worse than everybody.
When I walk in the streets I subconsciously compare me to everyone around me and I always decide I'm worse than everybody and the worst person that lived or will ever live.
>Have you already accepted the fact that you'll die virgin?
It seems inevitable now.

My dick has a tight frenulum so if I were to have sex it would most likely rip and the idea of this turns me off completely.
I know there are different surgery to fix it but I'm just not gonna risk my dick looking deformed with scar tissue

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-aaa

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this pluss nightlife and drug culture. the modern day era could go to hell.

Grow up.

Relationships are a two way street, both parties are going to have to make changes to their lives and personalities if things are going to work even medium-term.

If you want companionship put some fucking effort in. Otherwise it's video games and porn again for the rest of your life right?

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Not being a misogynistic sociopath, most likely.

Lowkey just acting like a normal human allows you to fuck girls easily especially at clubs

Age: 40
Reason: i am always on 4 chin so you can guess, also fat fuck with small penis

We all die alone

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Dog. 19 isn't too bad, that's when I lost my virginity and i'm 22 now. I had hardly talked to girls and most didn't seem interested.

If you can get tinder in your area get it, it's really nice for learning to talk to girls even if you don't meet, although it's good for that too.

Met my ex and we had a solid 2 year relationship, had quite a few short things that didn't work and now my current gf, all through tinder.

Just get anyone you know, friends, parents, whatever, to take some decent pics of you. Use them as your pics, write a decent bio, and you're set.

It took me forever (weeks-months)to start getting any matches but eventually they came in. Then once I started learning how to talk to girls and started dressing better it became easy.

Seriously 19 isn't that bad, don't give up but also don't force it (literally and figuratively) just let it happen.

srs

That's the shittiest excuse I've heard, girls would probably think it's cool.

My dick has a scar and it's only been brought up once and she didn't mind it just wondered what it was.

Is this bait?

drugs r good just do the right ones loser

How do you know you're a quick shooter if you've never had sex dude. It can be completely different with emotions and nerves and shit. You might not even cum or get hard your first time. literally don't worry about it and if you do blow early and they're shit about it that just means they suck. If they're cool they'll just laugh or not say anything and wait for you to be ready again.

And what this guy said for sure

Unless you're really tall, 110 kg would still be obese. I'm doubtful that women suddenly started flirting with you at that weight.

>26
>I come from a dysfunctional family that moved a lot so I never had friends, the benefits of friends or learned how to socialise normally with people vs. co-exist with people
>I'm also a brainlet who fucked up his education, so I'm on a late start whilst at the age I should be making moves like everyone else; by the time I'm equipped to do so I'll be far to old a virgin with no game to have a change

If there was an easy way out I'd probably have taken that exit because I know it won't get better next year, or the year after that
It's Saturday night and I'm studying Bivariate transformations while people have fun outside, I know because I can hear them
I don't want sex alone; I want a girlfriend and social life so I'm not lonely all the time and feel miserable all the time, even when I sleep I dream I'm usually lonely and reminded of what I can't have

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>Age?
26
>Reasons?
>Share your story.
I'm not ugly, I'm not NEET, have no disabilities or anxieties, have good job and everything else, I just don't like people a lot and am extremely introverted.
Also I have never seen or met a single girl in my entire life I've wanted to have relationship or hookup with.
The desire to have sex is always there but I just don't feel like there's a single person out there I'd like to do it with.

bump

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you got wut?

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>this 18 year old chick i FUCKED!! :)
You sure sound cool, you tryhard retard

>coping this hard
Posts like these remind me of how lucky I am

Dude....

34

I think my wife is asexual.

I dont fuckin know bros. I think I'm too quiet, I just don't know what to say most of the time so I say nothing at all. I remember back in highschool girls would talk to me and I'd sperg out and just pull out my phone, god what the fuck was wrong with me.
My problems are worse now though, I'm in the military so the girls are disgusting thots and I'm overseas and can't speak the local language

>20
>focusing on education
>Also looking like a fag doesn't help
Hoping when I graduate with a CS degree my income will attract someone.

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lmao, at my fattest i was 430 pounds, gf was 325 pounds, and we fucked like rabbits, i have a 5.5 inch dick. you can penetrate her. trust me. lol

Do having sex like when I was a kid counts?
i mean 8 years old of me

>23
>fat
>terrible social skills
there you go
and yes I probably will die a virgin because I don't see my situation ever improving

>18
>Ugly af and I don't know how to interact with wome

26

Autism, been bullied by women and girls growing up as a kid, very religious since a teenager, etc

I'm more interested in getting married than casual fucking tbh

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maybe you have TOO MUCH confidence. try to tone it down user

>Age
22
>Reason
I'm boring. Little above average looking imo, don't bother to go out, no social circle. And I was pretty frustrated about it when I was 18-19 but now I don't care as much
>Accepted death as a virgin?
I mean I'll likely die unhappy, alone, throw virgin in there it won't matter.

>Age?
16
>Reasons?
I prefer jerking off since all the girls at my school are fucking obese Mexicans or immigrants from Syria
>Hope in the future?
Yeah definitely

Virg here. This thread is fucking confusing. Some people say give up it will happen naturally, then you have the other side that gave up and nothing happened. I think its just based around luck.

27
i'm a asshole
accepted it at 13 when i just could never spell right

You're either in, or out
People in say " it just happens"
People out say "I must be cursed, I give up"

I missed a chance to even finger a girl. Biggest regret of my life. She was begging and I sperged out and said “Nah Im good”

that's where I'm headed.

28.
no social skills and no conversation skills and severe social anxiety as a result of that.
yup.

Some chick wanted me to fuck her but got fucking scared out of my mind. Like I legit had a panic attack and i fucking told her to stop talking to me. So it happens user

>16
You need to be 18 to be in here, get out

21
I don’t give a shit about anything like really life is entirely boring to me
Eh kinda

same, I don't see a point in anything anymore. I don't even know why I still get up in the morning I got literally no motivation to do anything.

>Age?
18
>Reasons?
Because a 3 reasons 1 of them being the ones i want (or wanted) getting cut out of contact unexpectantely (when i was 17 before i could get someone's number she randomly quit one morning from my Job). 2'd is that i don't go for Black women cuz i am racist and i don't want them to have a monkey kid with my semen (which would make their Kids whiter despite i am a Spic) with 3 of them wanting me (one of them being Dominican negro the others being American negros).
Finally being that i don't have alot of space and i don't like the idea of some parent or some snitches finding out (because one Person i am close to has a Boyfriend but wants to suck my dick).
>Have you already accepted the fact that you'll die virgin?
Not happening unless i die in such a short time to where i can't get sex (if i found out i have only months to live i will have sex even if he kills me).

>Having sex doesn't make you cool. Animals have sex all the time. Are they cool?

Holy shit my sides user

I actually agree 100%.

20, botched circ and everyone in my town thinks im a nig

I think you might look better shaved

I’m 45. Basically the same. Maybe I’m too untrusting, and misery loves company, but I suggest to all men that they avoid women as much as possible.

31.
I'd like to think because I don't clean myself.
Kinda. I think eventually I'll buy a hooker. Who knows how long that'll be.

I've come to terms a long time ago that my cousin is the only girl I'll ever be able to touch and that I'll be forever alone without actually having full on sex with anyone.

>age
19
>reason
Lost v card at 18