>I drive him around everywhere, even though he has his own car, because he's too lazy to drive and it "scares him" >He's never horny, and when we do have sex he makes these super loud screams like he's some 12 year old loli >He is indecisive as fuck. I make half of his decisions for him because he's unable to make a decision >He dragged me out into the middle of bumfuck nowhere so he could get an extremely competitive degree and halfway through the fucking program he SAYS HE WANTS TO QUIT >He doesn't do any chores, and then will say shit like "you do too much" and just keep sitting there not doing anything. Like what the fuck yeah I do too much, because otherwise it wont get done >CONSTANTLY guilts me about shit like that, saying that he doesn't do anything. Not even realizing that constantly saying you don't do shit without changing your behavior just means you're constantly reminding me that you don't do shit.
Because I still love him, and this post was a way to release frustration. I'm not usually this angry I just have flare ups, and this is better than hitting things in our apartment or screaming
William Powell
leave him
if he cant fight to get you back then he aint worth it.
Justin Phillips
Other than preexisting emotional attachment, what DOES he do for you?
Tyler Martin
personally i can see how people get like this because i was once the same. letting people walk all over me, until i did something about it. then i fucked her sister, you should do the same. fuck his dad or his brother or something for revenge. then it gives you a reason to dumb his lazy no good degree quitting sorry ass
if you dont take this advice then you too are a fuck up.
Parker Rivera
lmao you actually throw or hit things in your own home? if it gets that bad, it's time to call your relationship toxic, and to admit that it's toxic, because you have very little clue as to what a healthy relationship should be
Lincoln Turner
My frustration is not usually connected to him. I have anger issues that existed before I met him. I don't hit him or even let him see my anger if I can help it
Wyatt Clark
My sort of last one: you ignore she and guilts you into taking care of her You try to take care of her and start to get fond of her again then she pushes you away and prefers a different partner (poly) So tries hard to get you to love her then punishes you for it.
Think I might actually be ready to part from the cycle this time
Camden Gutierrez
Two of my friends have gotten with girls who are poly and they were both dumpster fires of emotional and mental issues
IMO, that poly shit will almost never work out. Maybe 0.05% of people could get it to work, if that
Cameron Morales
then you're just playing the passive aggressive game, which never gets anywhere either; if you can't be open with your significant other about what your internal problems are, then you're not letting them be there for you emotionally And again, if you respond with 'I don't want to burden' or with 'no it would bother too much to share' then you're not in fulfilling relationship, again, leading to toxicity
Easton Peterson
Probably. And I'm probably going to be the one that eventually tanks this relationship because of that and other issues that I'm not going to mention here
He's probably perfect and I'm the one that's creating all the issues.
Blake Phillips
If he's not actively contributing to the relationship, he's not perfect. I'm not some leddit fag talking about toxicity (great song by the way), or some tumblering thinking everything should be about men worshiping their partners; this is just common goddamn sense.
Levi Moore
lol now you're self-victimizing; you're both bad for each other, cause he obviously has issues of immaturity and discipline (who the fuck is scared to drive?) other issues? might as well mention them since no one here knows who you are or will ever know who you are
Alexander Fisher
Maybe but either everyone is just damaged or I seek out damaged people so I can feel useful and comfortable with my own damage. Really not sure But thanks for the reply, good to have someone listen
Sebastian Cox
I go to the bar and play pool. there are usually some other people that want to play so we end up playing partners and I get stuck with the same guy every time. I hate his fucking guts
Kevin James
At the risk of sounding like a gold digger, he is actively contributing to the relationship albeit indirectly. Once he finishes the program he has a guaranteed employment worth ~$85K. I put my degree on hold to come out here with him, and lost my spot at the school I applied to.
So his "job" in the relationship right now is to get his degree so we can be financially stable. Then I get my degree and it's supposed to be happily ever after
Nice try officer
Carson Bailey
Lol if we are going off of credit of promise then you should worship me as a good. I intend to terraform Venus, extend longevity indefinitely, and whenever I get God powers no one ever has to poop again. Plus hot Neko species will exist
Jack Gonzalez
Well if you go through life not trusting anyone on anything, you're going to have a very sad and stunted life.
I don't see how you could manage to have any kind of emotional relationship with someone that doesn't include trust.
Thomas Foster
get the fuck out roastie this isn't your blog
Dominic Roberts
Oh I trust well enough. In this case I believe he would help you with finance when he did graduate. But didn't you say he wanted out of the schooling? I believe intent, I can trust intent. Human functionality is a different matter
Robert Lee
I've been with my girl for five years now, and I realized most of this petty shit is what makes a person and won't ever change save for major life altering events.
I decided to stop hyper focusing on it accept the person, and make a decision on the relationship from there. Is this person in this moment a good addition to my life, or not? Do they bring me joy? Is that joy outweighed by bullshit?
Truthfully it doesn't usually bother me. I think I am just having an anger outburst and unfortunately it became directed at him. This doesn't usually happen. Most of the stuff I said in the OP don't usually bother me. Him not being horny bothers me a lot, but he's stressed so he can't help it. The other stuff I elect to do and usually don't mind it. I think I just need to figure out my anger
Josiah Myers
TITS
Jaxon Harris
OR
Benjamin Perry
GTFO
Parker Parker
My ex fiancee was more than happy to get stoned with me when we were dating but as soon as I popped the question, she decided to stop She also decided that if she going to stop then so was I. Not likely.
Jacob Edwards
Become a competent human being so I can kill myself already, I can't leave you here like this.
Parker Lewis
What a weird ultimatum. Weed is the only thing that keeps my anger and intrusive thoughts away. LSD helps too, but it feels like I'm toeing the line sometimes when I'm tripping. Plus I can't do weed every day and be fine to do other stuff
Brandon Allen
I was going to write out a long post about why you're a dipshit with sub-optimal reading comprehension skills, but I figured it'd be a few reading levels above where you're at
Juan Rogers
Other than being a pot smoking degenerate, you seem to have dodged a bullet full of crazy.
Juan Howard
He's just some newfag trying to fit in. On an unrelated note, OP, show us your penis.
I'm terrified that some fat, pre-diabetes, incel is going after me. I might have to just walk a little faster until you're out of breath or something. The horror.
Hudson Bennett
sounds like you're dating my gf. but maybe a more extreme version because i'm not that pissed.
Joshua Harris
or I'll just wait until you die of aids then I'll shit on your grave
Nathan Evans
Not OP, but you're more likely to die from heart disease before that happens.
